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To answer your final question, yes you should abandon ship. Can you really be bothered with a constant back and forth of getting revenge on each other? What’s the point? Life is too short for unnecessary hurt and drama like this.
Wonder how he would feel if the tables were turned and he was faced with you telling him that his religion is fake and that heaven and hell doesn't exist.
Maybe if you couch your response to him in these terms his opinion may change.
What they said may have been out of line, but you took it to another level by combing through their post history and brought up their SO who has nothing to do with this, then later making fun of their shaken baby. You’re such a child OP
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Thank you. Truly. He's a sweet person and will go into “hover over you and do literally anything he can to help”, which, while nice, is overbearing for me. Thanks for the tips, too. He usually does a lot of those, which is extremely helpful, especially since I only have one hand due to needing a cane.
I did. Like a complete asshole I went so far as to take her to Planned Parenthood and pressured her to get it. She came back out an hour later, only with a paper stating that she was 3 weeks pregnant. She was apologizing the whole time while telling me she couldn't go through with it. I just accepted it then and there, thinking that in the eyes of my God, I did what I could and the rest is out of my hands. . . (Agnostic now btw, not that it's relevant, or is? idk…)
On the same token, head on over to all the infidelity subs and you’ll see how many people caught their spouses cheating by snooping in their phone. I guess OP needs to decide which is more important.
Well if that's the only issue with him, just tell him that “not sleeping with other people” means “exclusive” and for you “exclusive” means a relationship. Let him know that you would only want to be in a relationship with someone who seems excited about dating you, and he can let you know if he changes his mind but you'll be looking for someone who thinks you're awesome and wants to date you in the meantime, so you may not be available. Important part here: don't maintain the same level of contact here. You don't have to ghost him but don't be texting him all day. He needs to make up his mind and you need to give him the space to do that. If he doesn't hit you up in a couple days do exactly what you said you would and go find someone who isn't afraid to have feelings and act on them.
PS- You mentioned he had never been in a relationship before so I was wondering if anyone had told him that long term relationships have this whole crazy escape clause thing where you say “this isn't working out, I want to break up” and then you aren't in the relationship anymore? Someone should tell him because it sounds like he doesn't know.
I’m sorry. That sucks. If a person respects their partner they tell them shared histories before they meet people they were involved with. There is nothing more embarrassing than being with a group and finding out from someone else.
It would REALLY bother me. I would need to think about it and make clear that this behavior was not ok. If I loved him, and everything else was great I wouldn’t break up over it.
If there are other things that relate to this that are also nagging at you, you may need to reconsider.
By working on your selfimage so you can actually accept compliments and genuine appreciation. It leaves a void in your boyfriend. Wanting to share your excitement and love for your partner only for them to vehemently reject it because they don't agree with you is.. tiring.
I wouldn't say I'm obsessed, but my looks have been a nightmare all my life.
And tell me about it. I used to be 80lbs heavier. My bodyimage is screwed to this day, I always think I am fat and ugly and can only see my flaws and where I need to lose more weight. But I do my best to really appreciate compliments and to even let them reach me and be happy for the support.
The 78% effectiveness isn’t for when used correctly. That includes when it is used very incorrectly.
For every 100 people who used the pull out method perfectly, 4 will get pregnant.
This means 96% effective when talking about birth control. People sometimes overestimate what “perfectly” is actually referring to in this context, but perfectly just means correctly.
So for reference the typical effectiveness rate is 78% for pullout method and 87% for condoms. Whereas the effectiveness when used correctly each time is 96% for the pullout method and 98% for condoms.
Unpopular opinion and I expect to be downvoted. If your job is to stay home and take care of things (according to your post, it is) then you should be keeping a clean place. Even working full time outside the home, I would never have dishes on the sink…as you state that you do. It’s super easy to run the vacuum everyday, so that would take care of the bathroom floor. If housework isn’t your thing, I’d suggest just going out in the work force and getting a job. Then you can pay for someone to come clean a couple of times a week. Problem solved.
A friend of mine has had some guy in the Netherlands send her money/buy her things for about 8 years now. She has had different long term relationships throughout those years and her partners have never been aware of 'Mr Netherlands'.
He has bought her her laptops, hair extensions, paid her phone contract, new Switch games, transfers money, you name it. They don't go overboard but if she ever asks or needs, he's there to help…
She sends him nudes, or at least she did years ago… I would assume she still does because he continues to finance her when she asks but idk. Maybe he just likes to help with no reward ??♀️.
Last thing I know of that he bought her was the Pokemon Scarlet game. So as you can see it isn't a constant thing and so doesn't arise suspicion in her partner.
