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I agree up til the point of find a woman to share your bed for a few nights. That’s just using someone else. And how is that supposed to make him better about himself? It just makes him seem like one of those old, gross guys in politics that hits on the young women – ewww.
To me he sounds like a gentle, affectionate person so slapping or causing another person pain may be very difficult for him no matter if you ask him to or not, it just may not be in his nature so seeing the aftereffects may have been quite traumatic. You might want to rethink him being rough during sex, at least for the time being.
filial piety is a cast iron bitch. don't expect immediate results for something that's been baked in most of her life
My SO & I have been together 8 years, he just recently brought up a 3some and was fine if it was another guy he also suggested me having sex with another guy or girl if he could watch. I wasn't comfortable with either and he was totally fine with that, we found other ways to spice things up like having intercorse live! while others watched etc. But if your guy can't respect you then he's not for you, please don't do it if you don't want to it would effect you in ways you couldn't imagine. Maybe bring up the video thing if you're comfortable with that?
I'm so sorry this has happened to you, especially at this time of year. It's really tough and it's going to be very hot for you for awhile. You need to get a lawyer as soon as you can and you need a DNA test to prove if the boy is yours or not. I hope it all works out for you as best it can.
Anyone who tells you to harm yourself should be reported.
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I cannot find anyone willing to prescribe them to me here without a full psychiatric evaluation which would take months.
I've never understood this mentally. Ok, it'll take months to get proper treatment. So get the ball rolling, and within months you'll have adequate treatment. Mental health treatment generally doesn't just fall in your lap. You need to advocate for yourself.
sounds like u have ocd of sorts. i have ocd so i have a few things that other people think are overkill like i wash my hands 500 times a day. like i gotta wash hands before i eat anything, and after eating. after i get out of the shower, before putting on lotion and skin care i wash my hands even tho i literally washed them not even a minute ago. it’s just something i do, and it feels important even know i know it’s technically unnecessary.
her not showering before bed isn’t gonna cause dust mites or cause some awful dirt build up. but she’s right it’s more psychological than physical for you. i personally don’t shower before bed anymore. i used to shower twice a day but in an attempt to lessen some of my germophobia ocd i’ve stopped showering at night. most women prefer morning showers cause we style out hair so we wanna wash it in the morning.
unless you’re willing to get over her not showering before bed or she’s willing to start showering before bed, u might just have to break up.
Those woman have a gut wrenching time giving up the child despite the intense yearning to be reunited with their biological child. It’s honestly scary how selfishly detached from empathy and emotions men are. Why do you feel the need to argue against not destroying and devastating a child? I don’t care if mom had an orgy party…THE CHILD IS INNOCENT! THE CHILD IS A VICTIM! Only a psychopath would have no hesitation or care toward a child who’s been theirs for years..bio or not
People are weird about this. Everyone knows when a baby is born it belongs to the woman, but men deserve the same reassurance.
Only one way to know for sure. That is to ask how you see each other.
Is the coworker in better shape than you? Do you think he's overall a better looking guy than you? Is he funnier? This sounds like a fragile ego projecting it's insecurities.
Age is not just a number, it's years of life experience. I think the word hindsight was created from these exact types of scenarios.
Then just don’t. It’s not very hot to just.. not fuck someone.
Again, why are you with him if you insist on bashing him and not actually confronting him lol. If he doesn’t want to listen to it, then leave. You’re obviously disgusted. Like what really is the problem besides that fact that you want Reddit points? Either a troll or someone who can’t figure out they’re own shit while constantly airing it out.
If you feel bad about this, why don’t you see if you can help him be more outgoing and making some friends? I mean it would ease your guilt. You don’t have to do it, but it might make you feel better.
At this point I have no idea what to do
Yeah you do. Run. She's insane
Lol just commenting because everyone is missing this somehow…. Obviously the therapist didn’t say that! Zero reason to trust your cheating partner on anything let alone something so stupid it sounds like a lie a four year old will tell.
Best of luck OP! Sorry your girlfriend sucks, hope she’s not your girlfriend anymore!
OMG please stop stalking her, leave her alone and don’t contact her.
Lock the kitchen and leave.
He’s scum. Leave him.
I get that. Why would anyone waste their time with someone they are not attracted to? So keep moving until you meet someone that you have chemistry with. Do you just want casual sex or are you looking for something more serious?
They aren't even married.
Is this even real? Surely it can't be…
I think you are feeling under appreciated and taken advantage of in this relationship. You have taken care of him financially; you provided him a place to live!. You watched him throw around money while financing a large part of his life.
I have to ask – why are you staying with him?
Agree with you 100%. Just provided an update!
No, its just basic socialization.
It’s like talking to a brick wall
Look OP i'm going to be real with you while i enjoy the metaphors and Latin I'm going to keep this plain and simple This man is using you the reason he continues to do this is because he realizes i can go days without talking to her and she'll still be there. This man is 45 years' old. He is not changing and i'm wondering if he's really divorced because honestly your relationship sounds like a fling and he hits you up when he is in the mood listen your being very naive its time to move out and on with someone who will actually treat you like a partner not a side chick and there is a reason a man his age is dating someone 11 years younger because women his age would never put up with this
It's something you'll understand when you tie your life, finances, family, and well-being to someone. You're no longer answering solely to yourself. You are answering to someone else, and they to you, because you depend on each other. The stakes are so much higher.
Same goes for couples who aren't married but do all the same legal stuff – POA, shared mortgage, kids together, etc. It's one of those things you can't really understand until you're tied to someone in that way. You're not living just for yourself anymore, you're living for your family.
Like 2 or 3 months max
I would just be direct with her and kind. Just try to word it in a way that doesn't offend her but also lets her know that it crosses your boundary. I really wouldn't like that either
Get him out. This isn't working – not for you and definitely not for your child.
He's a mooch and a user. I wouldn't tolerate a fraction of this and neither should you. Get this barnacle off your boat.
There's no manual for women's bodies that says they should optimally reach orgasm after a certain amount of time or a certain type of stimulation. He's telling on himself that he's not patient or attentive enough to help you get there.