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Your concern for your daughter comes across as extremely patronizing. You seem much more concerned about protecting a state of affairs that works for you than allowing your daughter to grow up and experience real sexual love with someone who you admit seems to care for her.
I wouldn't push for couples counseling cuz if she's a lesbian there is no getting around that but I would say you want shared custody of your children cu you did nothing wrong but get everything in writing
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As a lot of people have suggested, counselling is the only good way you can handle these feelings without making your second daughter feel like a disappointment for not being a boy.
Of course you cant help how you feel and you are no less of a father for having your own feelings but this is something that you absolutely should not project.
Even if you chose to not have more children who knows what the future may hold. It would also help a therapist to know that it is nothing that has to do with your masculinity.
There are many ways of living and even if this feels like a loss now Im sure you will come to see it another way in the future
Insecurities will kill relationships almost every time. If you're afraid your insecurities will cause him to leave, they probably will. Address your insecurities and show your partner that you're addressing them. Your insecurities are not his fault (I think), so you need to be the one to work on them.
Curious, is there ever a time where it's appropriate for an ex to talk to someone about their partner? How about a friend?
Wondering cuz I've dealt with a similar issue recently (but from Lauren's perspective) and I was made out to be the bad guy from the ex / friend because she thought it was appropriate to talk to my significant other about me and keep it between the two of them (which he did not do obviously).
The urine can still (and very likely is) be caused by sexuaal trauma at any age. The physical body is highly connected to the mental and emotional. Something may have triggered your bf at some point before or during sex that caused him to urinate. He definitely should be seeking treatment for his trauma. I would suggest even attending some sessions with him to help you process and cope moving forward as a couple.
Tell you dad you think he should leave and your mom come home, give her space her heart has been broken and she needs spaces, give her few hours then try reaching out to her, in this time tell you dad you want him gone after what he has done to your mom
Like a catfish. Someone pretending to be someone they’re not. It’s very common live!. Like you could be a fat bald 59 year old man pretending to be a pretty woman.
It was deep and meaningful and revealed that she liked me the same way.
One thing I'd caution, is that some people are just good kissers. Unless someone straight out says they like you, you literally can't read anything from a kiss. Life isn't a Cher song.
Kissing someone else in front of you, regardless of feelings, is still pretty fucking rude, and really stupid if that someone is a friend though.
Since you want to maintain your friendships, best just give her a “yeah ok” snap and just avoid too much one on one time with her in the future.
He didn’t offer to come home, he didn’t say anything about coming home. All he’s done is say he’s going on vacation with his mum.
Right now while I am here crying and having a panic attack Writing this they are out at a restaurant having breakfast. And I told him that. And he said “so what I’m hungry”.
You don’t marry him expecting him to change and do better. Be willing to accept this may be as good as it gets.
You value money too much to be with him. Compare how you both see a future? Does he know you expect him to make more? Is he happy with you working? Does he want kids? When? How many? How will that go? Does he want you working then? Time to talk details about how you both see, 1,2,5, 10 years.
He shouldn’t be proposing at all. You need to work out these details. You are combining your fears and wishes, while overlooking reality.
He sounds like a very good boyfriend and will make a good husband. There are more important things than money and he seems to check off all the requirements of a potential good husband to be. I guess you come from a well off family and your financial standards are high. You are both still young and have plenty of time to finance the lifestyle that you want. I say get married because at the end of the day you will be cuddling up to him and not your bank account.
It doesn't even sound like you broke her trust though?
Like, if I'm reading the post correctly, she has never (before this recent conversation/fight) stated a boundary that she is not ok with you viewing porn, right?
Like she basically just sprang it on you with no earlier discussion, and then got pissed off at you because….. no good reason? What is she 5 years old?
You have done literally nothing wrong as far as I can tell, and she is being more than a little unreasonable. Please correct me if I am getting details wrong but this is what I gleaned from your post.
It also makes zero sense that she sees solo porn creators as “worse” than you watching two people have sex. Legitimately nonsensical.
Thank you for the comment. You are right, unhappiness is what it is and it needs to be addressed no matter how difficult that conversation is going to be.
Your concern for your daughter comes across as extremely patronizing. You seem much more concerned about protecting a state of affairs that works for you than allowing your daughter to grow up and experience real sexual love with someone who you admit seems to care for her.
Did you ever regret/resent your partner for that? Or would you say it was worth to overlook this?
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He's clearly not a decent person.
Pay attention to behavior, not the words he tells you.
Your gut feelings that this is not right are correct. That's your brain trying to save you. Listen to it.
Lol, he would be like how you going to pay for that? We don't share finances.
