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Well, until OP clarifies, we can’t know, but I still don’t see anything in that post that suggests that the husband is interested. I see a needy, creepy female friend, but I do not see reciprocation.
It's fair for a person to take their time to 'get over' someone, it doesn't always just end. If he told you he was still getting over someone that's fair as well, means he doesn't have much to hide.
If after all of that his eyes were on you, then I don't seem to understand the problem. Seems like a decent person to me.
I wish I could give you a big hug right now. That’s the first time I’ve ever said something like that on Reddit, but I think you need one. You’re doing great. No one is gonna abandon you, no one is gonna hate you. I’m sure your parents and friends love you very much, but they may not know how to express it the best. I don’t think you’ve got anything to worry about with them.
As for your boyfriend, you’re doing a whole lot for him and it doesn’t seem like he’s doing much in return. Seems pretty unfair to me. I can see why that’s getting so exhausting. As scary as it may be, I think you need to tell him you expect more from him, because you definitely deserve more effort.
Because she is obviously upto sormyhing, no no ko married woman and men don't just start 'hangining out' with singles.
We don't live! on fantasy island here this is someone who is either very close to a cheat situation or already is, probably long before it even got mentioned.
That's fair, it does look padded to say “Well I applied to X jobs” I will drive that distance. It's not a deal breaker, but it was absolutely top five mutually agreed reasons we moved away in the first place. His commute has always been
Nope. You've been friend-zoned by your boyfriend. It's probably 50-50 right now if you can survive this. This is where you need to start inviting yourself along for these dates. Get to know her. Invite her over to your place for dinner. Tell her to bring a date! Lean full into it.
Have you asked your sweet kind loving boyfriend if his work-wife knows he's already married?
Part of our job as parents is to demonstrate healthy relationships for them to model.
If you’re not happy in your relationship then it’s time to either try therapy or end things. Staying together “for the kid” rarely works out well for anyone. Just makes everyone—including the kid—miserable.
first off, he is disrespectful and this is borderline abuse, and drunk people are not known to be very well in touch with their body and limits…
But you don't seem the brightest of the bunch either, as pulling out is in no way an effective method and can be considered actively trying for pregnancy. Might as well just cum inside, it does't matter.
I think you are severely overreacting and need to chill, couples should take vacations separate and he needs to see him family, this is something you should deal with either with therapy or self help books to figure out why you are having such a strong reaction.
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I agree we should all talk about it but I want to figure out how I feel about it first. Is this too weird? Are me and BF being immature? I dont want to stay if it’s going to affect my relationship with him negatively. I’ve never been in a situation like this, I’m trying to gauge other’s opinions
she’s moving too fast lol. not a red flag but u need to be honest that you’re not ready to marry her and want to be w/ someone for atleast a year before making a promise of sorts, after living together
Hi! I hope my replying is not bothersome. I hope you don't a bit of discussion, either!
I had mentioned something about our age difference before shortening the post, as I felt it was too long. Would you still think the same if I said that we're both well aware of the age gap, and that he slept on it before dating me?
I'm planning on leaving the workplace soon, so all you've suggested is feasible, even if I don't believe he is manipulating me. But maybe he is, yeah. The issue is, do I leave the place AND him behind haha.
Thank you so much for your advice. I appreciate it a lot!
If no one mentioned it already, get checked for STI’s. I would not be having sex with this person anymore. Lawyer up. Keep letting them make more and more evidence.
It has been confusing for me because he puts me and my job down but does it in a “joking” way so it almost feels like I'm overreacting if I get upset. For example, he is a doctor and I am a PA. We both work at the same hospital but doctors get special parking privileges. He'll smile and say “I'm a doctor so I get to park here, unlike you peasants” (peasants referring to me and my coworkers). It always feels like it's supposed to be a joke, but it's just not very funny to me like it is to him. But in more serious moments, he'll tell me what a great accomplishment it is that I'm a PA and got through the schooling, etc. So sometimes it feels like he respects me and thinks highly of me, but then other times it feels like he tries to make it known that I'm beneath him.
I know his past girlfriends all were around his age and left him pretty quickly. I'm wondering now if he also “joked” around with them this way and they left as soon as they saw the signs. He always told me they left for other reasons.
The naked truth is that he’s going to retaliate no matter what because you’re leaving. Leaving is the most dangerous time in all abusive relationships, and I have no doubt in my mind he’s going to hurt/kill you to punish you for leaving or try to force you to stay. At this point, he can retaliate with the police aware and ready to act the moment he moves, or he can retaliate with you alone, vulnerable, and unprepared. Listen to the advice given to you here, listen to the police, and call a domestic abuse hotline and follow their instructions.
I think that person was commenting on the fact that it seems a bit odd (to some) she would ever question letting her friend know this info. So it creates a question of did she come about the info in a way that would expose her for something as well. Lots of people take a not my business attitude to life, and I will say I dont appreciate the opposite of that where people are all in your business unasked. But if I considered someone a friend (rather than an acquaintance) I wouldn't have any conflict about letting them know.
Well, until OP clarifies, we can’t know, but I still don’t see anything in that post that suggests that the husband is interested. I see a needy, creepy female friend, but I do not see reciprocation.
Yeah don’t text people huge speeches before blocking them. Just block them.
It's fair for a person to take their time to 'get over' someone, it doesn't always just end. If he told you he was still getting over someone that's fair as well, means he doesn't have much to hide.
If after all of that his eyes were on you, then I don't seem to understand the problem. Seems like a decent person to me.
