If he won’t stop when you ask him to stop tickling you, what else won’t he stop doing in the future? If he can’t respect your body and understand consent after multiple conversations, why are you with him?
He’s made it clear to me that that was his preference. He didn’t want me to be the one to propose. I also told him last time that every time I bring this up and ask about it, that IS me proposing and I feel like he has turned me down every time. To be clear, I don’t even really care about the paper…he could’ve told me he hates marriage and it would have been fine…my crisis is more that I feel like he hasn’t been transparent and if he doesn’t give a crap about how this is making me feel, does he even care at all?
this isn't a movie. she's not going to stalk and kill you dude. but if your ego wants to believe that then go right ahead. have fun worrying about nothing!
If you go through his comments and posts he consistently talks about a children/partner, sooo I’d say he’s actually just a massive hypocritical a-hole.
Stop being the nice guy unless it’s for your daughter she knew what was going on when she asked to get a loan and now you’re screwed just move on it’s easier said then done but start looking to go take your mind off of it I am sorry it happened to you bro but chalk it up as a loss and if you can prove she cheated when you got the loan a divorce court could rule in your favor she pays you back
It’s crossing the line when you are being lied to about your SO being the one suggesting meet ups on a personal level, then making up lies about how they will be in touch. He’s not only crossing boundaries with what the client Claire is giving him via text but he’s actively lying about them to his wife. He’s in the wrong on both fronts and should have a serious come to Jesus understanding on both fronts before he finds himself in a sexual harassment situation with the company and his wife deciding whether or not to leave him for trying to initiate at best a emotional affair and at worst a romantic affair that the only thing in his favor is that Claire isn’t interested in doing.
Break it off with him! You won’t have the strength to do it once your mom passes. Think about it like this: the breakup might be a great opportunity to have a few more mom/daughter moments with her. She’ll be heart broken for you, but she’ll be supportive, and you should accept all the love possible from her before her time on earth ends.
Why would I assume that if you didn't put it in your post? But okay, that's good. It's a critical piece of information.
If he didn't know, then you would definitely be bailing too early. But since he does know it sounds like you've got a small fire on your hands, but not yet a dumpster fire. It depends on if he stands up for you and as you said, if she escalates. If she gets worse, I wouldn't blame you for checking out to protect yourself. Has he signaled what he's going to do about her?
I might try and have a third party get it back for me.
That's a good idea.
If he won’t stop when you ask him to stop tickling you, what else won’t he stop doing in the future? If he can’t respect your body and understand consent after multiple conversations, why are you with him?
Break up with him. The pro life movement is rooted in misogyny and misinformation. This is not something you can ignore or compromise on.
You're right. I still struggle with that “what happens happens”, but I guess I have to work on it. Thanks for the support, it means a lot!
Just end it already. From now on use a condom every single time.
Sounds like you are okay with them.
To some, it’s a deal breaker. You seem open to accepting them. Why post?
You’re already in the process of repeating the same mistake. Don’t waste your time.
He’s made it clear to me that that was his preference. He didn’t want me to be the one to propose. I also told him last time that every time I bring this up and ask about it, that IS me proposing and I feel like he has turned me down every time. To be clear, I don’t even really care about the paper…he could’ve told me he hates marriage and it would have been fine…my crisis is more that I feel like he hasn’t been transparent and if he doesn’t give a crap about how this is making me feel, does he even care at all?
She definitely did not. She regrets you found out and there may be consequences.
this isn't a movie. she's not going to stalk and kill you dude. but if your ego wants to believe that then go right ahead. have fun worrying about nothing!
If you go through his comments and posts he consistently talks about a children/partner, sooo I’d say he’s actually just a massive hypocritical a-hole.
Ok noon. I really hope he does respond
Why do men always want us to pay them back after they do something nice for us?
My boyfriend would never ever act like this. You are crazy if you think this is normal.
Are you sure that was even her doctor calling you? That sounds highly inappropriate and very strange. I’m calling BS on this phone call
Break up. Move back home. Get put.
BOT ACCOUNT! stolen from u/barnstablepearl
Just break up
If she doesn't think that's inappropriate then there's something wrong with her
Stop being the nice guy unless it’s for your daughter she knew what was going on when she asked to get a loan and now you’re screwed just move on it’s easier said then done but start looking to go take your mind off of it I am sorry it happened to you bro but chalk it up as a loss and if you can prove she cheated when you got the loan a divorce court could rule in your favor she pays you back
It’s crossing the line when you are being lied to about your SO being the one suggesting meet ups on a personal level, then making up lies about how they will be in touch. He’s not only crossing boundaries with what the client Claire is giving him via text but he’s actively lying about them to his wife. He’s in the wrong on both fronts and should have a serious come to Jesus understanding on both fronts before he finds himself in a sexual harassment situation with the company and his wife deciding whether or not to leave him for trying to initiate at best a emotional affair and at worst a romantic affair that the only thing in his favor is that Claire isn’t interested in doing.
Break it off with him! You won’t have the strength to do it once your mom passes. Think about it like this: the breakup might be a great opportunity to have a few more mom/daughter moments with her. She’ll be heart broken for you, but she’ll be supportive, and you should accept all the love possible from her before her time on earth ends.
Why would I assume that if you didn't put it in your post? But okay, that's good. It's a critical piece of information.
If he didn't know, then you would definitely be bailing too early. But since he does know it sounds like you've got a small fire on your hands, but not yet a dumpster fire. It depends on if he stands up for you and as you said, if she escalates. If she gets worse, I wouldn't blame you for checking out to protect yourself. Has he signaled what he's going to do about her?
Yeah…..'closing the deal'