She cheated. I have no doubt that this woman had an affair and came to Reddit looking for help with an excuse. This is easily solved by just taking a 23 and me test but for no reason at all she won’t take the test. The only reason she wouldn’t take the test is because it will show something she doesn’t want her family and husband to see.
Op you are extremely suspicious. And god forbid your daughter has an emergency and your husband finds out at the hospital that his daughter isn’t biologically related to him.
Was it cheating? Maybe tech it wasn’t, but it was by omission. Why didn’t she say, “hey, I want to take it slow with you, but I am having a sexual relationship while we’re getting to know each other”. At best, she misrepresented herself but in reality she’s a two face person, and manipulative to use the length of the relationship to invalidate your feelings.
There are so many reasons to end the relationship which puzzles me why it isn’t an option. I think with time you’ll come to that realization, it may be slowly but once you need to make big decisions it will hit you like a hammer.
It’s cultural in some countries. Ppl on-line with family and you can’t have ppl over before marriage. Hotel rooms are very very normal in those corcimstances
I am sorry, but it sort of sounds like you're your own worst enemy here.
They invite you out (as friends do). And them expanding the social circle by inviting other people such as B, it makes you feel left out.
I think you should go and participate in these larger gatherings. And then take the initiative to organize smaller group settings where you're more comfortable.
If you refuse to go to this bigger gatherings on a regular basis, you will probably be invited less because you always say no. And then what? You feel even more isolated.
Just say ‘so hey, uhh, it’s awkward but I’ve forgotten your name. I’m so very sorry & it’s an awful habit. Please don’t think bad of me’ and I hope she’s okay about it. Because honesty is the best way forward
Have you too grown apart personally. If so it could be a personal thing but I would put a stop to it before it develops
She cheated. I have no doubt that this woman had an affair and came to Reddit looking for help with an excuse. This is easily solved by just taking a 23 and me test but for no reason at all she won’t take the test. The only reason she wouldn’t take the test is because it will show something she doesn’t want her family and husband to see.
Op you are extremely suspicious. And god forbid your daughter has an emergency and your husband finds out at the hospital that his daughter isn’t biologically related to him.
Take the bloody test and shut everyone up
Was it cheating? Maybe tech it wasn’t, but it was by omission. Why didn’t she say, “hey, I want to take it slow with you, but I am having a sexual relationship while we’re getting to know each other”. At best, she misrepresented herself but in reality she’s a two face person, and manipulative to use the length of the relationship to invalidate your feelings.
There are so many reasons to end the relationship which puzzles me why it isn’t an option. I think with time you’ll come to that realization, it may be slowly but once you need to make big decisions it will hit you like a hammer.
It’s cultural in some countries. Ppl on-line with family and you can’t have ppl over before marriage. Hotel rooms are very very normal in those corcimstances
I don't think you'd ruin her trip, she doesn't give a damn about your relationship. Just get rid of her. I'm sorry you've been through this.
She is only sorry she got caught. Definitely not the first time. End it.
I am sorry, but it sort of sounds like you're your own worst enemy here.
They invite you out (as friends do). And them expanding the social circle by inviting other people such as B, it makes you feel left out.
I think you should go and participate in these larger gatherings. And then take the initiative to organize smaller group settings where you're more comfortable.
If you refuse to go to this bigger gatherings on a regular basis, you will probably be invited less because you always say no. And then what? You feel even more isolated.
Just say ‘so hey, uhh, it’s awkward but I’ve forgotten your name. I’m so very sorry & it’s an awful habit. Please don’t think bad of me’ and I hope she’s okay about it. Because honesty is the best way forward
This is hinted at by him having an agent, but this level of ego is something I only see in Hollywood portraying itself. Very movie “star” vibes.