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If its not an explicit yes then its a no, dont dance around their words and try and piece things together to see them how you want to see them
DNA test for what?
Also, grease the squeaky door and if it's yellow let it mellow. she sounds like a real peach.
Well that’s why we don’t leave things lying around where they can get cummed on ?
if this just happened last night, i’m sure it’s all feeling a whole hell of a lot worse today, the morning after. Talk to your boyfriend about it, tell him you feel hurt. When you have a clear head (not today if this just happened last night!) think about what “jokes” were thrown around and if it warrants an apology or conversation with the friend. Drunk nights can get messy.
Np. If you need to talk you can always DM me.
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“Love” means you accept him the way he defines himself…..
and the same goes for him.
What…exactly….are you two playing at?
I'm going to say yes. You are being groomed.
Google “rupture and repair in relationships.” It’s a critical skill for close relationships to thrive. However, many people are taught to not speak up, or to not express hurt or anger, and to go along to get along. So when someone is upset they resent it because they probably put up with stuff that they’re mad about, or they’re not use to someone being upset with them so it feels hurtful to them rather than them recognize they’re the ones who caused hurt.
The solution is to learn to share hurt more often, and when it’s small, so it doesn’t get too big so that people arent overwhelmed by the hurt they caused and are more able to fix it. Also google how to turn complaints into requests, so even when you do speak up you say it in a way that encourages negotiation and cooperation, rather than aher and hurt. I’d start there, see if it helps.
I think you text message is too vague. She will absolutely go to him first and ask him what's up. He will lie and deflect and may even say something that will cause her to not want any interactions with your whole group. Don't leave this woman out there like that call her and speak to her directly.
If you have BPD then DO NOT enter into any kind of relationship until this has been thoroughly treated and dealt with. Otherwise, you will only cause pain, chaos, and destruction. Do NOT let your BPD be an excuse to treat others badly.
He's telling you it's over. Believe him.
Sometimes break ups are very hot to accept. The sooner you do, the sooner you can move on. Start by referring to him as your ex boyfriend. He isn't your boyfriend anymore. I'm sorry.
Better days will come.
Is your husband a person who is conscious of other peoples perceptions? Do you think he was saying out loud what he thinks his friends are thinking about your weight gain?
Sometimes it's not that people are saying what they truly believe, but voicing what they perceive to be other peoples opinions. Its a form of people pleasing. Is that in line with your husbands personality?
Wtf why are you dating this monster?!
Also, tell her to get the magnums. The Trojans she bought me were too small.
There are different kinds of intelligence in this world. Some do well academically, some do well in other areas. If you find something that really interests her, you may find she's quite smart about that. Being a decent person and knowing how to make your love happy beats being smart quite often. Also, being with a smart partner can be quite exhausting, as they have the tendency to make everything into a never ending debate. As my SO often tells me.
FFS!! Do not buy dogs in the future, plenty at shelters!!
Maybe the OP should find the sunglasses on-line and see if the price matches a price bumped up by a prescription element.
7 years and you can’t go to his mother’s funeral? Something is not right in your relationship.
To be quite honest, I wouldn’t be surprised if 95% of relationships are still alive because the other just hasn’t been caught, never was caught or they both never been caught.
Who the hell sends videos of them jacking off….?!?!
Does this seem out of character for him…
The real question you need to ask yourself, is he going to be willing, thorough and honest with trying to regain your trust…. Trust is earned in drops and lost in buckets.
It will take at least 2 years for this not to be a weekly thought in your head.
Does the dude even do sweet things like brush your hair….
If you can't talk about sex, you're not ready for having sex.
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33 is an age where the biological clock gets scary. It could be her relationship is stagnant.
If you're interested in a relationship with her, tell her you've noticed there seems to be interest beyond work and you're wondering if it's just wishful thinking, or if you should ask her out for a date.
That's on her. If she allows you to protect her like a ration person do so but she needs to face the consequences of her actions. Being drunk doesn't MAKE you do anything it just removes your filter. She wanted to hit you so she hit you. Not a person I would want to be with.
“You hit me and acted like a total psycho, instead of apologizing you act like more of an ass. This is not a relationship I care to be in anymore.” I look at dating like this its a interview for marriage. DO you want to spend the next 40 years with a person that acts like this? No you don't.
A low sperm count doesn't mean you're sterile.
Exactly, check out r/vasectomy if you want to see some serious frustration regarding the fact that low sperm count does mean unable to convince. Every few months you'll see some poor bastard get told he's still not safe because the test found like three sperm. Is he fertile, no. Could he knock someone up?….. probably.
I would break up with you if I was her. This is totally unacceptable.
You have to do what's best for you. His issues are his own. He sounds like he has some work to do on himself & dealing with his emotions before he should be in any relationship.
Hey, OP, how's that perfection going so far? If it's that perfect, why are you here? Shouldn't all of that MIL drama just be sliding off on account of all that perfectness you have going on?
