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  1. What is her family like?

    I only ask because I can relate to this behaviour from when I was younger, not saying this is there same situation as her but wanted to offer a potential perspective.

    I came from a heavy guilt family where a lot of the guilt was put on you through insinuation and comments that were designed to indirectly put you down.

    When I got older this resulted in me doing this internally to myself. If I knew I should be doing something like exercising but didn't and was unhappy with myself I would become avoid the activity and feel bad/guilty if anyone mentioned it as it reinforced that I wasn't doing what I should have. This was true even if the comment wasn't actually meant to put me down/dig at me or was completely unrelated to me. I was conditioned to these comments being meant to be put downs/digs so even though I knew that the person didn't mean it like that it was how I automatically felt.

    Combine this with a large dose of perfectionism and it wasn't a fun way to online.

    However, it was not the other person's responsibility to amend their behaviour it was up to me to work on myself and my issues so that I didn't impose them on others and so I could online with myself in a healthier way.

  2. What about if her sons dad died? Would he inherit? It gets so complicated sometimes it’s easier to just share evenly to avoid conflict. Money isn’t worth ruining the family.

  3. Keep working hard and build your future, break up with party girl.

    Your future comes first! There are plenty of fish in the sea.

    Party girls are not for relationship.

    Sure wish you luck.

    Semper Fi

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  5. Well, tbf my mom interacts with all my posts be it through comments/likes. And I do have a picture of two with my friends gf tagged. But we don’t interact regularly

  6. Yes but just because he has lower sex drive then me does not mean it’s a concern for health. I agree if it’s a big issue where you never want to have sex or masturbate it might be an issue for his health. But read we still have sex 1-2 a weekend and I stay over from Friday to Saturday and I know he masturbates and he has absolutely no issue getting an erection so again just because his not a pig does not mean there’s something wrong with him

  7. …Then why are they invited? If they KNOW that BIL has a tendency to prank bully people, and they still will let him in, why are her parents and brother still invited?

    Everyone here is saying “hire security”, but OP, you have deeper issues here than that, and that is a fiancee that has been so conditioned to let her boundaries be run roughshod over that it WILL mess up what should be one of the most important days of your lives.

    Do you really want a marriage to start like this? With the threat of clown shoe bro?

    This is classic Reddit advice but it's warranted: she needs to get into therapy, stat. Couples AND individual. Consider postponing the wedding to make it happen. This is unacceptable.

  8. Losing 5 years is better than losing 10-15-20+because people who do this stuff don’t generally change.

  9. How do you know that? What her mother said is extremely offensive and out of line, suggesting to go no contact is an appropriate idea.

  10. Yes, he was indifferent etc. Once aware of it, he addressed it. Which shows that he does care, he just doesn't empathize like other people. He also wasn't more abusive than say, a narcissist. Nor did he beat them.

  11. You accept the love you think you deserve, and apparently you don’t love yourself that much. Drop the man-baby.

  12. Test your kids!!

    She was very apologetic and even started to cry.

    In your worst case, this means nothing, just a show.

  13. This OP. How does this not sound like a model set up for trafficking? She goes out of the country with someone she barely knows and 6 other strangers. Like WTF? Please bring this up with your gf.

  14. You might get more open-minded advice over at r/nonmonogamy. You also might suggest he head over there to ask some experienced folks about what it's like as a guy in an open relationship. Itll take his rose colored glasses off.

    People love the idea of themselves dating (“It won't change how I feel about you at all! I can have multiple partners no problem!”) and then get blindsided by a huge amount of jealousy when their partner goes on a date–because if he can see other people, so can you. Only then does the lightbulb turn on about how their partner was feeling during the initial conversation about opening. It's waaay more work than it looks like on paper. As a woman, I can tell you from experience that you'd get 20 dates to his 1. His daydream of easily dating others as a partnered guy is just that: a dream.

    Your desire to be with one person is no more or less valid than his desire to have new experiences. I also imagine that after dating as long as you have, you might be wanting the security of marriage or some concrete plans for the future. It's good that he told you before you made any deeper commitments. I guess you could just express your sadness that this is where you're at, and your gratitude that he was open about it? But at the end of the day you're not responsible for his feelings, or making him feel better. Just focus on yourself and what your future is going to look like.

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