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They are in their 20s. We don’t know the whole story . His mother may not like OP for different reasons.
I think there’s not really a right or wrong answer to this question.
Particularly when you’ve grown up with an artist or creator, it can be really easy to kind of seperate them and their art. I mean there’s millions of people who love Harry Potter, and JK Rowling is a piece of trash. If we went through and cancelled every piece of media created by someone with questionable morals or who was an asshole, there wouldn’t be much left.
But also, something to remember is that your wife has probably been in the position of the women he’s hurt or known women who have. If the story reminds her of someone who has experienced similar in her personal life, or even is just (rightfully) against her values, of course she wouldn’t like that your money, even the slightest amount, is going towards the popularity of the artist.
Maybe make a compromise and say you understand she doesn’t want you to support them, but you’ve grown up with the music and the person vs the art are seperate, and then pirate the songs rather than pay spotify.
But also, the way you talk about this isn’t great. “Metoo’d”??? You mean was praying on minors? The language you use matters, and if you’re speaking to your wife about the issue like this it’s very dismissive of it and again, what a lot of women experience.
I think OP is saying her husband and his brother are identical twins. So I’m pretty sure a paternity test won’t be able to distinguish who’s the real father. This whole situation sounds like it’s straight out of a novel lmfao
Has your wife had her hormones checked recently?
It’s not uncommon as we enter into peri menopause to have a sudden rush of baby fever. It passes thankfully but the feelings can be intense.
He's paranoid and admits to being a bit of a narcissist
Have you considered talking to someone about this, like a mental health professional? Because you sound the same way I did when I wasn't having my anxiety treated
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Its crazy how people misuse this word on this sub.
Your not vowing to be loyal in sickness or in health, you are vowing to care for the person in sickness and in health.
So you think it’s alright to coerce someone to give consent?
Dude. Get a sitter and a hotel room. We’ve seen posts on here about kids who have grown up with swingers as parents and it f’ed them up. Like their sex buddies were more important than the kids.
She’s no good for you. You already know that it’s time to detach. Take care of yourself brother.
but that is up to the couple to decide if a drunken hook up 10yrs ago is worth throwing their relationship away over.
How about perpetually lying for 10 years?
If she didn’t why would she have chosen him for the last 10yrs?
She took his choice away. He didn't choose her, she lied to him.
Of course he doesn’t wanna leave when he has free lodging from when he comes back from his fantasy world.
Put his stuff out the door or call his family to come pick them up before he arrives. All communication about the kiddo can be via a lawyer, no need to go back to this hobosexual.
Yes, you're a fool to talk to him. Block him and move on. What's going through his head is “hey, she probably still has feelings for me, she'll be an easy rebound.”
You know his excuses are ridiculous and just highlight how totally selfish he is. Are you going to stay with him, just hoping he will change after three years, where he is actually getting worse?
It wasn’t constantly or once a day every day. It was more like once every two weeks more or less when I happened to remember it, sort of checking in and asking if he got around to it yet. Does that still count as super concerned though? Trying to work on it.
If it's important to you, get help. Find a therapist and talk to him. It's the only way you'll know what he's thinking, and it's also that only way he'll know where your head is.
Instead of inviting them to a going-away dinner for him, maybe you can suggest a going-away dinner. Bring it up to them in a “hey, what if we do this for him” idea instead of a “hey, im doing this with him, you should come” kind of thing.
Girl, come on! He's 32. He knew better already!
Yes, Thank you so much for this perspective I wasn’t expecting to read this. Not opening up is a struggle, I still don’t know much about his last relationship or his past traumas, is difficult to help him when I don’t know what is hurting him
I’m sorry where did I say there is no violent crime in the US?
The amount of absurdity in this thread is astounding.
You can’t just “waltz” into kids’ lives after not knowing them for over a decade (age wasn’t given, but a comment said they were starting high school, but at 11, but he’s an ex from 14 years ago? I’m assuming they are around 13-14 ish) he’s a stranger.
