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  1. After all the wrong that i did, should i tell the guy even though it’ll make me look more slimey than i already do or should i just let him not know and let them online on happily which i don’t mind but i wanna know would all guys in that situation want to know or would they rather not know

  2. Honey, I am really looking forward to our family vacation but I was also very excited about just the 2 of us going away together. I was looking forward to all of that romantic and spicy time together. I’m really disappointed that we won’t have that. Can we plan a vacation that is just for us or would (son) be okay if you explained. Say that.

  3. But she could be some day living there, you know? I mean, you’re planning on being there for years. Do you not see her living there too some day?

  4. This is unforgivable in my book. I think you know what to do. He has no intention of getting married to you or being a dad. A friend would be on a plane immediately to help you thru this and he is not one let alone a life partner. Could this be some terrible coping method he has to deal with the loss of your baby? Maybe but what would happen once your married and something happens that is tragic. He can’t always run away. Find a relative or a friend and get out of this situation whatever it takes and focus on recovery and loss of the baby and your ex fiancé

  5. I agree, but you still should be responsible primarily for keeping your side of the family in line.

    It wouldn't be wrong if OP said something even now- but if she did, they could use it as ammo to slight her further or make her look petty or like a bridezilla going forward.

    She wants a reaction, so if the son shuts it down ahead of time she wont have the opportunity to get one.

  6. I understand, but I’ve talked to enough women in the past to understand this girl is my special one, I know it’s cliche and stuff and at being such a young age but I know what my heart is telling me, I know I will move on but she will always a have a place.

  7. How do you make an update post? Do I update / edit this one or make a new post w the link to this? I would just reply to each comment but its whole story in itself right now…

  8. Start with being explicit and intentional with your communication. Instead of laughing things off and changing the subject you need to tell him: hubby, I’m not against this idea but I definitely want to explore us more before we add anyone else. If or when I change my mind, I will let you know.

    There!

    And then I would give him a lecture about not pimping you out ever again.

  9. The percentage of marriages that end in being a widow is probably 5%. Don't feel bad about your divorce. You're in the majority and in good company alongside Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, and even Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson. Nobody is immune even if you are rich and famous.

  10. It sounds to me that, at your core, you want to progress your relationship. But your past relationship's problems have led you to fear it so much, that you're willing to rationalize yourself into sabotaging your current relationship.

    That happens. Trauma is an insidious thing, and our responses to trauma can be all sorts of messed up. (That's a technical term.)

    In short, to be a healthy partner, and to be able to recognize and maintain healthy relationships, you need to undo the damage the best you can and rebuild yourself with healthy behaviors, love and trust in yourself, and the like. The best way to do that, imo, is therapy with a good, intelligent psychologist. That's pricey and time consuming, but it's extremely difficult to grow in the way you need to on your own. If you want a healthy, fulfilling relationship though, you really need that growth.

    There are other ways that work for some people (self realization seminars, meditation, even prayer – anything that gets you thinking about your own behaviors and feelings, recognizing issues, and building new and and healthier behaviors). But therapy with a good therapist is probably the most reliable approach.

    It's true that financial issues are the main cause of relationship problems, and it's true that you two have some issues there, but they aren't insurmountable with communication, boundaries, and respect for one another. As for your kid? I'm sorry, but he doesn't get a vote – it's your relationship, not his, and you aren't getting back with your ex.

    Since you are already in therapy, talk to your therapist about this. This is exactly the sort of uncertainty that they can help talk you through. Imo, work through it before you consider moving in together. There's no rush on that. Better to get to a healthy place first.

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