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The fact you are feeling this way means the relationship is no good.
As someone who was in a similar abusive relationship for 3 years, I can tell you now he is doing this to hurt and control you. He knows the worse he makes you feel about yourself, the less likely you are to leave him and he can keep his punching bag without any issue. You are not an equal to him. He views you as his property.
Don't let someone else's abusive treatment be your foundation for your own self-worth.
You keep talking about how “unfulfilling” you are to him and yet nor once have you talked about if he is fulfilling to YOU. This is what you should be thinking about.
Your trauma does NOT devalue your worth. You are enough. You just need people in your life who want what you have to offer and can offer what you need in return. He is not one of those people. It took me over 3 years to see this. That's 3+ years of my life I can never get back that was taken from someone who refused to see its worth. Don't allow him to steal any more time from you.
It is ok to put your needs first, especially when you are still healing.
As a 6’3” woman I feel like I am in the best position to answer this cause this was also one of my insecurities. I think you should be honest that you worked out just so you could do this for her. I mean she already knows you couldn’t pick her up before, and the fact you invested so much time and energy into being someone who could do that for her, indulge her insecurities like that, would make her feel loved and cared for and genuinely safe in your presence. I say go for it. That was very sweet of you
I think he’s a slow burner and it’s really up to you whether you want to take things further or accept the situationship for what it is atm. He may want to firm things up soon but atm he’s getting some clear benefits and tbh Tinder is about this type of “try before you buy “ culture. Don’t overthink or pressure him on this or he could just skip off the hook. Have an awesome festive weekend buddy and enjoy your fwb for what it is.
She said she doesnt “like condoms” which yes I agree is a red flag when I was trying to use one
So how comes she's not on any form of birth control?
OP….I think you should print out this post, reread it during your next individual counseling sessions, and discuss with your therapist what you consider a “red flag”. As a few sources, loveisrespect.org and “Why does he do that?” might also come in handy.
I am not saying we need to cancel the wedding but lets slow down for the time being.
Slowing down definitely is the way to go. However, given your fiancée's behaviour in the past 7 months, the early honeymoon period (for emphasis: the easiest time of a relationship), you really think she'll just accept that?
I think the more time passes, the more you'll get to know this woman's true face….
He becks you, because you come back every time. Don't use Instagram for a while, or set up a new profile. You keep putting him in your head. You need to stop, or you will repeat this over and over. How much more time do you want to waste on this guy?
I head this on the news, a teen committed suicide over this sort of scam, they were the second one to do so. I think they scam whoever takes the bait, they have no clue how much money a person has or doesn’t.
It’s food service not healthcare don’t worry too much. If it starts to cause relationship issue or escalates to something else then be concerned but for now she is probably ok. Maybe just check in and see if she is struggling with depression or anxiety.
You aren’t wrong for feeling like this, it isn’t fair to her if you aren’t as committed as she is… you should end it now before you waste too much of her time.
But also lol don’t think you’re just gonna go straight to like fucking a different person every night after this, unlikely.
Why haven’t you blocked him and put him in a time out for his behaviour? I think it’s time to tell him you don’t want to be his friend (and why) and permanently block him
The fact you are feeling this way means the relationship is no good.
As someone who was in a similar abusive relationship for 3 years, I can tell you now he is doing this to hurt and control you. He knows the worse he makes you feel about yourself, the less likely you are to leave him and he can keep his punching bag without any issue. You are not an equal to him. He views you as his property.
Don't let someone else's abusive treatment be your foundation for your own self-worth.
You keep talking about how “unfulfilling” you are to him and yet nor once have you talked about if he is fulfilling to YOU. This is what you should be thinking about.
Your trauma does NOT devalue your worth. You are enough. You just need people in your life who want what you have to offer and can offer what you need in return. He is not one of those people. It took me over 3 years to see this. That's 3+ years of my life I can never get back that was taken from someone who refused to see its worth. Don't allow him to steal any more time from you.
It is ok to put your needs first, especially when you are still healing.
I've done it before. It's not that difficult. Especially when the kids are in school.
As a 6’3” woman I feel like I am in the best position to answer this cause this was also one of my insecurities. I think you should be honest that you worked out just so you could do this for her. I mean she already knows you couldn’t pick her up before, and the fact you invested so much time and energy into being someone who could do that for her, indulge her insecurities like that, would make her feel loved and cared for and genuinely safe in your presence. I say go for it. That was very sweet of you
I think he’s a slow burner and it’s really up to you whether you want to take things further or accept the situationship for what it is atm. He may want to firm things up soon but atm he’s getting some clear benefits and tbh Tinder is about this type of “try before you buy “ culture. Don’t overthink or pressure him on this or he could just skip off the hook. Have an awesome festive weekend buddy and enjoy your fwb for what it is.
This has been addressed in the post already.
She said she doesnt “like condoms” which yes I agree is a red flag when I was trying to use one
So how comes she's not on any form of birth control?
OP….I think you should print out this post, reread it during your next individual counseling sessions, and discuss with your therapist what you consider a “red flag”. As a few sources, loveisrespect.org and “Why does he do that?” might also come in handy.
I am not saying we need to cancel the wedding but lets slow down for the time being.
Slowing down definitely is the way to go. However, given your fiancée's behaviour in the past 7 months, the early honeymoon period (for emphasis: the easiest time of a relationship), you really think she'll just accept that?
I think the more time passes, the more you'll get to know this woman's true face….
He becks you, because you come back every time. Don't use Instagram for a while, or set up a new profile. You keep putting him in your head. You need to stop, or you will repeat this over and over. How much more time do you want to waste on this guy?
I head this on the news, a teen committed suicide over this sort of scam, they were the second one to do so. I think they scam whoever takes the bait, they have no clue how much money a person has or doesn’t.
It’s food service not healthcare don’t worry too much. If it starts to cause relationship issue or escalates to something else then be concerned but for now she is probably ok. Maybe just check in and see if she is struggling with depression or anxiety.
You aren’t wrong for feeling like this, it isn’t fair to her if you aren’t as committed as she is… you should end it now before you waste too much of her time.
But also lol don’t think you’re just gonna go straight to like fucking a different person every night after this, unlikely.
you are right. i have read too quickly.
Why haven’t you blocked him and put him in a time out for his behaviour? I think it’s time to tell him you don’t want to be his friend (and why) and permanently block him
Prepare to be a single mother. This man is not fit to be a parent or a support system for you.
Why would I lie ?
Why is it a problem with getting a gift?
It's normal, and common. Just like periods and pooping.
Adults would do well to come to terms with reality.
Just note that his opinion dehumanizes people and doesn't understand biology. Do you want to stay with a bigot?
So, why is it OK to be his friend but you can’t attend his wedding?
He’s gay regardless.
what? he wants another woman?
he said forget it. is he acting mad at you?
walk away. you do not need him
Well 2 for 2, you are not wrong.