I wish I could give you a big hug right now. That’s the first time I’ve ever said something like that on Reddit, but I think you need one. You’re doing great. No one is gonna abandon you, no one is gonna hate you. I’m sure your parents and friends love you very much, but they may not know how to express it the best. I don’t think you’ve got anything to worry about with them.
As for your boyfriend, you’re doing a whole lot for him and it doesn’t seem like he’s doing much in return. Seems pretty unfair to me. I can see why that’s getting so exhausting. As scary as it may be, I think you need to tell him you expect more from him, because you definitely deserve more effort.
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Because she is obviously upto sormyhing, no no ko married woman and men don't just start 'hangining out' with singles.
We don't live! on fantasy island here this is someone who is either very close to a cheat situation or already is, probably long before it even got mentioned.
That's fair, it does look padded to say “Well I applied to X jobs” I will drive that distance. It's not a deal breaker, but it was absolutely top five mutually agreed reasons we moved away in the first place. His commute has always been
Nope. You've been friend-zoned by your boyfriend. It's probably 50-50 right now if you can survive this. This is where you need to start inviting yourself along for these dates. Get to know her. Invite her over to your place for dinner. Tell her to bring a date! Lean full into it.
Have you asked your sweet kind loving boyfriend if his work-wife knows he's already married?
Part of our job as parents is to demonstrate healthy relationships for them to model.
If you’re not happy in your relationship then it’s time to either try therapy or end things. Staying together “for the kid” rarely works out well for anyone. Just makes everyone—including the kid—miserable.
Does this only come up after consuming alcohol
first off, he is disrespectful and this is borderline abuse, and drunk people are not known to be very well in touch with their body and limits…
But you don't seem the brightest of the bunch either, as pulling out is in no way an effective method and can be considered actively trying for pregnancy. Might as well just cum inside, it does't matter.
If you missed a pill, use a condom.
I admire you for having so much conviction in what you believe in but whether it will be worth it in the long run I’m not so sure.
GET OUT.
This isn't going to end well
Just send him a ss of his bio and block him. Unless you are planning on staying….
Because I would be able to move back home and we would get a house together lol
I've worked with Love Is Respect and they do a stellar job with helping young people understand abuse.
Bullshit. There is no way in hell you left no trace.
I think you are severely overreacting and need to chill, couples should take vacations separate and he needs to see him family, this is something you should deal with either with therapy or self help books to figure out why you are having such a strong reaction.
Piggybacking off this comment; there are 'strap ons' that actually fit over a ftm persons clitoris, and are flesh toned. They can provide more feeling and stimulation for the person wearing them, as well as look and feel more realistic for the person receiving them. It might be worth looking into if you decide to stay in the relationship.
I agree we should all talk about it but I want to figure out how I feel about it first. Is this too weird? Are me and BF being immature? I dont want to stay if it’s going to affect my relationship with him negatively. I’ve never been in a situation like this, I’m trying to gauge other’s opinions
Thank you! Yes, I like to think he would do that. I know I would.
she’s moving too fast lol. not a red flag but u need to be honest that you’re not ready to marry her and want to be w/ someone for atleast a year before making a promise of sorts, after living together
Hi! I hope my replying is not bothersome. I hope you don't a bit of discussion, either!
I had mentioned something about our age difference before shortening the post, as I felt it was too long. Would you still think the same if I said that we're both well aware of the age gap, and that he slept on it before dating me?
I'm planning on leaving the workplace soon, so all you've suggested is feasible, even if I don't believe he is manipulating me. But maybe he is, yeah. The issue is, do I leave the place AND him behind haha.
Thank you so much for your advice. I appreciate it a lot!
If no one mentioned it already, get checked for STI’s. I would not be having sex with this person anymore. Lawyer up. Keep letting them make more and more evidence.
I wish Reddit still gave our free awards so I could give you one.
Don't date coworkers.
It has been confusing for me because he puts me and my job down but does it in a “joking” way so it almost feels like I'm overreacting if I get upset. For example, he is a doctor and I am a PA. We both work at the same hospital but doctors get special parking privileges. He'll smile and say “I'm a doctor so I get to park here, unlike you peasants” (peasants referring to me and my coworkers). It always feels like it's supposed to be a joke, but it's just not very funny to me like it is to him. But in more serious moments, he'll tell me what a great accomplishment it is that I'm a PA and got through the schooling, etc. So sometimes it feels like he respects me and thinks highly of me, but then other times it feels like he tries to make it known that I'm beneath him.
I know his past girlfriends all were around his age and left him pretty quickly. I'm wondering now if he also “joked” around with them this way and they left as soon as they saw the signs. He always told me they left for other reasons.
The naked truth is that he’s going to retaliate no matter what because you’re leaving. Leaving is the most dangerous time in all abusive relationships, and I have no doubt in my mind he’s going to hurt/kill you to punish you for leaving or try to force you to stay. At this point, he can retaliate with the police aware and ready to act the moment he moves, or he can retaliate with you alone, vulnerable, and unprepared. Listen to the advice given to you here, listen to the police, and call a domestic abuse hotline and follow their instructions.
I think that person was commenting on the fact that it seems a bit odd (to some) she would ever question letting her friend know this info. So it creates a question of did she come about the info in a way that would expose her for something as well. Lots of people take a not my business attitude to life, and I will say I dont appreciate the opposite of that where people are all in your business unasked. But if I considered someone a friend (rather than an acquaintance) I wouldn't have any conflict about letting them know.
Thank you. I’m sorry for you and your family
Maybe he is married or in a relationship
Yet you stay with him?
What’s the common denominator here?