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  1. Possibility: she started a fight so that she could walk out and stay at a friend so that she would be available to stay overnight and have sex Saturday night on her date.

  2. Maybe he needs time to get his head together and get over his relationship. He's probably lonely and horny. Guys tend to get over relationships quicker then girls. They seek rebounds more often. They don't link sex to emotions as they see it as more of a need to be met.

    If you think it'll be too messy then avoid him. He's been honest with you and it's up to you to listen to that.

  3. Wow, I think this is the OOF that really hit home. I have tried saying that I’m willing to risk her not wanting it in order to talk about it and she flat out refuses.

    Thank you for your response it genuinely is perfect.

    I agree fully with the statement of sex is different for both men and women entirely, it’s biologically engrained into humans this way

  4. OP should leave if shes cheated once she'll do it again later down the line if that kid isnt yours walk it starts off tough but after the first month gets easier.

  5. Be cognizant that this tradition has affected your wife as well, she was forced into this.

    In the end be a human being and try to help her as well to see what was/is wrong.

    All the best

  6. Dump your boyfriend. Losing your relationship with your dad isn’t worth staying with your piece of shit boyfriend. You are saying youe dad comes over 12 times a year. That’s too much for your boyfriend? Your father raised you. He clearly has good intentions and wants to be close to you. This honestly breaks my heart….

  7. If you get treated and don’t tell him He will reinfect you.

    Hopefully, sometime in the future you learn to love yourself and break up with him.

  8. thank you so, so much. i nearly deleted the part where i stated i survived abuse when i don't even know his behaviour is emotionally abusive. i'm ashamed of it, but you have taught me that i shouldn't feel this way. your words made me sob a little, it's touching. there will be drama when i break up with him, i know, but it doesn't matter. i want to be as strong as you are! i hope you're in a better place now.

  9. Tell him you’re sorry you can’t afford it and this is not something you want to get into debt for. This is a strong indication of how he will treat you financially throughout your relationship and I would be re-evaluating if your views on finances are matched.

    I would also make alternative plans to spend time with other loved ones if you can.

  10. Thank you for your answers.

    To be honest, I can't remember when she last made a serious gift or gesture. Maybe two years ago, before we moved together. Even then , it was “only” three PS4 games. One for each occasion ( birthday, x-mas & anniversary day)

    She also complains about she is not fully happy anymore since we moved together. she needs more passion, emotions and love, we talked about it and I explained her I'm not a very emotional person, but I do show my appreciation with gifts, my attention and time. I thought it was all said and done but since then, I kinda feel our relationship stagnates and somehow I feel like, she uses me because of my money, since she is really not good in money management. And the recent event kinda flashed it. I don't know if I overacting. Maybe it is best to stop spending so much money on her for the moment?

  11. No where in any of my posts have I said those things. Bills need to be paid, housework needs to be done, is it fair for one spouse (take gender out of it) to pay all the bills and do half the housework? Bills and housework are not 1:1 but contributions of both have to be taken into account.

  12. It sounds like you are struggling with a lot of anxiety and low self-esteem. It’s important to remember that everyone has their own unique strengths and weaknesses, and it doesn't make either of us less worthy. The most important thing right now is to focus on taking care of yourself — both your mental health and your physical health. Prioritizing self-care can help you manage any overwhelming feelings or low moments so that you have the energy to work on other areas like facing challenges in relationships, adjusting to living together, etc. Taking slow steps with small goals towards improving aspects in which you feel inadequate can be helpful too!

  13. A man who can’t wipe his ass properly should not be in a relationship. Also, as a muslim, thankgod for bidets bcs I cant even imagine just using toilet paper to smear shit all over rather than clean yourself.

  14. i recently experience something similar from the other side, an ex/friend reached out to me to apologize for treating me unkindly and ghosting years ago. tbh i always imagined i'd feel differently if they ever contacted me, i thought i would be excited or relieved or something, that we would maybe pick up where we left off or be friends again. but all it really did was remind me of an old wound, and make me realize that i and they are both totally different people now, who have moved on, and that actually just made me feel sad and weirded out for a few days. when it was all said and done, i really would rather they hadn't reached out at all.

