You've made the right choice, this happened to me and I gave him another chance only to find out a few years down the line he's still doing it, get out now .
We learn from mistakes. Accept the fact you do and will make mistakes. Understand why/how the mistake was made. You can't change if you ignore your faults. Otherwise, you're living in a loop of idiocracy. Miserable.
Sorry about the age confusion. I wrote the title wanting to obfuscate the actual ages in case she sees the post. Though she'll probably know it's about us from the title anyway.
I don't care if I'm her only option, all I want is a good upbringing for our child.
I have downloaded the billings and will pass them forward, thank you. I have no problem showing my socials but I worry he will think I deleted the chats etc. I have added an update about the convo with the texter if you have any additional advice it would be appreciated!
It seems like he said it pretty clearly. Don't take it personally! Clicking with someone as a person and on kinks is tricky sometimes.
FetLife is weird for dating. Go to sloshes and meet people would be my advice. Lots of nice folks.
Good luck!
You've made the right choice, this happened to me and I gave him another chance only to find out a few years down the line he's still doing it, get out now .
I'll wait for the update that explains why you'd want to be with her.
You are 21, at that age career > relationship. If your bf and you are meant to be, he'll be supportive and at least try long distance.
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Now she can be OUR gf!!
oh please do explain
Think about what you will see in the kid for your life. Listen to your hear you can still adopt a child.
She isn’t struggling. He’s helping her pay her bills. I’m sorry for your circumstances. But that’s not what is going on here from the sound of it.
You toss her on her ass and wash your hands of her. Anything else is an affront to your self-worth.
Did OP state that she was a veteran or had a horribly traumatic childhood?
I would break up with him
We learn from mistakes. Accept the fact you do and will make mistakes. Understand why/how the mistake was made. You can't change if you ignore your faults. Otherwise, you're living in a loop of idiocracy. Miserable.
What is this nonsense business where stickers are an integral piece of things??
Sorry about the age confusion. I wrote the title wanting to obfuscate the actual ages in case she sees the post. Though she'll probably know it's about us from the title anyway.
I don't care if I'm her only option, all I want is a good upbringing for our child.
I have downloaded the billings and will pass them forward, thank you. I have no problem showing my socials but I worry he will think I deleted the chats etc. I have added an update about the convo with the texter if you have any additional advice it would be appreciated!
Case in point.
Tell him he isn’t the father. Tell him it’s the other guy and then block him.
Yes
That seems like a really clear cut and obvious way to break up with you. I wouldn't do anything but block her and move on.
I am not sure if he’s talked to a doctor, I haven’t talked to him about it. I agree with you though and appreciate this advice!!