Just tell her that you think she's a really cool person but that you're not compatible romantically or sexually. No need to kink shame or give her feedback.
Sorry I only just got to this one! I wish I had opened this one first, I am so sorry Lonewolfblack.
That sounds awfully traumatic for you. I can't imagine having to deal with someone you love having cancer, and then not being with that person, and then not really knowing how to cope with all that trauma and pain.
I am so glad that you worked on yourself, and then found an amazing woman you could have a relationship with. And I'm certain that those other women were amazing as well, but I also think that sometimes we need to heal. You had a lot of grief and trauma, and I'm guessing you didn't even know how to start healing from it, and likely did what you thought would help you best at the time.
And when you became aware that it wasn't doing that, you started healing yourself – properly, in the necessary ways – and I just think that's really awesome. Thank you so much for writing this all out, I really appreciate it.
i’m sorry you’re so hurt..what she did was wrong..but maybe she has been through this before…and in her mind it was a dealbreaker … your parents are the villains here …try to remember that..and if and when you begin a new relationship…you have to be upfront about how your family is…i know your hurting…but you need to know this..i truly hope you find happiness
I work for a danish company incidentally and I would not be able to just take random time off without a lot of advanced notice and planning. Are they awesome compared to US? You bet. I still have to organize my replacement though.
People have left some good comments, so I just wanted to leave a little suggestion about your work situation. I understand not wanting to work until your kid(s) are in school, however my sister is also a nanny and she was actually able to take her infant son with her to nanny when she felt like she was ready to go to work. She was able to still care for him and he also got to socialize with young kids his age. Just a possibility!
She wants that sloppy joe
You need major therapy because your response is so off it’s astonishing.
Just tell her that you think she's a really cool person but that you're not compatible romantically or sexually. No need to kink shame or give her feedback.
Who does he on-line with?
Not going to argue with that as I completely agree
Sorry I only just got to this one! I wish I had opened this one first, I am so sorry Lonewolfblack.
That sounds awfully traumatic for you. I can't imagine having to deal with someone you love having cancer, and then not being with that person, and then not really knowing how to cope with all that trauma and pain.
I am so glad that you worked on yourself, and then found an amazing woman you could have a relationship with. And I'm certain that those other women were amazing as well, but I also think that sometimes we need to heal. You had a lot of grief and trauma, and I'm guessing you didn't even know how to start healing from it, and likely did what you thought would help you best at the time.
And when you became aware that it wasn't doing that, you started healing yourself – properly, in the necessary ways – and I just think that's really awesome. Thank you so much for writing this all out, I really appreciate it.
Girl block him back and keep it that way.
My goodness this guy is absolutely nuts.
You shouldn’t have lied but I can 100% understand why you felt you had to if this is his insane level of jealousy.
r/DeadBedrooms
i’m sorry you’re so hurt..what she did was wrong..but maybe she has been through this before…and in her mind it was a dealbreaker … your parents are the villains here …try to remember that..and if and when you begin a new relationship…you have to be upfront about how your family is…i know your hurting…but you need to know this..i truly hope you find happiness
You fucked
I work for a danish company incidentally and I would not be able to just take random time off without a lot of advanced notice and planning. Are they awesome compared to US? You bet. I still have to organize my replacement though.
Of course. If I can't trust him to be friends with women, I don't date him.
If anything, I'm more likely to date someone if they're able to be friends with women.
People have left some good comments, so I just wanted to leave a little suggestion about your work situation. I understand not wanting to work until your kid(s) are in school, however my sister is also a nanny and she was actually able to take her infant son with her to nanny when she felt like she was ready to go to work. She was able to still care for him and he also got to socialize with young kids his age. Just a possibility!