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  1. This man is 38 and has nothing to do but talk shit about a 24 year old?

    This man is more than halfway to retirement age. Meanwhile you're not even 10 years out of high school.

    There's a reason he had to date a 20 year old at 34. Because women his age know better than to date a guy like him.

  2. Ew @ brad being pledge master and being this mean to his pledge >:( girl if you care about what these dumb ass dudes say about you, don’t pursue him but also ,,, maybe don’t associate with these people

  3. Because he asked it of her? She's 50% of the people involved in this situation and the one asking the question. Also, the comment you replied to is literally all about him so I'm not sure what you're worked up about.

    Anyone with a functional understanding of consent would comprehend that this does not, in fact, cover his ass. If I asked you to sign a piece of paper giving me possession all of your best friend's worldly assets, it would be completely unenforcable/useless. It would also be weird and suspicious behaviour on my part.

  4. They’re both on all-or-nothing right now. Are there literally no choices beside his large city and her small town? Are there not suburbs? Are there no other cities? Variance in neighborhoods?

  5. The man may well be on his death bed and is still has a hand around your throat.

    To him, at this point, to be blunt, it's win win; if he dies, he can trust that he played you long enough, well enough, that you'll blame yourself forever, and he'll always have it over you. If he lives, well, it's the same, except I guess it would be more of a win because he would be able to tell you… And tell your child how his actions are your doing, they are your responsibility, he's a character in a game and you are solely responsible for what he does.

    Which is utter bullshit, of course.

    When you were 21, a grown ass man targeted you because he saw some kind of vulnerability he could exploit, and he did that, he used whatever soft spot he found in order to keep you under his thumb, to keep you fragile and thus open to his manipulation.

    If he wakes up, you don't have to be kind and understanding. You don't have to, and you shouldn't be. He's your child's father, but that is all he should be – thankfully you know you can't be with him anymore, but he has ground you up so much that you still feel responsible for him and his feelings, and you are not, you never have been. He's an adult, ever since you met he's been an adult, he is in charge of his life, not you.

    If he does die… Well, embrace your child and move on, but don't linger on regrets. He made all his life choices, good and bad, and left you to deal with the emotional toll.

    Please know he doesn't have to hold you back, he doesn't have to be a specter in your life, you had the strength to leave him, you can have the strength to believe that you are not now nor have you ever been, nor could you ever be responsible for his choices – you're not responsible for any adult's choices.

    Be safe, and direct your thoughts of kindness where it's needed the most – to yourself. I feel like you haven't had much kindness in years, it's about you took it back from this back.

  6. My sister has two teenagers. The 19-year-old is in college and my sister talks about how she disciplines herself from tracking her when she doesn't have an excellent reason. She's curious but it's not her business where her daughter is at 6 AM on a Sunday morning. Doesn't matter. The kid needs freedom. We all do. True freedom from surveillance and suspicion and nonsense. Adults can have tracking capability and not abuse it. She didn't even ask, dude. You deserve more.

  7. yeah I assume most 27 year olds would not want a stuffed animal. I'm 23 so at the edge of gen z, girls I'm talking about are fairly typical 18-22 year old egirl/alt girl types.

  8. Cheating is not something you have to put up with inside of your relationship. I’ve been with the same person for 15 years and neither of us have cheated on the other

  9. Lied about what exactly? If she’s had a threesome before or after dating you that’s not your business.

  10. Your sex life is not amazing if you don't finish and cannot even get him to help you finish. Talk to him and if he is offended or doesn't change just move on

  11. This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.

    TW suicide attempt

    We had broken up for a month. We have a daughter together who is 2. We dated around 5 years.

    We were talking about getting back together. He told me he had slept with his ex wife. It crushed me and I told him that now we aren’t ever getting back together and I’m done. It has been a turbulent relationship from the start.

    He told me he was going to show me how much he regrets it and that he loves me. I knew what he was saying so I called the police to go to where he was. He has overdosed.

    His ex wife told me how she was at the hospital but couldn’t get info because I’m the emergency contact. In my hurt I was rude. I then apologized. But she told me how he talked poorly of me and her family hates me.

    I’m involved with her family because I’m her two children’s step parental figure. Or was.

    I’m so hurt and I’m so angry. I also lost an important Family member on the 14th.

    My biggest question is, once he wakes up (if he does. Doctors said he should but brain damage is unknown yet) how do I continue to be kind and gentle but also let him know I can’t be with him anymore and I want to move on. Permanently. I’m so scared he will do it again. I’m riddled with guilt because I was furious with him right before he did it and I wasn’t being exactly kind.

  12. It keeps me up at night honestly. I care alot about her but I just feel like this might be a deal breaker for me. I hate it because she literally hits so many of the checkboxes for what makes a good girlfriend. Smart, funny, hardworking, caring, loving, loyal, goal oriented, energetic, a bit crazy (in a good way) etc. Not to mention super beautiful. This is so tough for me…

  13. This is disturbing, he’s treating like complete crap and coercing you into sex, also refusing to help pay bills when it sounds like he lives there? This guy is a loser. You’re allowed to say no to sex without him having a temper tantrum

  14. I like his personality a lot. He’s funny and kind and we do have a few things in common. We both play videogames although not together since the high skill gap. In the beginning I tried to convince him to play with me but it always resulted in conflict so after that I usually just told him to stream what he does so I can watch along. I found that quite boring so I asked him if we could watch shows or movies together since he seems to enjoy the same ones as I do. It seemed like a success at first but nowadays as I said that’s all we do. I tried taking him to concerts but he says he hates crowds. I tried convincing his schoolmates to invite us to parties which they once did, we went and he didn’t quite enjoy himself while I for once actually had an amazing time. So we ditched that idea as well. I tried taking him to my exhibition once since I’m an artist but he ended up not wanting to come. After that I stopped trying to invite him anywhere since he either hated coming with me or didn’t even bother coming.

