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communicate how you feel. not in a demanding way but how ur feeling uncomfortable but at the same time don’t wanna take your bachelor party fun away from him. also is he ok with you going to a strip club for yours or is this a one sided thing? what ever you do make sure you communicate in a respectful way.
As an older man I have to say women need compliments like junkies need junk. Every single day let her know
Somebody was never a latchkey kid who had to stay home sick from school alone while both their parents had to go to work and it shows.
I wouldn't want to date a trust fund kid either, but that's not your fault. You're just not compatible with each other. A person who values very hot work and a person who has never had to work for anything cannot have a successful relationship in my opinion.
lol ya because you have to actually parent your child? You reject literally everything everyone says. No one is going to give you anything new.
It might be time to stop calling her a friend.
So there's shifting priorities and then there's asking the unreasonable / impossible. She's unfortunately in the latter camp. Tell her that you want to support her dreams, but you won't be spending a red cent until the two of you reach a joint understanding of the future.
It's cool that she wants to be a professional artist but there aren't degree requirements for that. You can always just… do art. I have a few artist friends that aren't rich but manage to pay the bills with it. Half of them didn't go to formal school for it and the other half wish they hadn't.
She needs to understand that there is a finite amount of money and it's not going to cover all of her priorities. There's just no way that you're going to be able to afford a big wedding, supporting her living in the US, supporting yourself living abroad, and saving toward a house. It's just not feasible. If she can't pick then she should put in a few more years at the engineering job and save up for her own schooling.
Why is she so okay with not living with you for a long time? I get that all couples are different but generally an absence like that is something you only deal with if you have to. You sure as hell don't seek it out voluntarily. I'd really want to understand why she's doing that, and whether or not she's still committed to the marriage as anything but an income stream.
Good luck OP. This is a sticky wicket.
Sorry but I would have laughed too lol
This is not hypersexuality. JFC.
Ahhh. You're right, the mother was telling her friend how her daughter files her taxes! That's it everyone. this guy has cracked the code! /s in case anyone else has difficulty reading social interactions like this person does
Love bombing is normally used as a reaction of guilt from a cheater you just can’t be a “love bomber”. Your description makes you romantic and thoughtful. You are literally what women always complain that they can’t find. Keep doing you and don’t change!
She’s just swapped out one baby’s needs for another. Try to grow up faster than your baby. It’ll be like a race!
Yeah that’s a fundamental issue hat can’t be ignored. It’s a breach of trust and shows very poor financial judgment on her part. I would definitely NOT want to hitch my financial wagon up with this person.
This is really really good advice. I needed someone to tell me this at the same age.
congratulations you just won the house with that picture!!! take her to court.
Lawyer Up and STFU !
“It is important that you understand a couple things: first, I will not accept a sexless marriage. We will only wind up divorced if that turns out to be your plan, so plan accordingly. Second, I have no interest in living with this male friend of yours. I don't understand why you think such an arrangement makes sense, unless you aren't telling me something about the relationship. Is there anything you aren't telling me?”
Yeah, I'd break up with you too if I were her. If you can't respect her boundaries and wanna bitch about it, you gotta go. You don't love her if you disregard her boundaries and disrespect her feelings
If you stay in this relationship, you already have 3 kids. One yours, and two of his. You are already experiencing motherhood. Motherhood doesn't end when the baby grows into a toddler. But if you really want another and he doesn't, you should break up now as the relationship is still fresh.
Take my upvote! ??
You’ve been listening to too many insecure boys with microphones. Break up with her then. She deserves a better man anyways.
I don’t know. I don’t think she’s trying to manipulate you. When I have some significant disagreement with my spouse, it is very upsetting to me and it makes me feel physically ill. I don’t ever actually throw up, it’s just very distressing if I’m trying to discuss an issue or explain my opinion, and my husband sometimes just doesn’t get it and I feel like I’m being attacked. Like I can’t breathe. So I want to take a step back and be alone so I can calm down. If my husband were to continue to push me I would absolutely explode and just have to start screaming, because what I need is to decompress so we can actually have a productive conversation about the thing later.
