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Give it time. It’s still new. When this goes on long enough youll adjust. It’s like with anything new, it’s bright and shiny in the beginning but then you get use to it and it either becomes part of your life where you adjust to how it is, faults and all, or you’ll start to notice problems to the point youll realize it doesn’t work for you.
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Are you sure you want to marry someone this selfish? I feel like this is a glimpse into her very selfish future. My husband used to interfere with my sleep. It was one of the factors in our divorce, years later. Don't let this fester.
He's made me feel safe while I've learned to manage trauma and flashbacks, shown me how to say sorry (I never had a relationship I could, and he started doing that in our relationship). He cares a lot, he struggles to do things but he does try really nude to work on things. He has changed over time, for example doing much more cleaning now than at the start of our relationship.
You failed to mention the frequency of these texts. I'm guessing there's more to this story.
I'd like to hear your wife's version, including how much money you're volunteering to spend on the car (and other stuff,) that excludes input from your wife.
Firstly, I’m really sorry you went through that, mate. That’s a tough cross to bear. Know that there are people that will want to help and hear you out. If you can afford it, therapy may do wonders. If not, just don’t let this current negative experience prevent you opening up to other people. This just isn’t something you need to deal with alone.
Secondly, that’s a very cold and unusual response from your girlfriend. Seems advice on this sub is always to just leave your partner at the first sign of trouble but in THIS case, it’s warranted. Don’t stick around and deal with that rubbish. You’re too young and have too much life left to online.
Anecdotally, a friend of mine was once dating a girl who wanted to go shopping immediately after he found out his father died. When he said he didn’t feel up to it, she said, “Yeah, but you’ll get over it.” Callous, cold response. He stayed with her and it never got better. He ultimately regretted it. Choose wisely, my friend.
In all likelihood, your next girlfriend will treat you much better. Don’t be afraid to get a new one.
Definitely speak up. Say something like, “I would appreciate it if you'd quit trying to get alone time with MY boyfriend, and please quit touching him. You're stepping over the line with your behavior.”
Just be aware….he will likely try to start something with you again when he wants another opportunity. He will likely be very deceitful in his intention, as if he's serious about you this time. Common player tactic…..
Yes, I admit I may have passed an incurable STI to him but like majority of the population has it and it goes away on its own. It’s one of those STI that are almost impossible to avoid even tho I am fully vaccinated against it.
My cousin's MIL did something similar. She bought the EXACT dress that my cousin got for her wedding, but in a different color… train and all. It was tacky as fuck. She was told in no uncertain terms that she would NOT be wearing it. The worst part is that he hadn't seen the wedding dress, but after getting confronted by everyone, she showed hers to him saying things like “I don't know why they don't want me to wear this!” and trying to get him to give her permission. His first look was basically his own mother. Gross.
She did manage to get life-sized cutouts made to go on some stairs in the venue of the bride and groom. 9 of her precious baby growing up and one of the bride and groom together… none of the bride besides that one.
The whole family still talks about how almost incestuous it was to try to dress like your son's bride on their wedding day. Their battle with boundaries is still ongoing, but my cousin is a boss and is winning the war.
Yeah that would be a massive red flag for me. I wouldn’t be able to trust him, something is not right if he’s going after 18 year olds when he’s thirty. That invites the assumption that he’s not after an equal partner, just after looks and possibly someone he can control
Sounds like your teasing game went too far and she went too deep in retort.
I would stop this teasing behavior until you both clarify that things still need to be respectful. Apparently, you can't joke about everything with each other.
Men flirting with women is expected, but women being flirtatious with a man is rare, he knows he can easily get a womans sexual attention. And this will sound assholish, but you are a 38yo mother of 2 who is aiming to what seems to be a HVM (who I asume, doesnt have kids).
Sorry to tell you this, but you are no longer the most atractive option at his reach. Being fit at 38 is not the same that being fit at 28, specially after two preagnacies. To some men, the fact that you have children is a nude pass, even if you are the only single woman in town. You being a successfull business owner is not something that men find sexually appealing, it doesnt add value because at your age you are expected to be fully independent (AKA a functional adult).
As you can see, I wont pamper your ego like other commenters did. If you dont want to date ever again, do it, but if you want to keep trying, understand than options for a LTR will be far more scarse (in quantity and quality) than years ago.