I wouldn't push for couples counseling cuz if she's a lesbian there is no getting around that but I would say you want shared custody of your children cu you did nothing wrong but get everything in writing
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As a lot of people have suggested, counselling is the only good way you can handle these feelings without making your second daughter feel like a disappointment for not being a boy.
Of course you cant help how you feel and you are no less of a father for having your own feelings but this is something that you absolutely should not project.
Even if you chose to not have more children who knows what the future may hold. It would also help a therapist to know that it is nothing that has to do with your masculinity.
There are many ways of living and even if this feels like a loss now Im sure you will come to see it another way in the future
Insecurities will kill relationships almost every time. If you're afraid your insecurities will cause him to leave, they probably will. Address your insecurities and show your partner that you're addressing them. Your insecurities are not his fault (I think), so you need to be the one to work on them.
Curious, is there ever a time where it's appropriate for an ex to talk to someone about their partner? How about a friend?
Wondering cuz I've dealt with a similar issue recently (but from Lauren's perspective) and I was made out to be the bad guy from the ex / friend because she thought it was appropriate to talk to my significant other about me and keep it between the two of them (which he did not do obviously).
For someone so condescending, you sound like an ass.
Everything you wrote are things I already mentioned in my post. I have issues with the very things you said and you are simply repeating them.
The fact you think this comment was worth your time to write shows you have an inflated sense of what’s going on in “your” upstairs.
The urine can still (and very likely is) be caused by sexuaal trauma at any age. The physical body is highly connected to the mental and emotional. Something may have triggered your bf at some point before or during sex that caused him to urinate. He definitely should be seeking treatment for his trauma. I would suggest even attending some sessions with him to help you process and cope moving forward as a couple.
For that relationship nothing can be done. You messed up.
You can only think about how you want to move forward. Do you want to change your addiction, or go to therapy.
jeez that’s a mean response i’m sorry he should’ve been like obviously u are the most beautiful to me duh end of conversation
Tell you dad you think he should leave and your mom come home, give her space her heart has been broken and she needs spaces, give her few hours then try reaching out to her, in this time tell you dad you want him gone after what he has done to your mom
Like a catfish. Someone pretending to be someone they’re not. It’s very common live!. Like you could be a fat bald 59 year old man pretending to be a pretty woman.
It was deep and meaningful and revealed that she liked me the same way.
One thing I'd caution, is that some people are just good kissers. Unless someone straight out says they like you, you literally can't read anything from a kiss. Life isn't a Cher song.
Kissing someone else in front of you, regardless of feelings, is still pretty fucking rude, and really stupid if that someone is a friend though.
Since you want to maintain your friendships, best just give her a “yeah ok” snap and just avoid too much one on one time with her in the future.
Yes he could come home.
He didn’t offer to come home, he didn’t say anything about coming home. All he’s done is say he’s going on vacation with his mum.
Right now while I am here crying and having a panic attack Writing this they are out at a restaurant having breakfast. And I told him that. And he said “so what I’m hungry”.
Correct me if I’m wrong , are you saying he can’t fly home instead of flying to his vacation destination??
The man is half your age. If you can't handle grownup stuff, then find someone your own age.
Thanks ? very helpful
Do not marry him.
You don’t marry him expecting him to change and do better. Be willing to accept this may be as good as it gets.
You value money too much to be with him. Compare how you both see a future? Does he know you expect him to make more? Is he happy with you working? Does he want kids? When? How many? How will that go? Does he want you working then? Time to talk details about how you both see, 1,2,5, 10 years.
He shouldn’t be proposing at all. You need to work out these details. You are combining your fears and wishes, while overlooking reality.
He sounds like a very good boyfriend and will make a good husband. There are more important things than money and he seems to check off all the requirements of a potential good husband to be. I guess you come from a well off family and your financial standards are high. You are both still young and have plenty of time to finance the lifestyle that you want. I say get married because at the end of the day you will be cuddling up to him and not your bank account.
It doesn't even sound like you broke her trust though?
Like, if I'm reading the post correctly, she has never (before this recent conversation/fight) stated a boundary that she is not ok with you viewing porn, right?
Like she basically just sprang it on you with no earlier discussion, and then got pissed off at you because….. no good reason? What is she 5 years old?
You have done literally nothing wrong as far as I can tell, and she is being more than a little unreasonable. Please correct me if I am getting details wrong but this is what I gleaned from your post.
It also makes zero sense that she sees solo porn creators as “worse” than you watching two people have sex. Legitimately nonsensical.
Thank you for the comment. You are right, unhappiness is what it is and it needs to be addressed no matter how difficult that conversation is going to be.
Well, like you said, never ask a question you don’t want a truthful answer to
To be fair he’s a catch compare to a gutter rat.