Buy your own place and rent it out. That rental money will be yours, as will the equity on that condo or house and then you can go ahead and pay him market value rent for one bedroom in his place. Hopefully he has a two bedroom unit. And then that bedroom is YOURS for office, spare bed, workout room, extra clothes etc. You don’t pay half his mortgage for 1/2 of a bedroom. But split the utilities equally. I’d recommend against splitting food evenly if he eats a lot more than you.
Oh, that's why sent pictures of rings? You think all she wants is to file for a wedding? Im sure. As we all know, most women think of marriage as filing for a paper. Including the girl who is adamant about it and already dreaming about her ring.
This is terrible… im sorry. You deserve better, and personally, I'd have to have distance right now. Give yourself the time to be truthful with yourself… she has a history of getting violent… It's gotten worse, and now she's even hitting u in front of your kids. Do u want them to grow up thinking being abused by their partners is ok? Your kids see more than you realize, and that's why the oldest wants to take care of you bc even a child can realize abuse when it happens regardless of the form of abuse. Wife is crying bc she knows if and when u leave, she will be outed as a abuser… and that won't look good in court if u choose to try and get full custody over the kids.
If it is open relationship why is he afraid to let you know he want to sleep with her? What would you do if he opens up? You won't allow him?
She's lucky that she only got maced ?
Buy your own place and rent it out. That rental money will be yours, as will the equity on that condo or house and then you can go ahead and pay him market value rent for one bedroom in his place. Hopefully he has a two bedroom unit. And then that bedroom is YOURS for office, spare bed, workout room, extra clothes etc. You don’t pay half his mortgage for 1/2 of a bedroom. But split the utilities equally. I’d recommend against splitting food evenly if he eats a lot more than you.
“I helped myself to someone elses stuff and they were pissed off about it, I am such a victim”
Yes you did
Oh, that's why sent pictures of rings? You think all she wants is to file for a wedding? Im sure. As we all know, most women think of marriage as filing for a paper. Including the girl who is adamant about it and already dreaming about her ring.
This is terrible… im sorry. You deserve better, and personally, I'd have to have distance right now. Give yourself the time to be truthful with yourself… she has a history of getting violent… It's gotten worse, and now she's even hitting u in front of your kids. Do u want them to grow up thinking being abused by their partners is ok? Your kids see more than you realize, and that's why the oldest wants to take care of you bc even a child can realize abuse when it happens regardless of the form of abuse. Wife is crying bc she knows if and when u leave, she will be outed as a abuser… and that won't look good in court if u choose to try and get full custody over the kids.