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This is me trying to help. You clearly have nobody in your life to be there for you. Tough love exists for a reason. You want your stuff back? You can’t get it. You don’t want to be responsible for the damage? File a police report even if it’s late and inform your landlord of the situation and that you will sue for damages. You don’t want to lose your apt? It’s already gone it’ll never be the same with the trauma you’ve endured inside it. You are making excuses you just made one for him. Having a mental disorder is not an excuse for being an abusive fuck head. I pray you get the guidance you need because coddling you isn’t going to do anything. You need to get out of that shit and disappear. But good luck since you clearly know what you’re doing ??♀️
Thats different culture and religion for you. Unfortunatly for you. If he breals with that most probably his family will disown him. Very hot but easy choice. You or his family ??
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Hey. He had been home for hours, just hadnt looked at his phone. I text him once at 11pm cos he still hadnt even opened my text since 10am, just asking “is everything ok? just getting a bit worried that you haven’t seen my tx from this morning”. When he didn’t reply for over an hour i then text/phoned again asking for him please to let me know he’s ok as things were starting to go through my mind.
One text is genuinely enough – it used to be like this – I’d get a pic of his beer or his friend or something and I’d know he was fine. It’s only recently he’s stopped and I’ve had to let him know it worries me.
What has his previous birthday gifts looked like?
That’s not a bad idea honestly
Well I’d say go ona date with someone else (don’t have to like them) + gauge her level of jealousy. Or make a joke at some point “I know I would marry u for tax reasons but we’d obviously be sexually incompatible”. Her reaction to that will tell u where u stand
I would have run for the hills.
Why haven't you?
?????
You’ve been together for 5 years. As the old saying goes “Shit or get off the pot.” If you want to marry her then do it. If not, end it. It’s really that simple.
I don’t understand people with your mentality OP you bought a house with her, you guys live! together, I mean, if you online in certain places, the government already considers you married, so I don’t understand why this extra step is so hard for you? It’s like you’re willing to do all the actions of marriage without actually getting married. You would be three for three if you got her pregnant. Now that’s a commitment.
I don’t understand why you feel bad, your girl was holding hands with another guy. Listen to your gut, it’s telling you to move on.
Well I’m in relationship cause everything started off good and I like her cause she’s nice and caring some I look for in a relationship but as time passed she started revealing things and I’m not in it for sex but at times it seems like she is like I had flu once and she kept telling me to come over for sex but more than likely Im going to end it this weekend it’s just too much
Look, this is what my dad started doing before he tried to kill my mother. I am not saying that is what will happen here but it really disturbed me reading this. You have said he has made you feel unsafe before. You cannot make people like this be reasonable. Leave and protect yourself and your kids. It isn't worth the risk. Even if you take the kindest view of this he was still trying to intimidate you.
That's the last thing she wants to do while being with him alone at home.
Either pack your things while he isn't there or get someone to do it with you. Doing it alone, while he's A clearly violent abuser is home is suicidal
She said that she wants to be taken care of etc.
So here is the decision: do you want to do that?
Mind you I often times am paying for her, myself, her son, and sometimes her mom who is disabled and lives with her
So she takes care of her son and her mom. And now she wants someone to take care of her. While I do understand that, it just doesn't sound like a partnership to me. She is giving to one side and wants to take from the other, but where are your needs met? She is not a bad person, an live! probably wasn't fair to her, but that is no reason not to be fair to you within your relationship. Maybe it is possible to scale the whole thing down to her level of spending, more cooking together, doing walks in the nature, maybe making a cooking circle with friends, doing all the fun stuff you can do with less money, and thus be on the same level (that would be my choice in her place i guess)
I wouldn't. You have to be able to communicate properly for a good relationship. Just tell him you want to help. So if he declines and says it's a man's job to provide, ask him if his sexism is more of a priority to him than your feelings. Start splitting more expenses. None of this “he won't let me” if you didn't even ask. He's not the only one who can insist. Tell him you're a team and it hurts you more not to be able to help.
And this is why he preyed on an innocent, barely adult instead of finding a woman his own age. He specifically wanted someone he could control and manipulate. Please leave him, this is not healthy and will only get worse. He is not a good man, he is a predator.
u never had feelings for someone and had to break up because u Had to not because u wanted to? I still like him
That does make sense, it is very hot to do for like more than a few weeks at a time but im definitely willing to try
Glad your son got the final closure he needed. Hopefully he has a great life with his new family.
screaming…don't do it!
Before you do anything else, I’d be demanding a proper explanation. Him saying he doesn’t know why he kicked you out is BS as he knows perfectly well why, he just doesn’t want to tell you – don’t take “I don’t know” as an acceptable answer.
