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I’m not sure how far things have gotten with her but she’s being honest in letting you know how she’s feels and letting you decide whether to still pursue her. That’s admirable but also your cue to step back.
She has deeply held feelings for another, even after 18 months. You can’t get around that. You can’t fight it. There is no fighting for her, because you’re fighting memories and feelings. Be a friend if you can but don’t get romantically involved. In time she might get over him, but she may also find someone else and you might also find someone who wants only you.
I wouldn’t be friends with someone like that, I wouldn’t ever want to put in a situation like that so I couldn’t be around someone that so willingly does it to someone else. Especially it’s someone “they can see their life with”, like what? You see them as that but are cheating on them? Not only once but for months to years?? Those type of people disgust me, I will not ever understand why they do what they do.
Your friends a shitty ass person and using her mental health as an excuse isn’t even a reasonable one. I understand depression, I have it severely but it hasn’t ever caused me to stray from my partner in any way. She just doesn’t want to sit through all the fallout of what is sure to come from it. She’d rather keep it a secret to save face and not let her crappiness show. Allowing her fiancé to continue marrying her without this knowledge is soo f’ed in so many ways. Also, “her ex has a strong pull on her and I worry that she would re-engage if he reached out again,” then WHY IS SHE IN A RELATIONSHIP?!? If she is not over him she has no reason to be engaged to someone else.
Yep. 1500 texts and 10+ hours of phone calls. She's already in emotional affair and has plans to see him in person. She's had all the conversations with him that she won't have with me.
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You only regret it because you don’t have control over it anymore. Before you said it out loud it was just in your head and you could contain it somewhat. But now it’s out there and you desperately want him to respond like a loving partner but you don’t have control over that. It will be okay. Stick to your guns and know what you deserve!
You handled it perfectly in my opinion. You stood your ground. When he crossed your boundary you left. As you should. And the fact you said “honestly feel great” is proof that it was the right decision.
I can relate but i think if you give her time she will be able to do it. Well only if you see she is really trying to improve, if she just give up i would have another thought.
Mine also has problems with it but she improves every day and i think in a future she won't have any problem at all and both will be able to enjoy it. Other parts of sex life are fine so there's no rush rn.
Ok, ignore the trashing. To your basic question. Should you apologize? Yes and in person. Period
I hope you’ll be willing to go with her, improve your physical self as well and not just put it all on her.
You marry for the heart, not the looks and for you to say it’s a turn off, is your opinion yes, it’s just kinda shitty. I’m sure her doctor would tell her when it’s impacting her health.
I assume he’s trying to get another girl. Suggest another guy and see what his reaction is (mmf)
I think you're right
It's understandable to not want to give your partner head as a lot of people don't like it but it's not understandable to not communicate that to your partner. OP isn't asking to find ways to “make him” do things as that is not once mentioned in their post. They're asking to find a way to communicate with their partner that they want more reciprocation in sex. It's fine to not want to give head, it's not okay to be a selfish lover.
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Ew. What s manipulative ass
HE WANTS ME TO MOVE IN NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND
Boy she is cheating and gaslighting the hell outta you
Just dump her already.
Her actions so far have shown that she doesn’t respect you.
Could be he was catfished by some dude in Nigeria pretending to be a woman, and was caressing his ego and pressuring him to send nudes so he could be blackmailed for cash. Still cheating and wrong but some of these criminals are very good at what they do.
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The boyfriend didn't cheat. They slept together when bf and OP weren't together. OP, this relationship sounds volatile and unhappy. Why are you with someone that you believe is in love with someone else? You should insist that your bf set reasonable, healthy boundaries with his friend, if you stay together. If he will not do that, you need to break up. If he sets reasonable boundaries with his friend and is respectful to the relationship you have, then you need to move on from what he did when you weren't together. If you can't do that, then you need to break up. Staying together and resenting him and punishing him is not a good option. Staying together if he's having an emotional affair is also not a good option. Breakup, or fully commit to making the relationship work.
its fubar.
This is my first serious relationship. I do really feel like we can make things work and that change can be made because we are objectively in a better place now than we were a year ago today. Despite this old arguments about new things still come up and our disagreements follow the same painful cycle without much change. I want to make it work and it feels like she does too but I always feel like the one sacrificing myself for compromise and I'm always the one made to be the bad guy.
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Since then I'm constantly overthinking that maybe I overreacted. Maybe I should've given her more time to slowly ease into how relationships work… maybe she brought her friend because she was too shy to tell me that herself…
I think you overreacted, but you're allowed to have your feelings. You're much more experienced with relationships than she is, so her feeling things were going too fast could be understandable. And her bringing her friend – don't assume that she's afraid of you, but maybe she needed moral support?
This situation comes down to a lack of communication. You both are young, so communicating with a partner may be difficult.
If you really like her, give her a call, apologize, and maybe start over by having a long, honest talk about wants, needs and expectations.
Take care. Go easy on her and on yourself.
To put it bluntly, your options are:
Deal with the lack of sex Breakup and remain friends (if possible) Delicately bring up opening the relationship and see what he thinks.
In germany, anything you do from 14 years or older is legal if your parents are okay with what‘s happening and don‘t sue.
