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The thing is, this didn’t just happen years ago. This isn’t her cheating and then burying it deep down never to speak of it again.
This is an active lie that has been going on for decades. It’s a lie that shaped your relationship, that continued to perpetuate over the years. It’s some thing that you and she talked about right up until months ago. Seventeen years of you worrying about this, protecting her from demons that didn’t really exist …
I don’t know. That’s not a small thing. That is a LOT of deception for a marriage. There’s a reason this is digging at you and I don’t think it’s going to stop. Your wife had been lying to you, in a terrible way, for years. That’s a lot to process.
So… you started dating your dad's girlfriend's kid two years into their relationship. What did you think was going to happen?
It doesn't justify it, but they both suck. Let's not pretend she is the singlehanded victim in the situation.
Hysterical Bonding.
Badly. You'll probably get ditched for a younger person in a few years.
So the age gap is a bit high, but I know people who have similar and made it work.
But the son being only a few years younger than you. Nope that is wrong in so many ways.
And the fact he has been wanting to ask you out for 2 years…. Massive red flags.
It turns him (in my opinion) from an old dude who found someone who while younger, has similar interests and they enjoy each others company, to him being a predator praying on younger women.
Should not be dating anyone around his child’s age. Should not have been wanting to ask you out for 2 years…. That means he was interested in you as barely more than a child yourself.
Run for the hills.
Have some respect for yourself. You aren't a 16 year-old thinking you will never feel anything for another person because you lack the maturity and life experience to know better. You are a grown ass woman, deparetely holding on to a very short relationship. You need to ask yourself why that is.
You're in denial, OP. Your wife is the biggest manipulator. She doesn't respect you, and it doesn't seem the bf doesn't either. You're not responsible for their child. Consider contacting a lawyer.
Yep love people who treat a response as damning even though any response could be seen that way. If they say nothing they are lying if the talk a ton they are obviously trying to control the fallout. Like stop making judgement when you have 0 clue of the guys personality to know if this is or is not in line with how he reacts to things. Ironic someone commenting how they would be livid over someone trying to ruin someones relationship even though that commenter is trying to sew doubt over something so innocuous.
If he’s asking you to “grow up” he shouldn’t be dating a child. Dump him, he’s a controlling predator.
Agreed.
I don’t know what to do
She has cheated twice that you know of, the 2nd time was premeditated and planned, and there are likely more instances that you are not aware of.
And your perfect life isn't about to end, your WW has already ended it.
Can you recover from this ? Yes, you can , but the two of your cannot.
She wanted to work it out last time, and what she wanted was you watching the kids so she could get a work out with someone else.
You work this out for you and the kids by being a good co-parent.
Time to get an STD test, and see a lawyer to understand how to protect yourself and access to your children. Follow the lawyers advice, start separating your assets and finances, get a co-parenting plan, and file for divorce.
Perhaps having a real consequence will shake her out of this, perhaps not. You need to be prepared for this to be broken beyond fixing.
Thanks for your perspective, it definitely helps to hear it from someone else who has similar social anxiety. I'm looking into the therapy, I think it will help, but also being cognizant of the way she perceives me/my actions is important to reflect on
Maybe unstable was the wrong word – that was meant in terms of what you described and the mention of BPD (they may not be unstable at all in their own lives).
You mention ADHD. I guess another possibility is how neurodivergence can play into connection, if that applies (and who wants to be vanilla anyway).
He isn't your friend.
Give us an update when you do…
Thanks for your kind words!
It doesn’t sound like you understand him very well. You need to have more conversations with him about what being Jewish means to him. It’s possible he sees these as being more culturally Jewish, but I doubt you understand that idea either.
Ask her if she’s feeling unwell, that you notice she’s been seeming anxious recently. Definitely say something the lines of “sorry to bother you and I hope I’m not overstepping by asking, but I noticed you seemed a little under the weather recently. You were always the sunshine of the office and now you seem a little down. Is everything ok?”
Start by perfecting your head game. Not kidding. Do it well and often.
Well, here’s the deal I do think, blocking her and leaving her alone just tell her it’s not working out. And you can still go to those places I promise you will recover from this. Even if you go to the same place, you won’t see her every time and as you do it over time you’ll get used to it and more comfortable.
But that doesn’t mean she’ll be happy in 5 years or even 2 years time being a SAHM. It’s a very different ballpark once the baby becomes a toddler and will become much more stressful for her. You need to make peace with the fact this is a temporary chapter and that she is her own person.
Also the “have you ever been in love” question was rather uncomfortable. How would you answer it to someone you're on a second date with? I would be afraid she would try to ask about past affairs.
Oh good grief, the edit. WHAT THR HELL IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE?!?!
is your last name Targaryen?
Put the airbag in his trunk. He'll think you're following him
He was looking for a young girl to clean his house and take care of his kids!!
Call his ex-wife and find out why they are divorced!!
He seeks you out, that is creepy!
Yes, talk to a lawyer, get your ducks in a row and go on-line your on-line without all of his demands!
It would be one thing if he was just insecure, but the problem is so much bigger than that. He doesn't want you to thrive, he wants you to feel small and unimportant so that you'll go on supporting his lifestyle in exchange for the crumbs of affection he throws at you.
You think her sister won't tell her the truth if you do that? She's going to learn it anyway. At least have the decency to face her and answer her questions. You also have a child to support. Nut up, get a therapist, and get honest. Real fuckin' fast.
Have you told him you find this disrespectful?
I can only assume OP meant to say “her son” or “my stepson” and got confused and wrote a mix of them – “her stepson”
That’s the only way that makes any sense haha
This is amazing! Sorry girl but we know why he’s really there
You're 29 years old, you can't expect total strangers to spoon feed you through this process. Asking for advice is one thing, but you can't expect people to tell you exactly what to do. If you're not grown up enough to make your own choices and decisions, then you're really nowhere near being ready for a serious relationship.
But he said he couldn't so she organised her trip without him. Maybe there's nowhere for him to sleep now. I don't really get your point, if she was planning to cheat all along she'd hardly have asked him to do that. She's changed her mind because she's got used to a certain idea. Or maybe she didn't want him there the whole time.
Then it should only be a matter of reassurance and time. Don’t listen to people who’ll say her emotions are invalid. It’s your relationship and you clearly care about her. Prove you are trustworthy and just give her reassurance whenever she needs it for a while. And discuss. Discuss as often as needed for the two of you.
Both of you keeping your own last names is an easy compromise, I don't know why this is an issue for either of you. But it sounds like neither of you is willing to take the other's last name.
You clearly haven’t seen the Pizza Naked Special on the Hub.
So so so many red flags.