This is it, OP. This is your married life but X3 because now you'll on-line with her. He's 27 ffs, he's not changing. So, are you?
I would recommend therapy for you first. You need to get to the cause of your cheating.
This is a more profound point than most people realize. A paternity test really only proves that she was faithful one time. lol. He needs to cut off this friend group.
Dude. Come on.
I genuinely think it’s uncomfortable for him
Lmao.
Dude jacks it too much ,and everything else is lies. Tell him to take a break until condoms feel good.
Some people get into a bad rut of self loathing and misery. It's destructive for them and for the people around them. You have to do what's best for your mental health. She is bringing you down.
I have he's just not taking his clothes off this time isn't that weird?
If you confront him he’s most likely going to gaslight you and go off because you snooped through his phone and turn it all back around on you. I’d just leave with no explanation
Since things are now open to insults, I don't think you realise how hypocritical you're behaviour is. I feel sorry for the guy already. What a head fk
Sorry, I don't understand. How is this abuse? I'm not saying it's not, but he doesn't belittle me or hit me or anything.
You mentioned she at one point, so you should really be saying “my daughter” or “our daughter”.
She is not someone you want to commit for life. And that's okay. But stop stringing her along. It's okay if it is not a match. She deserves to find someone compatible. Just like you.
This is so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry to hear that OP. Remember that you are irreplaceable. They may act like they all love her but you are so much more important. You are loved and valued. I wish your family could be more considerate of your feelings.
All these questions where you assume the people answering you must not be sports fans, or fans of an opponent are ridiculous. Hate to break it to you, but even your fellow sports fans understand that your wife and kids deserve the priority. Dismissing everyone who disagrees with you as “you're just not a fan and don't understand” is exceptionally juvenile.
How do I make it right?
you dont, you're past the point of no return. (hear me out) she begged you and begged you to open (what was to her) pandoras box. you opened it, she couldnt deal with the contents, and quickly realised theres no going back.
At this point it would probably be best if you were no longer room mates, (as reading this, sounds like she has psychologically ended the relationship) and you take care of you first.
Is it the same problems or are they getting solved? Why are you arguing every month?
You doubt his loyalty now. His past behaviour doesn’t change his present. Your relationship is changing for the worse. Is pretending it’s not helping?
Do you people not understand how these social media companies work? Here's what probably happened.
He has intagram installed on his phone and either has you in his contacts and granted access to his contacts to instagram or he follows you on instagram. Same thing with your sister: instagram has access to her contacts and you are in her contacts OR she follows you on instagram. Instagram (and all other social media do this as well) look at their data and found that two people (coach and sister) know a person in common and Instagram recommended to the coach to follow the sister. He clicked the follow button. Sister got the request. He didn't go for her, Instagram shoved her in his face.
The worst you can say about coach is that he's given too much access to Instagram (and probably your sister did that too) and he blindly clicked a follow button
Ask her why she wants that guy specifically. Chances are they either have great chemistry or he has/does something she likes (big dick, toys etc). She clearly likes you but also enjoys sex with this other guy
Op have you checked if this is a kink? Maybe she gets off on seeing you feel uncomfortable in these settings? If it is, it’s clear you’re not into it.
You deserve better than someone who will “joke” about rape. With this, he’s showing you who he truly is. He’s made you uncomfortable before, and he SOMETIMES apologizes about it. You cannot trust him to respect your bodily autonomy. Dump him. Just because you’re dating/engaged/married doesn’t mean he’s entitled to jack squat from you.
Yeah, yta. You knew what you signed up for and bailed cuz shit got very hot.
If this isn’t performance art that you’re over-committing to now that you’ve been called out on this being ripped from an episode of a TV show, then my dude, go talk to a professional. It seems that you are seeing the world differently than most, and you might want to discuss that with a professional.
I'm aware… That's my point…
You’re probably right, I just didn’t want to come to this conclusion. She’s been my best friend my whole life
You sister is the golden child for sure. Or they are blinded by the grandkids. Best advice is to stop contacting them and let them come 2 you. If they want to talk 2 you about youre ex Just dont, switch topics and if that doesnt work leave or hang up the Phone. You are not going to win this with them so focus on others in youre on-line.
4 years?? as in you were 16 and he was 22???? i’m sorry OP but he should have never approached you at that age, you’ve been groomed by an unstable manipulative person and you need to get far away.
So what are you going to do if, a couple of years from now, mom has a change of heart and wants her daughter back?
Cost of living is astronomical and only getting higher, and he doesn’t want to support a student, and therefore also likely wouldn’t be able to get a mortgage these days as a single income 28 year old.
I wouldn't rely on cycle-tracking only, but cycle tracking in combination with a barrier contraceptive isn't a bad plan if you actually go about it diligently.
And yes she wouldn't mind having kids, she's made that very clear. Hence why the issue is not that she lacks responsibility when it comes to contraception – it's that both OP and her have procrastinated figuring out whether they are actually compatible as partners or not.
