"> ">Most Viewed Videos
More videos
35K
35K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
34K
13 thoughts on “Sussan on-line sex cams for YOU!”
Comments
Then by all means, dont. He is trying to change the “rules of the game” with the threat of a worsening marriage. Thats coersion/manipulation. Do not allow brow beating. Hes cheated already and just want a justification to f other people with your “consent”.
My advice? Divorce him. This relationship will do nothing but deteriorate over time.
Good luck.
Well, on U.S. forms like stuff for taxes you have to mark your marital status. If you only have a boyfriend/girlfriend, your marital status is single. So I’m thinking he might be hinting at a proposal
He is trying to get you to “lock him down” because he is such a hard commodity.
But he's not. He is a deeply insecure person who feels inadequate, and so makes up for it by bragging about how wanted he is. He is not wanted.
You have a point. It's been eating at me every single day past the cheating situation. I've figured as much. Thanks for the reply!
The age gap would make her a creep but other than that it's not your business. You're getting really cut up about something that actually doesn't have anything to do with you.
That's perfectly understandable. It's also understandable that she wants things to go slower. You yourself admit things were moving too fast. Maybe try to give it time? That way both of you can figure out how compatible you are with each other.
I’m not even touching your suggestion that she was having an affair,
Is it not possible that she was, though?
This
Knowing if marriage is in the cards is fine. It’s smart actually. You state your relationship goals and understand compatibility. All good here!
The alarming part is her wanting a promise after 4 months. As you said – you haven’t lived together, you don’t know each other in that sense. Early dating has little to do with real life and you basically need to be together for longer and find out.
Her reaction is… well. I do foresee plenty of pressure and rushing in your future with this person.
What you're describing fits (but does NOT conclusively indicate) Borderline Personality Disorder. Specifically Petulant BPD. There is not nearly enough info here to say that conclusively, but it's a possibility.
People with P-BPD can be controlling and become possessive. Do your own research because there's a lot more to it than that but it's just a suggestion. And by the way, none of this means that she's necessarily dangerous. She'll probably never be more than a huge pain in the ass.
At the very least, if you can't feel like you can talk to her about controlling your tables, talk to you manager.
I have a restraining order against my ex and was told several things:
First, she shouldn’t be contacting him. She can, but shouldn’t. This can be seen as baiting him, to get him into more trouble.
Second, DO NOT RESPOND. If it is a full no contact restraining order, 3rd party contact likely isn’t allowed. This means that if you contact her, it could be seen as a violation and he could get into more trouble.
Third, document EVERYTHING. Save the messages, calls, etc. but don’t respond. If she continues to message him, he can apply for a restraining order against her, and probably should. The more proof you have, the better.
She'll never stop comparing you to others – that's a very ingrained behavior that people can't usually break. Ironically, if you leave her she'll tell the next guy you were so much better than he is.
I can say with a high degree of confidence that HR is not interested in a he-said, she-said game of telephone regarding OP's wife, OP's wife's coworker, and OP on the subject of a non-work event
Your advice is a good way to set OP's wife's career at this company back a few steps, though.