If he can’t even do that, personally I’d be considering a divorce (especially when you consider how suspicious this whole situation is).
She is gaslighting you bringing him up in conversation is just to get you comfortable with him then the escalation of his comment then make you think that she can’t handle it!!! The bringing up the trip don’t you trust me. Know you don’t trust anything about the situation and for her to even think about going with him let alone without you is not about trust in her( am not sure I do right now) it is about disrespect and a lack of respect.
Get a lawyer.
IANAL
She ain't getting full custody. She has history of straight up abandoning her child. No judge in their right mind is going to look at that and go:
“Yeah sure, the kid can live! with her now”.
There will be a custody arrangement. Worst case, shared. But she's not getting full custody.
Get a lawyer. DO NOT speak to her again. Record anything.
It has been years, this will be considered child abandonment. But, I wonder if she went for any custody if the courts would make her pay past & present child support.
Then she should demand child support with back pay right up to birth. If he agrees he really wants to meet them. If not he can fuck off.
Lol, no. She never told him she had the kids. He should only pay back child support if he wants. He told her he thought she would abort and she chose not to tell him otherwise. He shouldn't be punished for her choices. That's your emotional reaction to the situation.
You don’t get to live! the single life right up until the kids don’t need much and then pop in. She gave up so much and he did nothing.
He didn't know he had kids. Are you not understanding that piece? How can he do anything when he's not even aware he has kids. And she chose to go it alone. Again, he told her he thought she would get an abortion. She never corrected him. This is all because of her choices.
I’d lawyer up.
I agree. He should lawyer up. He was kept away from his kids for years. He didn't get to be there at their birth, missed out on so many firsts, and now OP still wants to keep him away. Some women just think they should be able to control whether or not a man is a dad or even how much of a dad he is. SMH
As everyone else said, it was justified. Id actually encourage it, as you don’t know him, or what he’s capable of. I hope he learned his lesson – That said, it should be an unspoken rule and obvious not to do that – esp in a first time meeting scenario. Choking is dangerous.
You’re free to feel that way. I assure you I’m not and am probably pretty representative of many married men. But you can think what you’d like.
Congratulations OP! You dodged a cannon ball! Good luck in your single life.
Cheers!
I think the first step is obviously going to therapy and finding out why you think so lowly of yourself that you are willing to put up with the abuse he put you through. Frankly, the absolutely last thing you need right now is a relationship, especially with a man who has done nothing but humiliate you, abuse you, and treat you like garbage. You need to heal. From him and the circumstances that allowed you to normalize this behavior.
Also, just remember that going back to him could provide you with a little bit of temporary happiness (and even that isn’t guaranteed,) but it will also bring a lot of pain and suffering. Why put up with that? When you could easily find a relationship in the future that offers that happiness WITHOUT the abuse. Or better yet, learning to be happy without the validation of a man (especially one so much older than you and in a position of power over you.) I promise you there is so much to life that will bring you happiness and fulfill you more than an abusive asshole who is old enough to be your dad.
Well, it's simple, his idea of the perfect family he wants to build is the Man at work women at home one. And his desire to fulfill his vision is stronger than logical arguments (like a 89K$ house income DROP) and he is using feeling like you are not trusting him to get you bare foot, pregnant and unhappy.
He waited until she moved in with him to drop these truth-bombs. Very telling. OP start making your plans, things are about to get turbulent.
She could've killed your little girl, and you're still making excuses for her…
What will it take for you to take your daughter's safety seriously? A bruise? A cut? A broken bone?
Okay, this helps a bit!
Asexuality isn't “not interested in sex”. Some asexuals are very interested in sex and have high libido! The only thing asexuals can't feel for sure is sexual attraction (= being turned on by someone). Asexuals can have libido (= the physical 'getting turned on') and can also have the desire to have sex. Reasons to have sex can be enjoying the intimacy, wanting to have kids, doing it for the partner or many other things. But that isn't true for all asexuals – asexuals can be sex-positive, sex-neutral, sex-averse or sex-repulsed. Your wife needs to do more research!
Why does she give up if she tries? Pain? Fear? Disgust?
If she has religious trauma (and it sounds like it), then she needs to see an individual therapist on top of you two going to couples counselling to work through her trauma. She might not be asexual after all, but traumatized.
Wouldn’t explain why OP’s boyfriend hates his female friend’s boyfriend though.
You don’t typically scrub with soap your asscrack, gooch, crotch, underarms?
Not just me. Most women, in general, don’t care to be a living fleshlight.
Sounds like he's a sex addict. If he can't go 2 days without sex, he might have a problem.