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  16. Leave him, leave this toxic situation. This guy has other mental and emotional issues trying to date someone that much younger than him. He blocked and threatened you over an abortion? If you get pregnant again and he fears losing you, he might threaten you to not get the abortion and pressure you to say with him. You have time, opportunities professional and romantic in your future. Don’t let this toxic guy get in the way of those things.

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  18. Yup- I now have a half bro too. Out of any family I have known, in my entire life, mine was the last I expected to have that kind of secret. It’s mind blowing.

  19. Advice: don’t get her pregnant. Advice: don’t get married. Advice: maybe have a very soft and compassionate conversation asking her if she is exploring some unspoken lesbian or bi interests? Move it away from cheating and maybe you’ll get more info.

  20. Again. No. It takes 2 seconds to google it but my father was actually diagnosed with NPD. That’s literally what the personality disorder entails. They’re emotionally underdeveloped in that area. Maybe you’re thinking of people with narcissistic traits like we all have but the personality disorder is a different ball game.

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  23. Yo this dude has actually had you hooked on his fake ass separation and medical journey? This is not a real relationship. On-line relationships are very immature and sometimes full of lies, like this one.

    This is giving African prince scam. And you're the poor old lady who gives out her credit card and SIN number.

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  25. We have five each, it’s the “Friends” laminated list (well, not actually printed out or laminated, but that’s where we took it from)

  26. Yes, it seems controlling.

    She may have big insecurities that she needs to work on. Therapy could likely help with that. She may very well not want other women to be flirty with you and that's fair in a monogamous relationship.

    HOWEVER neither of those are valid or acceptable reasons for trying to control your social life or personal recreational activities.

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  28. What? None of that made sense to me. Did she accuse you of a crime? You were at work when it happened?–whatever “it” is.

  29. I was with a guy like that for 3 years and he gave me an std, I ended up blocking him on everything one day when I found out he was still seeing other people (while telling me he wasn’t). Never even told him why or anything, I just disappeared because he didn’t even deserve an explanation.

    It’s not worth risking your health for men like that.

  30. Ew so you targeted an 18yo at 26 then got mad when she would text her friends? I'm glad you won't take her back because she deserves better than you. Sucks that she's tied to you with the kids though.

  31. dude it's over. you lose. you're a loser. Perhaps in time you can grow up, maybe even be a man someday.

  32. Another option – own it. My friend sent nudes to someone he thought was into him. Turned out to be catfishing and she threatened to send his nudes to everyone if he didn't pay her money. He told her go ahead and he just sent all his friends and family a message saying something along the lines of “heads up, I'm being threatened by someone who has nudes of me. If you receive anything please can you let me know and delete/block them?”. Nothing ever happened once she realised she wouldn't get any money out of him.

    Why not do the same with your ex? Tell ALL your and his family and friends he has nudes of you he's refusing to delete and that you'd appreciate a heads up if he distributes them so you can go to the police. I'm sure more than a few will have words with him.

  33. Most family members I know are in long term lasting relationships. I’ve thought about asking them but sex is such a taboo topic in my family. Maybe I’ll work up the courage to get their advice on it someday

    Thanks

  34. What exactly did he “go through?”

    I'd love to hear more examples, because with only this context, he sounds like an absolute nut job, but maybe we're missing a lot of important information.

  35. To be fair the mods now remove posts with too many upvotes or comments so there really isn't a “top of” for this sub anymore.

  36. Thanks for your input, you are right I’ve never had a proper female friend before so this is all new to me.

  37. So you aren’t stopping your brother from being abusive, are supporting your mom doing nothing about the abuse either, AND you refuse to be honest with your husband, even though HES YOUR HUSBAND.

    I hope he divorces you. He deserves someone way better than you.

  38. Well in hindsight going would have been a stupid choice then, but it was YOUR choice to make.

    He took away your agency. He crossed a line that should never be crossed.