Not saying OP's gf has someone like this but just wanna show in response to your suggestion that some people really DO have a 'sugar daddy'!! Even when they've never met before! ?
I could possibly see it as a mistake if he went to get a massage and not realized it was one of those places, and the service was offered towards the end of the massage. Accepting at that point could maybe, possibly be considered a mistake because it was spur of the moment.
But thats not what happened here. He intentionally sought out a massage parlor that offered this service. He went there with the intention of cheating and then followed through with his intention. That is what is called a choice. Not a mistake.
You owe him nothing. You do not owe him your support or your sympathy. If he wants to go to therapy, thats great. You are under no obligation to go with him. He is using mental health as a manipulation point to coerce you into forgiving his intentional cheating.
Addressing each sentence: 1. I don’t think it’s fair because I don’t understand how he’d be okay with me seeking attention from other females when I wouldn’t be okay with the same in return. 2. He specifically said women, and that he wouldn’t be okay with me seeing other men.
We’ve been trying new things because I’ve been introducing him to new things. Because I enjoy being adventurous and he’s more mellow. This was something he brought up to me.
The only problems we are really dealing with in our relationship are mental health issues. We both have depression and his anxiety is way worse than mine. We’ve both had parents die a year apart and that’s taken a toll on us both. When that happened, sex died out a bit and we drifted apart. For the last year, we’ve been working on bettering our relationship with each other. We’re doing alright financially so that’s not really an issue. Cheating isn’t an issue, or if it’s been happening, I don’t know how or when it’s be possible. Did I miss anything?
Well, you have some of the worst spelling I’ve ever seen, and you seem like a bit of a self-centered prick. You haven’t said a single positive thing about this woman you’ve been in a relationship with. Maybe you should consider that you’re not exactly a prize either? Do her a favor and break it off.
To answer your final question, yes you should abandon ship. Can you really be bothered with a constant back and forth of getting revenge on each other? What’s the point? Life is too short for unnecessary hurt and drama like this.
Wonder how he would feel if the tables were turned and he was faced with you telling him that his religion is fake and that heaven and hell doesn't exist.
Maybe if you couch your response to him in these terms his opinion may change.
Doubtful but it's worth a try.
What they said may have been out of line, but you took it to another level by combing through their post history and brought up their SO who has nothing to do with this, then later making fun of their shaken baby. You’re such a child OP
I can't believe there is a possibility to break up because of that issue…its unbelievable
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Thank you. Truly. He's a sweet person and will go into “hover over you and do literally anything he can to help”, which, while nice, is overbearing for me. Thanks for the tips, too. He usually does a lot of those, which is extremely helpful, especially since I only have one hand due to needing a cane.
She is not a nice or caring person. No decent human being would act like that towards other people
Don't take a chance on someone you're THAT unsure about.
I did. Like a complete asshole I went so far as to take her to Planned Parenthood and pressured her to get it. She came back out an hour later, only with a paper stating that she was 3 weeks pregnant. She was apologizing the whole time while telling me she couldn't go through with it. I just accepted it then and there, thinking that in the eyes of my God, I did what I could and the rest is out of my hands. . . (Agnostic now btw, not that it's relevant, or is? idk…)
On the same token, head on over to all the infidelity subs and you’ll see how many people caught their spouses cheating by snooping in their phone. I guess OP needs to decide which is more important.
Well if that's the only issue with him, just tell him that “not sleeping with other people” means “exclusive” and for you “exclusive” means a relationship. Let him know that you would only want to be in a relationship with someone who seems excited about dating you, and he can let you know if he changes his mind but you'll be looking for someone who thinks you're awesome and wants to date you in the meantime, so you may not be available. Important part here: don't maintain the same level of contact here. You don't have to ghost him but don't be texting him all day. He needs to make up his mind and you need to give him the space to do that. If he doesn't hit you up in a couple days do exactly what you said you would and go find someone who isn't afraid to have feelings and act on them.
PS- You mentioned he had never been in a relationship before so I was wondering if anyone had told him that long term relationships have this whole crazy escape clause thing where you say “this isn't working out, I want to break up” and then you aren't in the relationship anymore? Someone should tell him because it sounds like he doesn't know.
I’m sorry. That sucks. If a person respects their partner they tell them shared histories before they meet people they were involved with. There is nothing more embarrassing than being with a group and finding out from someone else.
It would REALLY bother me. I would need to think about it and make clear that this behavior was not ok. If I loved him, and everything else was great I wouldn’t break up over it.
If there are other things that relate to this that are also nagging at you, you may need to reconsider.
