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Cheaters lie, then lie some more. They gaslight, they blame shift and, did I mention, they lie. She's been with this dude since she was married, and I can bet she got caught by her hubby. Her FWB is most likely married or something like that, so she takes what she can get.
Because statements like “not wanting children is selfish” is very damaging and perpetuates the falsehood that childfree people are selfish. We most certainly are not. I did read where you were going with that, it could have been phrased better.
Your response was nicer than mine would have been. Have a conversation to manage expectations and to communicate openly. If she cannot respect that…you have your answer
I know you said you dont want to issue an ultimatum, but in the end he is always going to choose music over you if given the choice because that is his main passion in life. And it sounds like you knew that going in. If you truly love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, you won't be truly happy if he is always chasing his dream. Because if he actually “makes it”, do you think things will get better? No, it will actually get much worse. Non stop practicing, touring, recording records, PR stunts and autograph signings, etc. He craves the admiration of millions of people around the world, not a quiet life with one woman. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's just that you two want completely different things out of life. So you can either decide that this isn't the life you want and leave, put up with it and sacrifice your happiness, or put the ball in his court and let him decide. Good luck.
Thats what toxic relationships look like. Its a common tactic of abusers to lovebomb their victims from time to time so they stay. Almost no abusive relationship is hell 24/7. Thats why a lot of victims stay in it for so long. Do yourself a favor and walk away from her
I wonder what OP DID to help his daughter fix her car. Did he offer suggestions like the bus until he gets back, did he offer that she pay for half of the repairs since he’s pulling back financial support, did take a look at the car to make sure she needed 1200 worth of repairs? (Is this the same new(er) car she got for her 18th bday). OP needs to do a better job balancing both families. Your daughter is 25 but she still need guidance and assistance; parents job never end but it will change.
What I’m really missing here and it might well be, because you tried to condense an entire relationship into a single post, is you introspecting. She told you that you seemed cold – even your friends noticed it – but nowhere do you seem to try to figure out what was going on. You just keep repeating that you didn’t notice any difference. Did you ask her or your friends for concrete examples? She told you about a problem and you thought it went away, because she didn’t nag you about it every 30 seconds. I’m not going to lie, that is a super bad sign. It sort of implies you didn’t take her feelings seriously. Did you discuss with her how she liked to be loved? What was missing from her perspective? What she would love to see? Did you engage with the problem at all?
Similarly with the drinking – you know you are a terrible drunk and yet you got completely hammered again…why? What prompted you to drink that much alcohol if you knew it was a problem – both in general and for the person you claim to love?
I am not seeing you taking problems seriously until there are massive consequences, instead expecting to be able to continue as you have and for everyone to adjust. That is really bad and a great way to blow up any and all relationships.
I’d take a massive breaks from relationships and instead work on yourself. No, going for someone else, hoping it will “help you move on” (how unfair is that on the new person??), is not a valid way forward.
Honestly maybe he did “forget” to the point where he didn't take his promise to her into consideration. But you know what it took to get to that point? Him doing itso many times, knowing how she felt about it, that it made it into a habit habit so he “forgot.” Normalizes not caring about what he promised her he wouldn't engage in. No bueno.
There is nothing you can do differently. Having a best friend of the opposite sex is just going to be a deal breaker for some people. Move on to someone who isn’t bothered by it. I don’t find it to be a deal breaker per se but if there is any type of jealous or possessive coming from the BFF, I’m out. I’m not putting up with bad behavior or murky boundaries.
Right?! If I were in the same place as OP (which is obviously unlikely), I'd show up to the graduation with balloons and a damn homemade banner.
There was another post about someone in law school, and no one wanted to celebrate with him or make the effort. I just wished I was able to bring a whole bunch of strangers and party with these people who worked so hot for their dreams.
It's really sad how unsupportive family can be.
OP, congratulations! Please attend your graduation. I hope you can have your friends and people who are supportive and went through it all with you by your side!
Something is up and I think it's your husband that is the issue. He's acting weird and it seems from the text messages there has been a sensitive conversation at some point that could have led the woman to not be at the bus stop… meaning maybe your husband initiated a conversation that could have made her feel uncomfortable. I would guess he made an advance and now is feeling freaked out by it.
I just read your comments on your site. Does your wife know about all the sexual comments you were making to other women? Those comments might be why she is h[king up with the co-worker.
Oh nonono. Please let him know that the next time he calls you a bitch you're done. Done. It's abusive. And misogynistic. And gross. And more importantly, you hate it. If he can't control that impulse? Going around this guy anymore. I get you love him. I don't blow this off. You're very young. There's lots of guys you will meet who can fight fair.
Cheaters lie, then lie some more. They gaslight, they blame shift and, did I mention, they lie. She's been with this dude since she was married, and I can bet she got caught by her hubby. Her FWB is most likely married or something like that, so she takes what she can get.
You've been had……big time.
You’re IQ is high enough to assess that he is an asshole though, right?
Absolutely not.
L M A O immediately lose his number
please
Because statements like “not wanting children is selfish” is very damaging and perpetuates the falsehood that childfree people are selfish. We most certainly are not. I did read where you were going with that, it could have been phrased better.
Yes, I am triggered. ?
He's horny. Dudes will fuck a sock if they're horny enough.