  39. You might ask your mom more about her feelings, even if you don’t agree it could be useful.

    I think it is becoming less and less socially acceptable for men to date much younger women. I also think it’s becoming less socially acceptable for men to have all the power in a romantic dynamic. That’s exactly what these situations are; a power imbalance. And I don’t mean anything against you personally. I’m 27 and I have dated men 4-5 years younger than me and ASIDE from the glaring mismatch in maturity levels, it was much easier for me to establish boundaries with younger people. These relationships never lasted long for me, but I did notice these men were much more open to fitting into a dynamic I authored rather than co-authoring that dynamic with me. It was annoying from my POV but I think many men feel most comfortable when their partner just goes along with what they want. Agreeable women are attractive women. He will notice the mismatched maturity and he will either end it or he will use it.

    No hate to you as you figure out what’s right, I just hope you don’t get critically injured in the process.

  40. I also wanted to add that after 10 weeks you will need a surgical abortion. This is more expensive and invasive, so making up your mind quickly is very important. 1. Call your mom. This is the ultimate crisis and no matter how things were left she would have to be heartless not to be there for you. 2. Leave as soon as possible and go to her. 3. If you're crossing state lines, do a little research if you decide to get an abortion and plan for the state with the best ease of access/ lowest cost. You don't want to deal with extra hoops to jump through in this stressful time. 4. If you need advice, ideas, or help there's a whole forum here who wants to make sure you're safe and out of the situation. If you don't have anyone close by to turn someone is always on reddit haha

  41. FYI if you break up you’re not likely to get back together later. That’s not realistic.

    Talk about it. Hockey season doesn’t last forever. But maybe she’s not looking to spend as much time together as you are.

  42. Your gf has just realized she was lied to and the person she thought her ex was does not exist. She needs time to grieve the relationship she thought they had and other grieving about the person she thought he was. It is very hot on a person when you realize you loved someone that didn't really exist, that was pretending to be someone else, had a relationship that was also a false relationship due to it being based on lies from one person. This has nothing to do with still being in love, it is to do with being duped all those years, putting in effort to something that wasn't real to the other person. Also, since they had started the relationship when she was so young, it doesn't mention the ex's age, but likely a lot of gaslighting occurred and possibly grooming her for the relationship. That is a lot to deal with and process.

  43. Always match your partners energy. If she isn't willing to put any effort in you shouldn't bother too.

    Move on and find somebody who will love that you dote on them.

  44. Anyone who would lose their temper over something like this and kick you out of their place is not a friend. Stay for the drama, if that's your thing, or move on.

  45. After a big conversation, we came to the following conclusion:

    If we meet up in the island after all and go through with the vacation, MIL can't come. If we can't pull off the island, we will likely go visit my parents directly. She REALLY didn't want to go but after explaining that I left my family so she could be with hers, she finally got it.

  46. After a big conversation, we came to the following conclusion:

    If we meet up in the island after all and go through with the vacation, MIL can't come. If we can't pull off the island, we will likely go visit my parents directly. She REALLY didn't want to go but after explaining that I left my family so she could be with hers, she finally got it.

  47. Why am I seeing resources for male SA survivors under a thread discussing how a female person had her boundaries brutally violated from a person she trusted and when she was exposed and really vulnerable and was forced to be the receiving end of something like this without consent?

  48. Can you adopt? It is not a nice procedure. I've watched friends go through it multiple times and it not work. After 30K for one they just couldn't afford it any more. Another did it twice and the embryos didn't make it both times. It was devastating to her and she had months of therapy afterwards.

  49. So what life change have you decided?

    Why did you drink to blackout? Why didn't you stop sooner?

    Are you suppressing some anger because alcohol reduces inhibitions? Do you know what it is and why?

  50. He’s probably ashamed of his parents and didn’t want her to know how horrible they are. Abuse is not an easy topic to discuss and he shouldn’t feel bad abt not telling her the reason he didn’t want to introduce her.

  51. That’s what I don’t get, the whole relationship is based on a lie, the truth will come out and it will likely end badly. That would scare me more than being upfront from the start.

  52. idk if you’re refering to the guy friend you’re sleeping with as being your therapist either as an actual licensed therapist or just “the sex/friendship is like therapy” but either way get an actual REAL therapist who has no personal relationship to you to give you an actual unbiased perspective

  53. I disagree. A man hanging on to feelings for a woman for 17 years? So much that he feels that need to confess those feelings to a new love interest? No that dude was simping and needed someone to tell him to stop.

