Real love is funny. That way you can have somebody that looks really good on paper. Just doesn’t do it for you. Take your time you’re dating your young. But just because he’s good on paper doesn’t mean it’s the perfect boyfriend or husband for you in the future.
Step 1. Get him back to his doctor ASAP. That's not a normal reaction to SSRIs. Antidepressants should make someone less suicidal, not more. This is a big problem that needs to be corrected immediately.
Step 2. Individual therapy for both of you. Whatever happened, and I'm not going to ask(though it sounds like it's related to a custody battle), sounds like it traumatized you both. I would not recommend continuing to try to work through this alone. I would also suggest therapists for your daughters. I can guarantee they've noticed these problems.
Step 3. Once you have begun to properly heal, you get couples therapy to work on your relationship.
Hey just popping in as a freshly divorced 40 yr old to say that if you hydrate and moisturize and wear sunscreen you don't have to be wrinkly. I may have had a tighter body at 25 but I was not “my best”. I was a hard ass mess. Now I'm my best. This has been my Grown Ass Woman Talk.
Be taken seriously on Reddit?? I think that’s an oxymoron.
I get your point. You don’t get mine. In the long run, you aren’t doing yourself any favors.
Real love is funny. That way you can have somebody that looks really good on paper. Just doesn’t do it for you. Take your time you’re dating your young. But just because he’s good on paper doesn’t mean it’s the perfect boyfriend or husband for you in the future.
Step 1. Get him back to his doctor ASAP. That's not a normal reaction to SSRIs. Antidepressants should make someone less suicidal, not more. This is a big problem that needs to be corrected immediately.
Step 2. Individual therapy for both of you. Whatever happened, and I'm not going to ask(though it sounds like it's related to a custody battle), sounds like it traumatized you both. I would not recommend continuing to try to work through this alone. I would also suggest therapists for your daughters. I can guarantee they've noticed these problems.
Step 3. Once you have begun to properly heal, you get couples therapy to work on your relationship.
Hey just popping in as a freshly divorced 40 yr old to say that if you hydrate and moisturize and wear sunscreen you don't have to be wrinkly. I may have had a tighter body at 25 but I was not “my best”. I was a hard ass mess. Now I'm my best. This has been my Grown Ass Woman Talk.
Ironic that he thinks counselling is the end of a marriage when you're literally at the end now.
Are they coming up?
Leave this relationship, you deserve better. Could you imagine if this carried over with her hormones after children? Regardless, you deserve better.
It is a sign of dominance.
youre absolutely right. I think it‘s time to forget about her
I appreciate your honesty. It is a very hard situation. Thank you