That sounds like an exit affair.
She kissed him and told you so that you can leave her and when you didn't, this is her reaction –
She says she needs time.
she says she doesn’t know and that my current efforts to improve our relationship might be too late.
Leave, there is no reason to pull up unnecessary weight in the relationship.
By working on your selfimage so you can actually accept compliments and genuine appreciation. It leaves a void in your boyfriend. Wanting to share your excitement and love for your partner only for them to vehemently reject it because they don't agree with you is.. tiring.
I wouldn't say I'm obsessed, but my looks have been a nightmare all my life.
And tell me about it. I used to be 80lbs heavier. My bodyimage is screwed to this day, I always think I am fat and ugly and can only see my flaws and where I need to lose more weight. But I do my best to really appreciate compliments and to even let them reach me and be happy for the support.
It really is not that hard.
The 78% effectiveness isn’t for when used correctly. That includes when it is used very incorrectly.
For every 100 people who used the pull out method perfectly, 4 will get pregnant.
This means 96% effective when talking about birth control. People sometimes overestimate what “perfectly” is actually referring to in this context, but perfectly just means correctly.
So for reference the typical effectiveness rate is 78% for pullout method and 87% for condoms. Whereas the effectiveness when used correctly each time is 96% for the pullout method and 98% for condoms.
she's not worth it man
Unpopular opinion and I expect to be downvoted. If your job is to stay home and take care of things (according to your post, it is) then you should be keeping a clean place. Even working full time outside the home, I would never have dishes on the sink…as you state that you do. It’s super easy to run the vacuum everyday, so that would take care of the bathroom floor. If housework isn’t your thing, I’d suggest just going out in the work force and getting a job. Then you can pay for someone to come clean a couple of times a week. Problem solved.
But I'm sure the dude who wrote is from his Mum's basement, is a really NiceGuy
A friend of mine has had some guy in the Netherlands send her money/buy her things for about 8 years now. She has had different long term relationships throughout those years and her partners have never been aware of 'Mr Netherlands'.
He has bought her her laptops, hair extensions, paid her phone contract, new Switch games, transfers money, you name it. They don't go overboard but if she ever asks or needs, he's there to help…
She sends him nudes, or at least she did years ago… I would assume she still does because he continues to finance her when she asks but idk. Maybe he just likes to help with no reward ??♀️.
Last thing I know of that he bought her was the Pokemon Scarlet game. So as you can see it isn't a constant thing and so doesn't arise suspicion in her partner.
Not saying OP's gf has someone like this but just wanna show in response to your suggestion that some people really DO have a 'sugar daddy'!! Even when they've never met before! ?
If he wants an equal split, make sure you split everything equally.
I could possibly see it as a mistake if he went to get a massage and not realized it was one of those places, and the service was offered towards the end of the massage. Accepting at that point could maybe, possibly be considered a mistake because it was spur of the moment.
But thats not what happened here. He intentionally sought out a massage parlor that offered this service. He went there with the intention of cheating and then followed through with his intention. That is what is called a choice. Not a mistake.
You owe him nothing. You do not owe him your support or your sympathy. If he wants to go to therapy, thats great. You are under no obligation to go with him. He is using mental health as a manipulation point to coerce you into forgiving his intentional cheating.
my mom is on his side
Get out. He's probably playing Jedi mind tricks on your mom and is trying that with you too
my entire life she's put men before me
kids > partner
Addressing each sentence: 1. I don’t think it’s fair because I don’t understand how he’d be okay with me seeking attention from other females when I wouldn’t be okay with the same in return. 2. He specifically said women, and that he wouldn’t be okay with me seeing other men.
We’ve been trying new things because I’ve been introducing him to new things. Because I enjoy being adventurous and he’s more mellow. This was something he brought up to me.
The only problems we are really dealing with in our relationship are mental health issues. We both have depression and his anxiety is way worse than mine. We’ve both had parents die a year apart and that’s taken a toll on us both. When that happened, sex died out a bit and we drifted apart. For the last year, we’ve been working on bettering our relationship with each other. We’re doing alright financially so that’s not really an issue. Cheating isn’t an issue, or if it’s been happening, I don’t know how or when it’s be possible. Did I miss anything?
Inform HIS work as well since he's harassing her using his office phone.
I like how OP got her ass handed to her and deleted her post. Bye.
Well, you have some of the worst spelling I’ve ever seen, and you seem like a bit of a self-centered prick. You haven’t said a single positive thing about this woman you’ve been in a relationship with. Maybe you should consider that you’re not exactly a prize either? Do her a favor and break it off.