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I'm not saying it's entirely irrelevant, I'm saying bringing it up to her isn't going to be productive and will just make her feel like she's having her past thrown in her face. He doesn't know if she was ever the initiator with people in the past. There's nothing to be gained from bringing up either of their past sex lives, the discussion needs to be focused on their current one with each other.
The story she's telling you doesn't really line up.
she was part of a three way relationship with a male and a female. Supposedly it was just a sex thing.
double date with the other two from her thruple just so they could chat
she was just gonna go talk and catch up
the plan changed to their house
That's a lot of 'just chatting' for 'just a sex thing'.
She's been lying to you constantly.
You should be okay, especially with an IUD involved.
You should definitely not go. He invited you. He knows your financial situation. If this isn’t feasible then just say no.
Please don’t go and be unable to enjoy because of your worries, because then is it even worth it? Will you have to also bring gifts? Food and travel? Miscellaneous?
Your partner is operating from a space of financial privilege, and does not understand your situation, as it isn’t a reality he has lived. So I will communicate with him how wild that amount might be a drop in the bucket to him in that, though you work in the same physical spaces what you earn is very, very different.
Starting with an honest conversation about the trip and how you’ve felt/feel to open communication on the topic would be a good start. Though I would not put off having this conversation with him as the holidays are quickly approaching.
Well then say nothing. You can't make her listen, you know she is going to get defensive, you have already tried and got nowhere.
I understand completely what it feels like watching a friend doing this and feeling useless because you can see what they can't. She doesn't want to see it so you can't make her.
You can decide to not listen to her for your own mental health or you can decide that you will. It is your choice but if you push it, even if she knows you are right, you may lose her completely because she is not ready to hear it.
I have told friends that I do not want to know after trying to make them see sense. Some I am still friends with, some I am not but for my mental health I had to put a stop to them using me as a sounding board when they had no intention of making the changes to protect themselves.
You’re so right, thank you for that ?
For the edit: You can just say you are not interested and you felt you didn’t click. If he asks for more, you can give vague answers like “I just don’t feel it” etc, which I think is technically true. This way you can let him go kindly and avoid a possible argument.
You even said it yourself – losing weight / skills / money. Maybe she noticed those things and gained an attraction?
That is a possibility that I had considered, but she doesn't seem to be that type of person. But then again, understanding a person is an extremely difficult task.
But I thought she never pursued the guy she liked? Maybe she tried and got rejected and is now falling back onto you?
She never pursued the guy she liked. After the rejection, her friend told me she is too nervous to even talk to the guy. In fact, her friend was the one to advise me to work on myself and assured me she would ask me out in due time.
Maybe he comes from the distant past and is an English lordling from medieval times, then I guess it would make sense.
Maybe he comes from the distant past and is an English lordling from medieval times, then I guess it would make sense.
I’m sorry but he totally cheated on you. I know you are probably in denial but you know deep inside how this happen. Be thankful that this was only chlamydia and not herpes. I wouldn’t trust him ever.
Well, those are a bit too many assumptions. First of all, I am not even the first who brought up the idea. But that doesn't matter anyways because I liked the idea. So we, as in me and my girlfriend, talked about the topic many times. And yes it was a huge, enormous mistake doing it basing of fantasis without eveb researching and reading actual experiences or being prepared for it going wrong. We didn't even have a safeword, so yea definitely unprepared.
Thst said, both in the post and replies I assumed full responsibility and never blamed one bit, I'm actually the first who feels like shit because she's hurting because of me. The financial part it's just an assumption again, we both work and mske our own money. And even if so I'd never ever let her suffer financial consequences for my own faults.
Not 100%. I have attended various different sex parties in the UK and know lots of couples where they only 'play' with other women, not men. It's very common.
In the more hetero-centric swingers scene, a lot of events don't allow single men and will set up the ratio for this preference.
We're not disagreeing.
And while it would be great your lady to just tell a guy “I'm not interested, I got a man”, fact is there are too many guys (and women) who see that statement as invitation to push harder.