First, wetness is not a sign that you are ready for sex. You want full arousal to allow for your vagina to have the time to fully expand. This usually takes at least 20 minutes but can take longer. During that time, his focus should be on you and your arousal. Start with a nice sexy massage to help you relax, leading to making out, fondling, neck kisses, nipple play, and using his mouth and hands to tease every sensitive sexy spot he can find. While going down on you, he should be gently inserting one finger and using it to gently stretch you, then two, then three. If you can get to that point comfortably THEN he can try to penetrate you with his penis. If you can't even get to that point and just fingers are too painful, you should see a doctor to rule out medical issues.
you guys really dont know how much reddit support means to me.. you guys give me so much support and closure. When I know I've been wronged and I am too beat down to do anything about it , ppl outside the situation can tell you the common sense you need to hear.
He was such a thief – it was more than that, it was such a deep betrayal. One of the things another Redditor said really hit me – it was why did you let him keep getting away with it?
2nd layer of protection YES! UR RIGHT IM SO LUCKY IT WAS ONLY 20K!! I fell for his BS
You're right I can protect myself now
It’s a lost cause. I’m sorry. Leave him. You can do better. And you deserve better. Trust me, you should leave. Feel free to message me as I have been through the same.
No he's 2% body fat
Didn't even occur to me. Hilarious if that's the case.
What a horrible thing to do to your wife.
Still by that logic OP could also use a female condom if he is too dumb to use a male one and she won't leave him for someone who will.
You just this.
Find someone your age whos been in a coma since 12 and you may get what you want.
I'm not clingy. I'm just in a lot of pain. I'm going to therapy and he's a loner to the extreme. He doesn't really talk or have a lot of genuine conversation. I am a loner myself, I just want to be around the guy I date at least once a week or once every two weeks.
Do you know exactly where she goes, her behavior is very concerning
This is so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry to hear that OP. Remember that you are irreplaceable. They may act like they all love her but you are so much more important. You are loved and valued. I wish your family could be more considerate of your feelings.
Don’t throw away a career for a man.
If she's going to cheat on you, who she lives with and is friends with is completely irrelevant.
And the fact that her room mate is good looking doesn't matter either. She's either loyal or she's not. If she's going to cheat with someone because they're good looking (in your opinion) then do you expect her to work with ugly people? Ignore good-looking people who ask for directions? Be unable to perceive a good-looking waiter who asks her for an order?
Attractiveness in others isn't what gets people to cheat. Are you yourself surrounded by people you find unattractive?
The relationship is working out for me. That is literally all that you need to say.
Great, if you enjoy being asked if you're on your period every time you say anything the least bit disruptive, please continue telling all the guys when you're on it!
Exactly… dump him…you wasted 10 years…don't waste another day
I mean he’s here criticizing his wife while leaving comments like
If she told me directly that she did not want kids, not now not ever, obviously that would influence my feelings more than “maybe there's a small chance someday”
He has literally never expressed his desires either but she is the bad guy? Mmhmmm
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Ask her if she has other lies and secrets to come clear before your relationship goes anywhere.
She can be honestly panicked that you did not hook up if she warned about her having child. Or she can need a father figure more than a bf. Or you can be her future bank account. Or she may really love you and have a bad experience of abandonment.
Sit her and have a serious discussion. No blaming. Tell her that discovering her son so late is disturbing. Tell her it is not about her son but about trust, yours and hers. Let her explain her situation and her feelings.
If you want to leave, you can do any time. But having the answers is worth waiting quietly.
Yeah, I wonder if he'd see through it…
He might let me take him to the vet though. I'm more confident that he would let me do that. Could I really claim him just by doing that? Taking him to the vet and microchipping him? And how would I get his documents?
I know, he's never shown physical aggression. But I've become paranoid still, wondering what it would take to make him snap. And I can't move, he'll always know where I am. I'm in the process of building my own house right now
He's got 1 foot in the cheating territory. If he hasn't already cheated, he's thinking about it. Nobody does that while they're in a relationship if they actually care about their partner
It’s full of children it seems
There isn’t enough evidence yet to say if she is or isn’t. I would wait to see how she acts when she comes home.
You should be consulting a divorce attorney, not Reddit.
She’s already repeatedly gotten physical with you, a grown-arsed man who could likely floor her with one good hit. You’re a damn fool if you think she would ‘never in a million billion gazillion years’ have it in her to inflict violence on your children who are too small and weak to protect themselves.
Once violence enters the picture, counselling should be off the table. That shit can’t be fixed. Cut your losses, take the kids and leave.
The Kiss was gonna happen sooner or later tho because we've been super close friends for a while
I'd accept this if we had an especially difficult baby, but our son is a dream with my wife being able to stay at home full time and myself working from home so the stress we have on us is far less than what can usually be expected
Yikes. I would think one of the first things he was taught would have been DONT ANALYZE PEOPLE WHO AREN'T YOUR PATIENTS. Even if his insights have been helpful, he should not be your therapist. Maybe your therapist can explain it to you both.
Oh honey this is the beginning of a very toxic and most likely abusive situation. It breaks my heart that you feel like staying with that kind of person. Please read “Why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft.
Fucking own it and tell her you dig her instead of this mind games bullshit bro. She flat out asked you for the direct truth and you still danced around it. Not telling her your intentions make you creepy.
Confront him
Yes!! This!!!
Only way he'll maybe want to actually marry you is if you definitely end it…
I don't even talk to my husband when he's got that game face on because I don't want to distract him. he was always a responsible gamer and he deserved his break. now that he's gone, I miss the sounds in the gaming room. you deserve better OP.
He needs to understand where you are coming from! Not the other way around.
He sounds like an immature, inexperienced 15 year old boy.
Maybe you should leave him so he can experience other women and the unfortunate health issues we have to deal with.