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So why hasn't she left him?
no.
I don’t exactly have anything in mind, but it could be just tell her or straight up go for and try kiss her if I saw any opportunity, kinda depends on how the situation goes. I also accept suggestions.
Are you seriously so un-self aware that you are and have been for quite some time using this poor woman? I almost want to lay bets that she is financially supporting you and/or owns most of the contents of your house (maybe even owns the house/has the lease in her name only).
You may have a lot in common but it sounds like you have some life outlooks that are not compatible the way things are currently, especially when you’re younger and still finding out who you are. Do you think he has an addiction or it’s just his preferred way to socialise?
Like for example, if you both decide you want children, what kind of future can you envision with him? Can you see him dropping the controller for a crying child? to let you sleep in? to change a diaper? You may think it’s years down the line to start thinking about these things but you don’t want to find out years down the line that this may not be the right person for you. Will you end up doing all the housework and looking after the kids thinking that you thought he would change? How far into his life does the gaming invade?
Years later are you going to resent him even though he’s been this way the entire time you’ve known him? Say you want to go on a holiday but he doesn’t wanna leave the pc, do you go on your own or find other friends to vacation with? Are you supposed to just not go and love your life? There’s a lot of questions here only you really know the answers to. And it’s really important that if he has no desires to change his current behaviours that you need to suppress your needs and desires which will eventually lead to resentment. You already feel lonely in his presence, how much would you actually miss him if he was out of the picture? It could be so good for you to get out there and experience what you want to experience, and whether you stayed with him or not I think you should start planning something for yourself, do it for you, no one else is gonna do it for you, maybe a bit of fomo might snap him out of it if it isn’t a serious addiction.
Sorry this was a bit long winded ? I’m a big gamer myself and I know my limits and what’s reasonable for me and my partner. This shouldn’t be a regular fighting scenario. You expressed your desires to do more, so start living your life and doing them without him, you’ll come to some realisations on your own!
Yes this is weaponised incompetence !!!
I told him to me he’s like a breath of fresh air and no matter what happens in life he’ll always make it trough with his hot work. I let him know the things I love. I also never said anything about being upset with him not spending money on me I mentioned he’s struggling and I fully support him. Maybe I wasn’t clear enough, but by I wished he did more, I meant put more effort into finding little things for us to do together, do research and find new spots.
How did you distract yourself since the hookup didn't happen?
Have you told him that you'd be willing to help him out when he's horny, and you don't want him going for porn if you're around and available?
You really really need therapy. Your behaviour is genuinely troubling. It's borderline stalking and you need to realise this isn't a connection you shared this is one you've made up in your head.
You need to get help because this isn't normal behaviour and I can see it getting worse and spiralling into something so so much worse and potentially dangerous.
Lol kind harsh but may be u r right ..?
Don't move in. Why are you getting married at 19 that is not a good idea? Do you not want any sort of life before you settle down? Also animals “plural' that sounds like another bad idea
I had an impression that wasn’t just jumping to the “he is gonna cheat” mentality.
He is 18 and you are 20, he could have friends as young as 15-16 coming to this party. He may be trying to limit the guests to below 20 so that the younger people are more comfortable (or that their parents are more comfortable with them going)
If he has other 20+ friends coming than this theory is tossed out the window.
Otherwise I would say that this is going to blow up in his face. His friends are expecting to see you. I doubt that he has been telling them that you aren’t coming. So when you don’t show up, he is going to look like someone either fighting with their SO or someone who is stepping out on their SO. Then when his friends reach out to you and you confirm that he asked you to not come, his friends will really think he is being a cheater.
That can really burn bridges.
As to what you should do right now, trust hasn’t been broken. But it has taken a beating. This could be a failure in communication (hello 18 and can’t communicate) or this could be a relationship ending breach of trust.
I would suggest a conversation:
“I respect that you don’t want me at your party and I’m not asking you to change your mind. I am however now in a position of trying to guess your intentions. That usually ends badly, so I’m now going to ask you what your intentions are. When you asked me to not attend your party, I felt like you waited until the absolute last minute to tell me. I was left questioning, is he ashamed of me, does he want to hook up with someone else at his party? Is there an innocent reason for this request? I feel so stupid telling his friends how excited I was to see them at the party. This is your opportunity to help me understand what your intentions are, because this feels like a violation of trust.”
This uses the “I feel” statement. “When you (action), I feel (your reaction)”
This is one of the best ways to avoid casting blame. Your BF may have not even considered the implications of his request and could have no idea that most of his friends expect to see you there.
Open the door for the conversation. If you don’t talk about it, then the hurt and resentment will grow and eventually it will end the relationship. As you said, it is a new relationship, you are both young. But these are good skills to practice because one day you may be having this conversation with the love of your life and getting it right will depend on having practice now.