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To be honest she sounds nuts to me
Look dude, you are young so I won’t judge you for this! There are some big lessons here though for you.
Women and men act very differently in the early stages of getting to know someone than they do when the relationship is comfortable and solidified. Don’t let the newness and excitement of a new situation fool you. That excitement feeling WILL subside. This new friend may be someone who is more expressive than your gf, but don’t assume that her acting like she wants you right now is something that will last forever. If you were with her, that behavior would fade over time.
This new friend has shown you that she comes on strong to people she doesn’t even know and will pursue them even when they have a significant other. If you were with her (or someone like her) she is very much might become attracted to someone else and act on those feelings as she has shown that to her it doesn’t matter if someone is in a relationship. Would you want to be in a relationship with someone who does that?
I understand that you are a touchy-feely person. The way you interact with other women is something you need to discuss with a potential girlfriend really early on in a relationship. Differences in how comfortable you and your SO are in what you are comfortable doing with other people is usually a deal-breaker in a relationship. You need to be with someone who is on the same page as you. You aren’t necessarily wrong for being touchy feely but your gf is also not wrong if she is uncomfortable with that. If your gf is uncomfortable with you being touchy with other women, saying “it’s just how I am” is not a good answer or excuse. If you stay with your gf, you guys need to decide together what your boundaries are.
In the situation you described above, you disrespected both your friend and your gf. Being open to building a friendship with someone who has repeatedly flirted with you knowing that you have a gf is extremely disrespectful to your gf and she should have probably dumped you for doing that. It doesn’t matter if you are an affectionate person or not. You wronged your gf. You should have told this new person that you didn’t want anything to do with her after she continued to flirt with you. Entertaining a friendship with that girl also lead her on. You blame it on being a touchy person, but it doesn’t matter. You were touchy with a girl who was flirting with you and it lead her on and it disrespected your gf. I don’t believe for a second that you would be okay with your gf holding hands with and hugging a guy who repeatedly asks her out.
Overall, you have been acting selfishly and immaturely (I know, you are young). Part of being an adult and of being in a relationship is doing the ‘right’ thing or doing what is respectful to your relationship even when you don’t want to. Of course you wanted to be flirty with this girl and soak up the attention she gave you. It wasn’t the right thing and you shouldn’t have done it.
Sometimes the best thing about a relationship is the memories. And the worst thing is not being able to let go, when there aren't any more good memories in the pipeline.
In another 10 years, after experiencing another 2 to 6 serious relationships, whatever pain you have left over from this breakup will fade into being just one significant past disappointment. And you probably won't regret anything that happened in the past – when you've already spent a couple years with someone who's new and better for you.
And the challenge now is prepare yourself for the future – instead of fixating on the past.
well, she's suddenly watching him in the bathroom sooooo…. he might be on to something.