Bf now has the opportunity to earn a referral bonus from someone he gets hired. Would he then have to give OP a cut for referring him in the first place?
Back off. The ex texts “hi”. That is nothing. It does happen that people start dating and at some point look at each other and end it. Adult & friendly.
In 4 years, she may have spent a lot of time with the brother. She can see him if she wants.
You two don't sound compatible. She likes sleeping around with different men at the same time, and you prefer full monogamy. You have no reason to trust that she will be faithful when she was perfectly happy sleeping around with multiple men for two whole months of your relationship. You were only an option to her until he either upset her or he dumped her for someone else. You shouldn't settle for being an option or backup.
I would get a therapist asap if you don’t have one already, and If you do want to try to make things work with your wife you will need to do couples therapy as well. She def fucked up and broke your trust in a huge way.
Since the main issue seems to be your husband, what’s keeping you from going to see your son and daughter-in-law yourself? It sounds very much like your husband has a lot more to do with this than your son. You want to see your grandchildren, then humble yourself and call, email, write, whatever you have to do to go see them. If they don’t want to forgive your husband, that’s their choice. It doesn’t sound like your son and his father will ever see eye to eye but that shouldn’t stop you from creating your own relationship if you really want to.
In five years you’ll be posting on Deadbedrooms wondering wtf happened to your life and if you should leave your wife who pressured you into a marriage you didn’t want
Or you’ll have found someone you’re actually compatible with and are living a wonderful life
Yeah lol it was some rare blue type lobster too. My issue is that, it’s his money, and he’s not actively harming anyone. I think I’ll just ask him again more intently and see how he responds. Maybe we can figure something out.
Tell your parents that they have a choice, either trust their children, or risk losing their children.
Your sister has spent years getting over the abuse her ex did to her, and she deserves to be happy.
You and your brother know this Blake, and have vouched for him. And I’m sure that if you ever saw anything even hinting like even the tiniest bit of abusive behaviour, that you’d make Blake rue the day he came into your lives.
Does this message make sense to you?
That is for you to decide.
Personally I wouldn’t.
Bf now has the opportunity to earn a referral bonus from someone he gets hired. Would he then have to give OP a cut for referring him in the first place?
Let me make this absolutely clear – unless he is suffering some mental health issues, if a guy wants to hook up they will do ANYTHING to get there.
Honestly, stop chasing him.
No need to be rude just don’t initiate any conversations with him.
Back off. The ex texts “hi”. That is nothing. It does happen that people start dating and at some point look at each other and end it. Adult & friendly.
In 4 years, she may have spent a lot of time with the brother. She can see him if she wants.
You two don't sound compatible. She likes sleeping around with different men at the same time, and you prefer full monogamy. You have no reason to trust that she will be faithful when she was perfectly happy sleeping around with multiple men for two whole months of your relationship. You were only an option to her until he either upset her or he dumped her for someone else. You shouldn't settle for being an option or backup.
I would get a therapist asap if you don’t have one already, and If you do want to try to make things work with your wife you will need to do couples therapy as well. She def fucked up and broke your trust in a huge way.
He’s not a dom. He’s sexually assaulting you.
Since the main issue seems to be your husband, what’s keeping you from going to see your son and daughter-in-law yourself? It sounds very much like your husband has a lot more to do with this than your son. You want to see your grandchildren, then humble yourself and call, email, write, whatever you have to do to go see them. If they don’t want to forgive your husband, that’s their choice. It doesn’t sound like your son and his father will ever see eye to eye but that shouldn’t stop you from creating your own relationship if you really want to.
Yes, and the uterus signals to the brain to release certain hormones not just the ovaries
In five years you’ll be posting on Deadbedrooms wondering wtf happened to your life and if you should leave your wife who pressured you into a marriage you didn’t want
Or you’ll have found someone you’re actually compatible with and are living a wonderful life
…choice is yours
Dodge the bullet… send gf on her way… shes fd in the head. Precheating is ridiculous
Yeah lol it was some rare blue type lobster too. My issue is that, it’s his money, and he’s not actively harming anyone. I think I’ll just ask him again more intently and see how he responds. Maybe we can figure something out.
I’d watch that telenovela!
right?? its not uncommon to watch porn that isnt a mirror of your sexual orientation, but how is he gonna say wlw porn isnt gay
Tell your parents that they have a choice, either trust their children, or risk losing their children.
Your sister has spent years getting over the abuse her ex did to her, and she deserves to be happy.
You and your brother know this Blake, and have vouched for him. And I’m sure that if you ever saw anything even hinting like even the tiniest bit of abusive behaviour, that you’d make Blake rue the day he came into your lives.
You’re choosing gold over your WIFE ??♂️ and you’re justifying it.
If she did the same to you you’d be pissed off
I was one once, and I was very capable of making responsible decisions.