Trust me, I know. I literally had a guy quote from the song I mentioned above when I said I had a man and he said, “What your man got to do with me?”
You seem to think saying “I have a boy/girlfriend” is enough to shut a conversation down. I am telling you for a fact that it is not. That, in fact, some think it's an opening to a negotiation or an invitation to push harder.
Hell, there are lesbians who tell a man “Not interested and I have a girlfriend” and some guy thinks that means he can talk her into wanting dick.
Also I just want to you see why saying what OP's man said ain't a bad thing. I'd hate for you to feel some kind of negative way about a woman who loves you and is excited by you saying that to some guy she's turning down.
Basically, I don't want to see you making this post that OP made.
Your mom likes your beard? Why is that important at all?
There is 1. 1 shelter for men in Australia for domestic violence. I doubt there’s many more in the US
I am trying to get into that “acceptance” stage
I dated a man exactly like this years ago. Serious conversations of any nature were always extremely one-sided. He'd beg time to think about things I'd said, and then just… never do it. I'd check in days or weeks later, and he always avoided the topics at hand. He hated conflict, so he just neglected to care about them.
Trust me, it doesn't get better. He might love you and might care about what you have to say, but he can't meet the need you have for productive conversations.
Leave now. It's kinder to yourself to rip off the band-aid if this is how you feel now, because you'll feel neglected eventually.
Sadly it does…while there is certainly still feelings there is a lot more trepidation in his words
Mine was 30k yearly as of 2020. Lives with parents plus maybe another 20-25 in upkeep. 100k makes me cry. My total on graduation was 107.
I hope you rot in hell. Your actions are unforgivable. You destroyed your daughter.
She may just assume you already know, so I would not hesitate to get the conversation out of the way, just don’t bring it up during sex, there’s likely a reason she doesn’t do it anymore and you don’t want to trigger any trauma the industry might have caused her.
This is like a field of red flags 😀
and she assured me to trust her
whenever a person says “trust me”, DO NOT TRUST THAT PERSON
and that there’s nothing to worry about
literally every time a man/woman says that, the opposite is true
Do not associate with that girl.
That's really unfortunate, I'm sorry. Most marriages do not need to begin with therapy, it's good that you're trying to make things work. But for your own wellbeing, you'll need to be able to recognise when enough is enough. Set boundaries and if they're crossed, don't ignore it or move the boundaries. It's easy to give up freedoms but an absolute slog to try and get them back later. He can't talk to you like that, he needs to treat you like an equal, not like a ward.
Are you his wife?
Somehow I doubt that. You just picked all the Southern states.
I don’t understand it completely either. I mean 20 years is a long time.They were in high school. Kids do dumb things. But he said he loved his wife so I was just making suggestions to spice their marriage up. He did nothing wrong. There has to be more to the story he said trauma. She needs to work on her trauma so she doesn’t keep going back to 20 years ago. It’s not fair to him I agree. But you can tell his love for her so I was suggesting things so this doesn’t happen again.
Basically our third friend developed a crush on my BFF that lasted years. They made out a few times like 7 years back at parties but my BFF thought it was like fun and games while our other friend had serious feelings that never got brought up or resolved. Fast forward to us all living together and our friends new gf finds out about all this and it leads to serious problems in their relationship. My friend lied a lot to her gf and to my BFF and to me and it got messy until she moved away. It was just a headache of a situation for me and my BFF cus she thought we were all genuinely friends. We even talked about our past for the first time in years just to make sure there was nothing “unresolved”.
Like I said in the post, it wasn’t a big deal to my or my friend. I understand not wanting to have a partner who keeps in contact with exes of any kinds, or people they’ve been intimate with, but this problem occurred deep in to the relationship. And he knew about it from the beginning. So excuse me for feeling a bit betrayed by hearing his stance on this so abruptly. I posted because I was hoping someone would relate and speak on how they got past it or something. Cus obviously I don’t want to lose my boyfriend who I love.