How many user names is this now? Shouldn't you be worried if he wants to go snowboarding as friends?
I'm not surprised
Your response was nicer than mine would have been. Have a conversation to manage expectations and to communicate openly. If she cannot respect that…you have your answer
But men like sex so it's fine. Duh. All these comments are so dumb. If the role was reversed…
You've been through hell man don't beat yourself up for this.
Holy shit. This is so eerie
I know you said you dont want to issue an ultimatum, but in the end he is always going to choose music over you if given the choice because that is his main passion in life. And it sounds like you knew that going in. If you truly love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, you won't be truly happy if he is always chasing his dream. Because if he actually “makes it”, do you think things will get better? No, it will actually get much worse. Non stop practicing, touring, recording records, PR stunts and autograph signings, etc. He craves the admiration of millions of people around the world, not a quiet life with one woman. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's just that you two want completely different things out of life. So you can either decide that this isn't the life you want and leave, put up with it and sacrifice your happiness, or put the ball in his court and let him decide. Good luck.
Yea, some of his messages dont make any sense. He’s a douche bag. Block, delete move on.
I don’t think you should believe him. Of course he says that, but everything else says otherwise! This is disgusting
Appreciate your comment. I will absolutely be doing this because it's a very good question.
Thats what toxic relationships look like. Its a common tactic of abusers to lovebomb their victims from time to time so they stay. Almost no abusive relationship is hell 24/7. Thats why a lot of victims stay in it for so long. Do yourself a favor and walk away from her
It kinda is. OP and his girlfriend aren't in a committed relationship. They've only been together for a year.
I wonder what OP DID to help his daughter fix her car. Did he offer suggestions like the bus until he gets back, did he offer that she pay for half of the repairs since he’s pulling back financial support, did take a look at the car to make sure she needed 1200 worth of repairs? (Is this the same new(er) car she got for her 18th bday). OP needs to do a better job balancing both families. Your daughter is 25 but she still need guidance and assistance; parents job never end but it will change.
What I’m really missing here and it might well be, because you tried to condense an entire relationship into a single post, is you introspecting. She told you that you seemed cold – even your friends noticed it – but nowhere do you seem to try to figure out what was going on. You just keep repeating that you didn’t notice any difference. Did you ask her or your friends for concrete examples? She told you about a problem and you thought it went away, because she didn’t nag you about it every 30 seconds. I’m not going to lie, that is a super bad sign. It sort of implies you didn’t take her feelings seriously. Did you discuss with her how she liked to be loved? What was missing from her perspective? What she would love to see? Did you engage with the problem at all?
Similarly with the drinking – you know you are a terrible drunk and yet you got completely hammered again…why? What prompted you to drink that much alcohol if you knew it was a problem – both in general and for the person you claim to love?
I am not seeing you taking problems seriously until there are massive consequences, instead expecting to be able to continue as you have and for everyone to adjust. That is really bad and a great way to blow up any and all relationships.
I’d take a massive breaks from relationships and instead work on yourself. No, going for someone else, hoping it will “help you move on” (how unfair is that on the new person??), is not a valid way forward.
Honestly maybe he did “forget” to the point where he didn't take his promise to her into consideration. But you know what it took to get to that point? Him doing itso many times, knowing how she felt about it, that it made it into a habit habit so he “forgot.” Normalizes not caring about what he promised her he wouldn't engage in. No bueno.
Successful polyamory is built on consent and communication. Simply telling you accomplishes nothing if you are not comfortable with it.
There is nothing you can do differently. Having a best friend of the opposite sex is just going to be a deal breaker for some people. Move on to someone who isn’t bothered by it. I don’t find it to be a deal breaker per se but if there is any type of jealous or possessive coming from the BFF, I’m out. I’m not putting up with bad behavior or murky boundaries.
Right?! If I were in the same place as OP (which is obviously unlikely), I'd show up to the graduation with balloons and a damn homemade banner.
There was another post about someone in law school, and no one wanted to celebrate with him or make the effort. I just wished I was able to bring a whole bunch of strangers and party with these people who worked so hot for their dreams.
It's really sad how unsupportive family can be.
OP, congratulations! Please attend your graduation. I hope you can have your friends and people who are supportive and went through it all with you by your side!
Go to your graduation and then afterwards go to the wedding.
His marriage is his, your medical degree and journey is yours.
Something is up and I think it's your husband that is the issue. He's acting weird and it seems from the text messages there has been a sensitive conversation at some point that could have led the woman to not be at the bus stop… meaning maybe your husband initiated a conversation that could have made her feel uncomfortable. I would guess he made an advance and now is feeling freaked out by it.
Time for an upgrade, BF 2.0, a more mature model?
What was the point of his post?
Yeah me too.
Where did she meet him? Dating app? Maybe ask her boyfriend.
Just being on a dating app suggests she has an unhealthy need for male attention.
Validation should come from within (not from guys). She needs therapy.
I just read your comments on your site. Does your wife know about all the sexual comments you were making to other women? Those comments might be why she is h[king up with the co-worker.
Oh nonono. Please let him know that the next time he calls you a bitch you're done. Done. It's abusive. And misogynistic. And gross. And more importantly, you hate it. If he can't control that impulse? Going around this guy anymore. I get you love him. I don't blow this off. You're very young. There's lots of guys you will meet who can fight fair.