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12 thoughts on “ABBY on-line webcams for YOU!”
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Not everyone who watches porn wants to fuck the person they're watching. I'm not saying your boyfriend is or isn't thinking that way, but keep in mind that there are people out there who like to imagine their partner and them doing what's being shown in the video.
Personally, I like watching porn and I'll just fantasize my boyfriend and I instead.
The veil too? this guy has some audacity
What's a TA? I'm not trying to convince anyone. Just telling it like it is.
true, but I feel as if there was just a common sense piece that both him and his mother lacked and if neither of them can see it now then it may cause other problems in the future.
I am the non-agressive one. The right hand side
I wasn't being literal when I said you can't really tell him to dump her. Suppose some things don't translate over text. I was simply implying that she is going to be around, so being civil is probably the best course.
You brought up that he does not hang out with your friends. If you don't care that he doesn't, why bring it up?
If it bothers you to hang out with this particular individual, say no, but do know that it will likely cause ripples and hard feelings with his friend against you based upon how you described the relationship.
You are not going to get answers here from strangers. You have to sort this out with your boyfriend. He is the only person who can help you with this situation.
She deserves better than you.
You’re in what’s called a “trauma bond” with your abuser. That’s why it seems impossible to leave, even though you know this isn’t healthy. The emotional abuse has rewired your brain, but once you know this isn’t yourself, you can start searching for answers. People are so quick to say “why don’t you just leave”, and this is why. They don’t understand how deep a trauma bond is, how it fucks you up. But please seek help, find a trauma informed therapist, please ask someone in your support circle to come over and help you pack and leave while he’s not home. Hope you get out of this soon.
OP said she called this ex and this ex didn’t even know OP existed up to that point.
The genders are reversed but basically this guy is like my ex-SIL who was incredibly abusive to my brother. The first time he tried to leave her, she told him “but I still love you, you stupid bastard”. He cracked and ended up behaving even more badly than her, like her negging turned into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
He totally remembers everything because it was all part of a master plan to get you under his thumb. He's following his protocol, and making note of your reactions to his cruelty to decide when to move on to the next stage.
He's right that he doesn't deserve you. You're right that his latest move is disingenuous and fake.
Unfortunately it speaks to just how many standard toxic/abuse dynamic trends and patterns this is following. I can predict it because that is how these things go. That is what worries me, that I am so on the ball makes it all the clearer this was probably a lot worse than you hoped.
Well, again, your 'love and faith' is based on the version of him that exists when you aren't able to express your concerns. It is love when you ignore what you are unhappy about. And that faith isn't real faith, you don't actually believe he will change, it strikes me as sunk cost and that would much more readily inform why you find it hard to let go.
One core element here seems to be that you find it hard to maintain boundaries but also, via continuing to condone him in your life, a lack of self care. You place the hypothetical of him improving over the damage he is actively doing. I say it is a trauma bond but it starts also entering the realm of codependency at that point as well.
Just say I know you cheated. Don’t tell her how you know. Or tell her you know everything cause your boyfriend sold you out. Go to Surviving infidelity.com. It helped me with a cheating wife.