  15. Do individual counseling too, maybe do that first, “grumpiness” just won't go away on couples counseling alone. I'm overly dramatic but the grumpy word is just you trying to make emotional abuse sound funny.

  16. Group therapy is not a magic bullet that will somehow excuse years of mental abuse. There is likely no coming back from the lack of empathy and forced erasure of the OP's biological mother that occurred over a ten year period with the OP objecting every step of the way.

    OP does not own his father or his wife anything at all. Continuing to insist that therapy is the answer is naïve. In order for therapy to be effective, both parties have to be willing and emotionally invested. OP clearly is neither.

  17. . I want it to work out between us

    Why? What does he have that you could not replace in a new boyfriend?

  18. Hahaha thank you so much ? I always try to not keep my relationships the centre of all my attention and focus on my job and hobbies as well. My parents run their food bank at home so I appreciate that btw haha, cheers. I will try my best.

  19. I think you should talk to him again. He's probably freaking out that your answer was a nude no. And frankly, there's a lot of nuance to his answer.

    Objectively, you both absolutely missed out on a lot of things. That's just a fact. You missed out on both good and bad things- that's the nature of choice and the value of hindsight. It doesn't have to be a bad thing.

    The question is, does he want to do something about it now? That's where the problem lies.

    My mom has said she wishes she waited longer to have kids. It doesn't mean she doesn't love us or wishes she could get rid of us, it means that looking back as a 60+ year old woman, she realises at 25, she wasn't prepared and could have done a better job had she waited.

    Talk to him to understand what he means.

  20. Why do you feel betrayed? (I’m not telling you you’re wrong for feeling that way, I just want to hear more about why and what you think)

  21. If she isn’t cleaning herself properly, hair or not is irrelevant. Seeing as how she stinks on both ends, hygiene may not be a priority.

  22. Your orgasm is your own responsibility, but that means communicating your needs and wants for help getting there, not just to rub it out on your own.

  23. If she wanted to change this, she would. Her reasoning doesn’t matter – you can’t change how she handles this. It’s frustrating but true.

  24. And most importantly, congrats on beating anorexia! Hope you will enjoy a more fulfilling life full of joy and happiness.

  25. Agreed. You want someone who supports you during your struggles, not someone who disappears until you're doing better.

    My ex left me when I became disabled, frustrated that I wasn't taking care of his needs as much. My current partner takes me to all of my medical appointments, stayed at the hospital with me for my last surgeries, gets up with me at night if I am too unwell to sleep.

    There's a big difference when someone wants to support you, even if they need to look after themselves, too.

  26. You didn’t ask me the question, but ima put in my two cents anyway. Happiness and stability aren’t the right terms, as in so many of these situations (including this one) the questioning party is actively unhappy, and often the stability isn’t there either unless you just count “I have a boyfriend” as stability. It’s partly an ego/status thing, especially for women—being partnered is considered vital to how valuable you are in general, even if your partner sucks. People don’t know how to entertain themselves so they’d rather spend time with someone else, even if that time is unpleasant. Etc etc

  27. Hes probably an orbiter– a guy who hangs around women hoping to get with them. And she likes the attention, so is keeping him around as the backup guy.

    What to do about it? Probably a serious conversation with her about it.

  28. So she broke your heart, went to bang other people and after that wants you back and somehow you're the one who needs to earn her trust back?

    Of course you're scared and worried she'll leave you again. I don't think that wound had healed when you got back together and I don't think it will be easy for you to heal while dating her. How can you trust her to commit to you? How can you be sure no other friend of her will “manipulate” her into breaking up with you (pretty convenient to have a friend to blame in this scenario, I'd say)? Or maybe she wants to dump you to go through another “party girl” phase but it's ok because you'll be there for her after that phase is over, right?

  29. Your instincts are spot on. I used to be friends with a couple like this. The woman was at home, a good partner, beautiful, interesting, cool, with a career in the arts. Everyone knew them as a couple. It was also an open secret that he would cheat on her pretty regularly.

    her eyes have a chokehold on you

    He would say stuff like that. They are married now, and I bet he still cheats. I'm not friends with any of that friend group anymore because fuck that.

    This relationship sounds terrible. You absolutely deserve better, and after 4 years, you know “better” won't come from him.

  30. I had a really close relationship with my boss when I was in HS/college. He was like a father to me and I still call him every Father’s Day and I’m in my 40’s and he’s in his 70’s.

    So I was prepared for THAT kind of a check in post.

    Nope. Your husband is gross. He’s a predator. A crush on a 15YO? And his texts? WTAF.

    I’m not a fan of your husband at this moment.

  31. Would people quit calling the kid evil? We don’t even know how old the kid is, not that it matters. Reddit is the worst about anti-kid rhetoric I s2g

  32. My boyfriend said the same. I was working and taling care of our little family. It's exhausting. Society tofay has us working like crazy even though it was established for a mom to be home with her kids and one person working reasonable hours outside the home.

    Once he asked me to go to part time, things got even better. I wasn't too tired juggling all these responsibility.

    My opinion? Step up and do more if you miss nookie nookie. Or let her step back in some way. Worked for us.

  33. You need to have a heart to heart discussion and set clear boundaries, if these boundaries are abused then you leave. If you have already done this then yes, leave.

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