Those of you bashing OP for moving on after telling him she was pregnant,— wtf is wrong with you. She informed, he said they weren’t his, that she’d abort anyway and washed his hands of the situation. She’s under no obligation to chase him down, she did her part by informing him.
MOMMA OP. Lawyer immediately. Not just for you, but someone to represent the kids, separately from you. In my state I contacted a family attorney, not because I wanted to block him, but because I wanted to do it right,- and they had the state appoint an attorney for my kiddo. That attorney had a “reintroduction plan” laid out where first both parents would go to something similar to mediation, address concerns and come up with a plan on how to reintroduce him into the kiddo’s life. He didn’t show for any of the sessions (which were scheduled to his preferences), and ghosted everyone including his attorney. Honestly, it was kind of super disheartening because I always wanted the kiddo to have some sort of relationship with their bio dad,- but clearly he wasn’t/isn’t interested.
Additionally, there’s a whole process where they generally establish paternity. I would imagine in your case where he claimed initially that they weren’t his,- the courts would force the issue to establish paternity first.
I will. I appreciate your input and reply
She tries to get a rise out of ex by discussing feelings for OP.
He commented on the current state of the vagina, didn't even call it ugly or anything.
The sensitivity here is off the charts. Tbf I would even more pissed off if my 25 YEARS OLD girlfriend shared such a benign misunderstanding on Reddit for everyone to call me an asshole.
Here we are with the iNsEcUrE lol
You’re kind of all over the place here.
You want someone to take charge—well it’s not going to be your young kids taking that on—you mean you want your husband to take charge.
And you want to feel that new relationship energy where it’s all exciting and lovey dovey but that isn’t going to be with your husband of many years because…..that’s not how it works.
Then you go into the dom/sub thing like it would solve both of those issues (it won’t) and also say you don’t want that.
I think you two need couples counseling. And maybe some individual therapy for you too because you’re doing the martyr thing and have some kind of emotional “hole” that you’re trying to fill.
I dunno. If it were me (44F), I’d tell husband he needs to plan some shit for the kids and run the show. If you don’t ask for what you want, you’re not going to get it.
As for the lovey dovey stuff, I just don’t see how you do that without both being on the same page and trying. I think that’s where couples counseling may help so you can communicate better what you each need/want.
You have two options
Stay with her and be unhappy because sexless relationships makes men and women equally unhappy and yes feel unloved. Break up and get a different girlfriend or f buddy. You are only 18 buddy.
This bullshit “I feel like I can never make new friends with girls without feeling guilty. Because I know how you would feel about it.” is exactly what my ex-boyfriend whined to me, close to tears, when he “befriended” his neighbor. In the meantime, they have a child. Don't give a damn about that line of reasoning.
Yeah nooo. If my husband told me he still associated with someone who did that and calamine’s he was “changed” he wouldn’t be my husband anymore. I’m sorry OP but justifying his behavior makes your bf almost as bad as the dad.
Reading this thread I was like “is her history really that bad?”… yes, yes it is. Yikes
oh no yeah that’s been my approach to this. If the cycle continues I will not be a part of it, that type of deal
Did you ever think he could have been potentially raped by a man and that amount of trauma he isn’t ready to share with you yet?Because it sounded like he threw hints out,but you messed up big time and you believed his mother over him. Might take some heat for this but oh well the truth is the truth, but women are responsible for 85% of ALL consumer habits in the entire country. This is why most marketers target women and focus on the women audience, it’s easier to convince,trick, and manipulate women. It’s not their fault they’re designed this way if anything it’s whatever God’s fault but reguardless it is what it is. Your best bet now is to be so perfect he has second thoughts. I mean perfect and for a long time. Feed him everyday, make sure he’s not horny, admit what you did, where you went wrong, why you now know it’s wrong, and admit you betrayed him. Then just keep being perfect and you might have to be his emotional punching bag for the pain you caused