  54. You should talk to an attorney. Do you really want to stay married to this creep?

    Separate yourself from him legally and financially as soon as possible and then tell her to file a policy report and do what she needs to do.

    Send her a nice gift and thank her for letting you know who you were really married to.

  55. Him threatening to break up with you should tell you everything you need to know about him. Get the abortion, dump him. Date someone that you are aligned with on important issues like this.

  56. She has been cheating on you, and lying.

    Whether or not the cheating was physical it doesn’t matter. The relationship is not one of just friends.

    She lost all possible credibility when she had her ‘talks’ in a parked car.

    So you tell her she stops seeing him. Tell her that her actions are disrespectful to you, and your relationship. Tell her that she has one chance to tell you exactly what she has done, and depending on what she tells you will let you know if it’s worth trying to fix your marriage.

    And tell her that you will be telling her family and friends about her infidelity.

  57. OP is really rushing to reply to all these helpful comments. Keep them coming Reddit because this is definitely not a made up post. Not the naïvety, not sleeping at his when he isn’t there despite being together for just two months. And of course naturally, this is the conclusion one would come to in these circumstances.

    Stoke the downvote machine but also stop being so gullible, Jesus

  58. Thank you for understanding. The sad part os that his family doesn’t see this from my perspective. Their parents provide jobs for all of their children and their son in laws. The only person in the family that doesnt work for them is myself.

    We on-line with his family in hopes that we can buy our own house soon.

  59. I don't think your GF is your biggest problem here honestly.

    Your GF didn't “almost get you shot”. The person with the gun was threatening you both. Maybe your GF wasn't helping, switching to Spanish was a smart move, she didn't understand what went on as from that point so how can she know how smart a move that was?

    Does she on-line in the same kind of gun-happy neighbourhood as your cousin? Sounds like it wasn't anything shocking to you, you blithely recount that you were de-escalating like it was no big deal, but to someone from another kind of neighbourhood, this stuff only happens in TV series and it's not necessarily clear what the best strategy is.

    She didn't help one bit, she's still a victim. Blaming victims doesn't ever help. However provocative she may have been she did not deserve to get shot.

  60. It's very hot to say how or what he's thinking, he could be just trying to start a convo with you and doesn't know how, either way as the other person said, stick to your policy, nothing good ever comes from dating co-workers, it just turns into one giant shit show when the break up happens.

  61. So obviously she isn’t going to leave you to go hang out with him…. This makes perfect sense.

    I’m not going to respond to the frat party thing you halfway mentioned there without any relevant information because that’s not part of the original post.

  62. this is like something you see in a movie when you're in your 20s and think “ha. that's humorous”. it's not something normal people who aren't psychos do in real life…

  63. There could also be an underlying medical condition inducing irrational behavior. A primary care doctor visit is a place to start.

  64. You want to use condoms. Your bf won’t. Dump the bf. The fact that he’s 28 and you’re 20 just makes it even worse that he’s trying to force and coerce you into sex you haven’t agreed to.

  65. I would assume they also want to date for something serious. If they don’t or are talking to someone else then that’s it. They can continue on with their fun. It’s fine, I can’t control others actions but I don’t expect them to also want me to go along with their escapade.

    Personally if you have a kid and are out on dates most nights I would find it very irresponsible but hey it’s not my kid so raise them how you please.

  66. Picture of hi at work only right? Why do you think that and do you think he’s being honest?

    If you can’t connect with people through messaging GO OUT AND MEET REAL PEOPLE.

  67. It's like actually a thing anti depressants cause, I don't think he's watching much pork, he could just adk me for pictures, he had to look up suicide girls when I told him that people tell me I should be one

  68. This isn't a dog problem, it's a problem with the men in your life. Not only your boyfriend who is at the old age of 43 and is unable to fucking look after or train his pet, but he isn't even parenting well, and doesn't seem to be a good partner. He is too old to be acting like such a dumbass.