We are both very opinionated, and sometimes have different approaches (I’m a scientist, I want to follow evidence/recommendations while my husband is a bit more emotional unless it’s a topic he develops an interest in)…anyway. I also am 99% sure I am autistic, both my husband and I have ADHD.
To me it sounds like she’s panicking and probably needs to be left alone for awhile to calm down. Therapy absolutely would be helpful for her though. I love therapy Bo think everyone needs therapy. Anyway. To me it really doesn’t sound like manipulation, but rather some kind of emotional/sensory dysregulation when trying to navigate conflict.
Spitting at or on someone is a MASSIVE disrespect. I'd personally consider being punched in the face far less of an offence than someone spitting in my face. This is absolutely disgusting for many reasons. This is a proper “end relationship” action. With that one action, she's told you what she really thinks of you. In my opinion, there's no walking this one back. Ugh. I'm so sorry this happened to you OP. My best advise, leave her and find someone who respects you and won't do something so foul.
Honestly speaking:
We DON'T CARE about his side of the story.
He obviously WANTED to set you up.
Even if you had come right on time, he still would have made you wait, best scenario. More likely ditched you anyhow, as obviously he was wanting to “teach you a lesson”.
OP…. that man doean't fit into your life.
That's clear to see. And he just showed you again.
Leave. As your life is now it will be more relief than real pain, I think.
You presently do have a fulfilling worklife, taking up all your hours.
In events like the death of the boy which you and your team could not prevent… a partner should be 100 % supportive.
Not just add to your stress.
You simply can't deal nor should have to deal with a partners demands right now.
With a bit of a distance you may eventually find that this man has done you a HUGE favor by pulling that crap stunt on you.
Feel hugged. Search company of people who understand an support you.
In your spare time… try to be as happy as you can. Feed your soul.
Whoever can't do that has no place in your life. And that's ok. You carry a heavy burden allready. Don't carry more than you can.
I’m not saying it makes her a bad person
Then I’ll say it. I am of the opinion that garnering some kind of cheap thrill at the expense of others is a person of questionable character and decency.
If the entire relationship hinges on something so insignificant, not much of a relationship. I always find my SOs incredibly very hot because of who they are.
Did you even read my post properly? Where have I came up wiith excuses telling her not to take trips because of financial problems? She can take as many trips as she wants with her friends. The problem here is she has started prioritizing her lonely friend over time spent with me. I have communicated multiple times about this issue telling her that this is what she has been doing which has affected our relationship but there is no accountability when we discuss the issue I don't want her to spend all her time with me neither am I asking he nor to spend less time with her friends and family. How can you expect someone who is married to spend more time with their friend and family rather than their spouse? What kind of illogical analysis is that.
I already replied to another comment. I did not see her comment stating all the toxic things he did in regards to the trip. I, and like many others, only read the original post. OP should have included those details in the original post, since that changes the story drastically. Please take it up with her, and not me.
Divorce him
Your mother is trying to protect her own reputation and her pedophile brother by making you feel like his abuse of you somehow reflects poorly on you, which makes her almost as much of an abusive monster as he is. Tell everyone. Everyone. To warn all the female children in your family and to punish the abuser and his enablers.
Staying silent about being abused benefits absolutely no one except the predator. I wouldn't be at all surprised if the reason he was able to assault you is that your mother helped him cover up some even earlier incident that would have otherwise warned you away from him.
A pedophile doesn’t molest a couple of kids & then just say “I won’t do it anymore”. I don’t know why you’d even want your mother in your child’s life, as she is still defending and protecting her brother instead of you and your daughter!
How will you feel if you find out that your uncle has molested other children since then and it could’ve possibly been prevented if your mother hadn’t covered for him? I understand that you were just a child and not responsible for any of that coverup. But you are an adult now and this is something you should discuss with your husband.