Give it time. It’s still new. When this goes on long enough youll adjust. It’s like with anything new, it’s bright and shiny in the beginning but then you get use to it and it either becomes part of your life where you adjust to how it is, faults and all, or you’ll start to notice problems to the point youll realize it doesn’t work for you.
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Are you sure you want to marry someone this selfish? I feel like this is a glimpse into her very selfish future. My husband used to interfere with my sleep. It was one of the factors in our divorce, years later. Don't let this fester.
He's made me feel safe while I've learned to manage trauma and flashbacks, shown me how to say sorry (I never had a relationship I could, and he started doing that in our relationship). He cares a lot, he struggles to do things but he does try really nude to work on things. He has changed over time, for example doing much more cleaning now than at the start of our relationship.
You failed to mention the frequency of these texts. I'm guessing there's more to this story.
I'd like to hear your wife's version, including how much money you're volunteering to spend on the car (and other stuff,) that excludes input from your wife.
You’re 24 years old and employed, you can get your own place and manage your own transportation.
Troll. Needs better writing.
Firstly, I’m really sorry you went through that, mate. That’s a tough cross to bear. Know that there are people that will want to help and hear you out. If you can afford it, therapy may do wonders. If not, just don’t let this current negative experience prevent you opening up to other people. This just isn’t something you need to deal with alone.
Secondly, that’s a very cold and unusual response from your girlfriend. Seems advice on this sub is always to just leave your partner at the first sign of trouble but in THIS case, it’s warranted. Don’t stick around and deal with that rubbish. You’re too young and have too much life left to online.
Anecdotally, a friend of mine was once dating a girl who wanted to go shopping immediately after he found out his father died. When he said he didn’t feel up to it, she said, “Yeah, but you’ll get over it.” Callous, cold response. He stayed with her and it never got better. He ultimately regretted it. Choose wisely, my friend.
In all likelihood, your next girlfriend will treat you much better. Don’t be afraid to get a new one.
All the best, brother. I’ll be thinking of ya.
Definitely speak up. Say something like, “I would appreciate it if you'd quit trying to get alone time with MY boyfriend, and please quit touching him. You're stepping over the line with your behavior.”
No problem
Just be aware….he will likely try to start something with you again when he wants another opportunity. He will likely be very deceitful in his intention, as if he's serious about you this time. Common player tactic…..
Yeah it was, thankfully he no longer lives with us. He’s mooching off someone else now.
Yes, I admit I may have passed an incurable STI to him but like majority of the population has it and it goes away on its own. It’s one of those STI that are almost impossible to avoid even tho I am fully vaccinated against it.
My cousin's MIL did something similar. She bought the EXACT dress that my cousin got for her wedding, but in a different color… train and all. It was tacky as fuck. She was told in no uncertain terms that she would NOT be wearing it. The worst part is that he hadn't seen the wedding dress, but after getting confronted by everyone, she showed hers to him saying things like “I don't know why they don't want me to wear this!” and trying to get him to give her permission. His first look was basically his own mother. Gross.
She did manage to get life-sized cutouts made to go on some stairs in the venue of the bride and groom. 9 of her precious baby growing up and one of the bride and groom together… none of the bride besides that one.
The whole family still talks about how almost incestuous it was to try to dress like your son's bride on their wedding day. Their battle with boundaries is still ongoing, but my cousin is a boss and is winning the war.
Yeah that would be a massive red flag for me. I wouldn’t be able to trust him, something is not right if he’s going after 18 year olds when he’s thirty. That invites the assumption that he’s not after an equal partner, just after looks and possibly someone he can control
Sounds like your teasing game went too far and she went too deep in retort.
I would stop this teasing behavior until you both clarify that things still need to be respectful. Apparently, you can't joke about everything with each other.
Men flirting with women is expected, but women being flirtatious with a man is rare, he knows he can easily get a womans sexual attention. And this will sound assholish, but you are a 38yo mother of 2 who is aiming to what seems to be a HVM (who I asume, doesnt have kids).
Sorry to tell you this, but you are no longer the most atractive option at his reach. Being fit at 38 is not the same that being fit at 28, specially after two preagnacies. To some men, the fact that you have children is a nude pass, even if you are the only single woman in town. You being a successfull business owner is not something that men find sexually appealing, it doesnt add value because at your age you are expected to be fully independent (AKA a functional adult).
As you can see, I wont pamper your ego like other commenters did. If you dont want to date ever again, do it, but if you want to keep trying, understand than options for a LTR will be far more scarse (in quantity and quality) than years ago.