    And then your brother too lol, why bother having him look after the dogs if he isn't going to do shit.

  69. Well, she clearly isn't ok with having contact with exes. She's allowed to have that view. I personally have the same view but I let it be known very early on. She should have communicated that to you long before you two agreed to marry each other.

    It sounds like there are some serious communication issues going on here that are a much bigger problem than you two disagreeing on talking with exes. Is she keeping the phone on silent, or did she go out of her way to keep her phone from showing any pop up info when she gets texts, etc? I find the second one to be way more sus. I keep my ringer off bc constant dinging annoys me to no end, but my notifications are all on and pop right up on my screen – which I leave sitting out if I'm not on it.

    The fact she just huffs around and won't say what's bothering her is not something I'd be willing to take into a marriage.

  70. Yes. Is that really that weird? Like I want to keep playing DnD in the same group. I want to be able to chat with him when we both end up at the bar. I’m not saying I want to be besties. Yes I’d love to be in a relationship with him, but he doesn’t want that.

    I consider myself imperfect but an overall great catch. He doesn’t want to catch me. To me in this situation, that doesn’t make him a bad person. Totally his loss though! I’m going to swim on until someone sees me for the wonderful fish I am and wants to catch me.

  71. Solution: Everyone goes to therapy, separately and together. Especially your son – you will be doing your future adult son a HUGE favor.

  72. How far apart do you on-line currently?

    Will you or your partner have to leave your current job(s) and find a new one for this move?

    Personally, I believe that getting separate places is the way to go. It may be financially inconvenient, but it removes an unnecessary pressure on the relationship while you're adjusting to all these new things. Feeling obligated to make it work because you and/or your partner just gave up so much comfort and normalcy and familiarity is pretty common in these situations. In my experience, its not a comfortable feeling to have to sit down with someone after your relationship starts failing and help them apartment hunt because they love their new job SO much, and they won't be able to afford the place you got together alone after you leave. Establish some individual stability and enjoy the benefit and excitement of GETTING to see each other instead — Grow together naturally!

  73. So he's obviously never going to introduce you to his friends if he's showing them a completely different person and saying it's you or saying you have massive boobs if you clearly don't….dumb the twat

  74. Things my husband and I do to stake our claim:

    We gas each other up in front of everyone. I share awesome things he does, he shares awesome things I do, we hold hands/sit touching in some way.

    If she makes a rude comment MAKE it awkward. Let there be a silence after and let her rude comment hang out there then change the subject. If she says something flirty to your bf both of you should try every chance to redirect it to your relationship.

    Your bf can also answer questions or comments she may make by answering to the entire group. For instance if he says like “I like pizza” and the girl says “omg I love pizza that's so awesome” then he can continue engaging the topic but not actually address her, but talk to the group as a whole. That way she's not being totally ignored but she's also not being the center of attention.

  75. Boom, this! Even if she makes it right, it doesn't undo her wrong. This is meant to be a lesson for her.

  76. Your GF is at least Bi-curious, possible Bi/Pan or even a yet-to-come-out-of-the-closet Lesbian. The level of emotional closeness she has with this friend is innappropriate given that she holds sexual desires towards them as well. It wouldn't surprise me if they already crossed some lines during that trip. The best case scenario is that you will end up sharing your GF with her friend, and the worst case scenario is that they'll become enamoured with each other and she'll make a transition from you to her (and end up leaving entirely).

    Where exactly do you factor in all of this? Are you genuinely cool with your GF dating another and figuring out her sexuality whilst she continues to stay in the comfort & stability zone of your relationship?

    If you are monogamous and want a monogamous relationship, then don't agree to sign up to this. Accept your GF needs to explore her sexuality and end things before you end up getting hurt by all this.

  77. Yeah it probably is. If not fake that's some outrageous shit straight from the Z category movies.

  78. I was engaged in college to a very feminine woman with a passive, non-argumentative personality. Best thing that ever happened to me was her cheating on me. Met my now wife of 20 years and she has her feminine side but I’ll be damned if she doesn’t tell me when she thinks I’m wrong or being an asshole. I can’t understand guys that seek out meek, passive women. Give me assertive any day.