She was a virgin. The first time is going to hurt. The first few times possibly.
Can't believe I'm saying this to a 60 year old man but… As long as you aren't romantically or sexually promiscuous your coparenting relationship and strategy is entirely yours to define.
You divorced your ex because you had lost the romantic connection and you had different priorities. You remained friends, which helps you coparent smoothly. Fine. There is nothing wrong with that if that has worked for you so far. The fact that she feels disrespected if you are cordial with other women is odd to me, she's clearly projecting something and it sounds like maybe she hasn't healed from her breakup with her own ex?
Your relationship started while you were 19…
I hope the new bloke does tell your boyfriend. You are the nightmare anyone who is deployed fears. A ‘spouse’ who cheats on them whilst they are away. I can’t even believe you made it all about you and expected sympathy.
Your post reeks of narcissism. It’s all about you
How the fuck did you buy a house at 23 and why are you married that young lmao?
On one hand I don't want to ruin this guy's very hot work in duping you to believe his bullshit, but on the other hand you shouldn't have to do what you're not comfortable with.
I was listening to an excellent podcast with Daniel Pink yesterday on the Power of Regret (he also has a book by the same name). He says that regret is flip side of your values and life objectives. If you regret something it is because what you did wasn’t in line with your current values and how you want to on-line your life. We all have regrets, they are only a problem if we don’t learn from them. It sounds like you understand what you regret and why so the final step is to make a plan to change. It sounds like the lesson for you to learn is how much you love your husband and the importance of staying with your therapy and medication to be the kind of partner you want to be. If you focus on the past the shame may lead you to being a worse partner for now or to making bad decisions. The best thing for you and your husband is to learn the lesson from this regret and make sure you don’t create more future regrets.
Thank you so much, this is really insightful. Quitting drinking is something I've been thinking of. The career decision has to be faced but it's very complicated and I'm not sure where to start. It involves moving countries etc. Is this something in your opinion, I should admit to my partner? We don't lie to each other, but there is a thing called overstating and idk how he'll take this.
Updateme!
I guess it is decision time, stay with this man and this is your life, you will lose all your friends, there will always be a reason you aren't good enough to your man. you will lose all your free will. your children will suffer the same fate. or ditch the man and find a new one, there are billions out there and a lot love independent self thinking woman.
don't waste your only life.
You've already given more than enough reason to break up with this guy. You've outlined exactly why you're incompatible. Your mental health is struggling right now because you're in a toxic relationship. I can almost guarantee you that you'll feel more free after leaving your boyfriend. You're only 25. You'll find someone else.
He pretended it was on-line.
Which lunatic would stay in an on-line relationship without ever seeing the other in real life for 6,5 years?
Obviously knowing that you still find her very hot is important. In that sense I think a periodic acknowledgment of her being a hottie is fine.
However noticing a hard behind or pretty face is cool, but that doesn't actually involve paying much attention. In that sense I think better compliments are noticing things about her. New outfits, hairdos, accessories. If she is wearing a colour you like say 'I love you in blue' or whatever. Help her feel seen for things deeper than just being sexy.
Goes for keeping track of her likes and dislikes, hearing her out, making reference in positive ways to things she's said previously or stuff about her.
People like feeling seen. Like as a dude don't you feel absolutely tickled when people compliment a new haircut, or they somehow notice you trying a new colour shirt or whatever? If you had a brand new outfit on, one you really loved, and she came to you and said 'oh, you're so handsome' and nothing else wouldn't you be like, yeah but what about my outfit sort of thing?
Honestly my vaginal ph is delicate and sometimes it takes a while to adjust to a new partner. I also have a friend who had the same problem,but it wouldn't gp away. Turns out she had a vaginal problem that was made worse when she had sex, and needed medication to go away.
It it os possible, I'd advice to see an obgyn and have it looked at medically just to be sure
you're never having kids because you're never going to have sex.
I disagree, there will be that one time, after which OP's wife unexpectedly gets pregnant despite the multiple forms of birth control, trapping him for the next 18 years.
Have a conversation with your fiance and explain your side, why it won't happen now and if he can't respect that, he isn't for you. Break up and move on
This isn’t your fault, he’s a grown man and decided to act selfishly and leave behind his children because he couldn’t get over a situation (it seems like) he caused. This is not on you to pacify him; you can be kind in the sense that you can split custody even and stay in the step kid’s life (if that’s what all of you want) but don’t be his shoulder.
It honestly disgusts me that people would say “look what you made me do” just because they can’t handle the repercussions of their actions. He’s a selfish man, and in my opinion doesn’t deserve compassion.
Relationship advice: she is taking you for granted. Financial/legal advice: make sure you have a prenuptial with lawyer Practical advice: you could always say in case of splitting 50/50 minus the downpayment.
Make his favorite meals for yourself and enjoy not having a child as a boyfriend anymore ?