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I (31F) am the disabled one in my relationship, I have a genetic condition that has caused all sorts of issues. I can only walk short distances so use a wheelchair a lot, I am fed through a tube and have a tendancy to faint if I stand up for more than a few minutes. I am also in pain most of the time.
For me and my partner things are still fairly new, he has only known me as I am now and actually when we first met I was a lot more unwell than I am now. He is quite active and has a million different hobbies he enjoys, they are pretty much all things that I am unable to do. But they are the things that give him time away from life to just focus on himself and unwind a bit. I think it's really important for a couple to have some time to do things separately, it helps give you that sense of identity outside of being a partner and a caregiver. Caregiver burnout is a very real thing and you need to look after yourself to be able to give your best to the relationship. When she goes to bed at 8pm can you go to an activity like the gym, a cooking class, whatever interests you?
Can you get some external help coming in like a carer, someone to help her feel less reliant on you? Feeling like a burden is awful, I know, so giving her some independence from you may help the relationship massively. It will also help you feel less overwhelmed by her care needs. I've not yet moved in with my partner but I get 3 hours a week with a carer to help me have a shower etc then 3 hours a week with a nurse to do my medical treatments. It has meant that when the time comes for us to move in together I will be asking less of him in regards to my care, granted it was set up before we started dating to give my mum a break.
Some therapy for you both individually and as a couple is also a good idea. If she's anything like I was when that sick she will feel like she is a shadow of herself, she will feel like she has no identity out of her disability and like life is completely hopeless. It's heartbreaking watching everyone getting on with life while you just lie in bed. Try to work on finding something that makes her feel more like her old self be that bringing her stuff to do her makeup once in a while or booking an at home hairdresser to come out to see her. She likely feels like a patient and not a person. Part of being clingy may be that she thinks if you go out into the world and realise all the things you're missing out on you will leave her, so if you just stay home with her that can't happen. That's something she needs to work on if it is the case.
Ultimately though only you can decide if you're capable of staying in the relationship. It is a very naked decision to make and I don't envy you it at all. It isn't a failure to want to end the relationship though, you matter too. I suggest getting some sort of therapy sorted ASAP so you can talk through everything as well as talking to her medical team to see if she can get some care help to take some pressure off you. Once you've got that in place give it a few months and if you're still feeling burnt out and overwhelmed it's time to call it quits. You can't set yourself on fire just to keep someone else warm.
I don't know about Montana laws, but in Texas, keeping a dog on a lead or chain outside is a Class C misdemeanor with a $500 fine on the first offense. If you do it again, it's a Class B misdemeanor with a $2000 fine and up to 180 days in jail. I personally would tell a SO in this situation to start packing their shit, because my dog isn't going anywhere.
Where are your parents in all this?
Yeah it's naked to say now. Does she owe the money and the parents delayed repayment until they deemed her more financially stable, or did they made something up to coerce her?
If she's getting any kind of STEM masters she'll be able to stay on her own merit.
This is not the place to decide if you have Schizophrenia. Some borderlines do hear voices, but they have a whole load of other symptoms too, and a doctor will need to sort that all out. Either way, you should go in now while you are lucid.
She’s a cheater and a liar. Turn your relationship into a roommate situation where you only co-parent. Split all bills according to income. Split childcare and household duties as close to 50/50 as possible. Work your way to a point where you move into separate households. Do not have sex or have any more babies.
I appreciate you responding, but would you care to explain why? I’m trying to work on myself here if I indeed am not ready.
Absolutely. But he’s not going to walk away. She just needs to be there when it falls apart which it will.