  79. Yes, this is part of the cycle of abuse. Get in contact with your family or friends and make an exit plan. Make sure he is unaware of this- this is VERY important. Most murders of abused women happen when they try to leave. And yes, he is abusing you.

  80. Thought about it. She’ll literally leave me on read or not even open my messages for days sometimes but she will still post/view my story

  81. High intelligence would tell you that you better damn well turn off the power when doing electrical work

    Depends. Very hot work is done all the time professionally.

    And if you're turning the power off for a lightbulb… bless your little heart.

  82. Think about the child here instead of just the parents

    Impossible ask in this hell sub. Fortunately the courts feel differently, hope these people don't skirt the system much longer.

  83. You’d think the jail thing would be enough ….

    Stop answering calls from his sister, sounds pretty simple.

    What’s he gonna do, leave jail and find out why you’re avoiding him ?

  84. Yeah, it's come up since then tbh but not quite like that. Issue hasn't been having sex, it's been when he didn't want to. I did get upset, not because he didnt want to but obviously because of this issue. He said it was really painful to see how much he had affected me and he was really sorry. He wants to put in the work to make this work. He is trying, that's why I haven't split. I just wanted to see if others had been able to get past something like this and how feasible that actually is.

  85. This dude is completely right except for the part about men not being able to ” understand or abide by social appropriacy.” That first sentence completely skeeved me out.

    A. Men have no excuse for any of that shit. Be a good person and be kind.

    B. I'm pretty sure appropriacy is not a word

  86. Timeline is right. I had to go to a wedding where I was the best man and she knew about that prior to us setting up the lunch date. I decided to reschedule because I had to show up to the event way earlier than originally told.

  87. dude folded in a week? What a weak trash person. I'm sorry for everything you're going through but rest assured you're going to find an do much better in due time. keep holding strong.

  88. Having a new place for both of us would sure help to make it even. We are considering buying her father's house, but maybe its not the best idea, I'll have to think more about the ups and downs. What I understand is to have somewhere inside you can be alone and to plan individual time. As I said, we do a lot together, individual time at least once a week seems fair. + communication in general of course.

    Thank you for your response!

  89. That’s my biggest challenge, is to get her to see what she’s doing. I’ve started documenting photos and recordings of when we fight so there’s no confusion, busy she still doesn’t seem to see what she’s doing as wrong

  90. The signs are there, and you clearly don’t have a trust between you nor does she respect your boundaries, even if she isn’t cheating it’s still shitty behaviour that would be a dealbreaker for me at least

  91. That’s great, now keep that same energy when it comes to getting equal custody! Great dads do everything they can to be present.

  92. You can’t know for sure. But the norm is not revenge porn so once you’re just grasping at straws. You say it’s ALL bad. So then they’d ALL have to be revenge porn which is nowhere close to the truth so, once again, it’s just you looking for a way to push your beliefs on other people

  93. OP, it’s a five month relationship. It isn’t worth all this trouble. Go find someone better.

  94. OP, it’s a five month relationship. It isn’t worth all this trouble. Go find someone better.

  95. She probably feels like she has to apologize to you after she expresses her feelings out of fear you’ll have her committed again.

    This is an excellent insight. Sadly, now the wife has to be aware of this possibility during ANY type of conflict or issue with the OP. Try even just being assertive with someone who you know will do this to you with no warning, like it's nothing. Can she even argue or be pissed at him without being called psychotic and sent to the psych ward? She doesn't know.

  96. the thing is, you STILL don't get to control your little brothers choices. stop being controlling.

    you are using a logical fallacy called the slippery slope fallacy. you don't actually know that the scenario you've made up in your head will happen. stop letting the story you're telling yourself make you so controlling. your argument has very little logic to it.

    again. stop being controlling. you can't control this, so stop.

  97. This happens all the time. When I met my current partner I got one. He was super nice about it and made sure I was okay and he even apologised like it was his fault ?

    I’m guessing he is also grossed out about having a period too. Tell him to grow up

  98. No, do not bring it up again. Do not have these kind of talks with SIL

    Do, continue to work on yourself with therapy and medications.

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