Also, don't listen to these people telling you that you're weird or odd. There's nothing weird about having boundaries and preferences. As a person with OCD, I've heard such comments for most, if not all, of my life and it never gets any less painful. It's not something that I choose to do, it's just the way I am. You're not weird or odd, you're you, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Agreed, I think toilet humor is a bit juvenile and it's not funny at all to me. If other people find it funny, more power to them! We all have different senses of humor and there are absolutely things that I find funny that I'm sure others think are juvenile (for example I will never, ever not laugh at someone falling off a treadmill).
He could communicate it more respectfully for sure, but people are acting like the only normal or healthy way to behave in a relationship is to intentionally rip farts with each other and anyone who doesn't is a fuddy-duddy with no sense of humor. I've never done that with a partner and it's never been an issue.
Asking strangers what your girlfriend would like is silly. How TF would we know what your gf likes? We've not met her and weirdly, different people like different things.
What does your girlfriend like? Send her that stuff.
BS about not being able to eat certain foods on your period is exactly that. BS. Just send her stuff she likes.
See I thought they just still had the stomach needle. The more you know.
Also, don't listen to these people telling you that you're weird or odd. There's nothing weird about having boundaries and preferences. As a person with OCD, I've heard such comments for most, if not all, of my life and it never gets any less painful. It's not something that I choose to do, it's just the way I am. You're not weird or odd, you're you, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Agreed, I think toilet humor is a bit juvenile and it's not funny at all to me. If other people find it funny, more power to them! We all have different senses of humor and there are absolutely things that I find funny that I'm sure others think are juvenile (for example I will never, ever not laugh at someone falling off a treadmill).
He could communicate it more respectfully for sure, but people are acting like the only normal or healthy way to behave in a relationship is to intentionally rip farts with each other and anyone who doesn't is a fuddy-duddy with no sense of humor. I've never done that with a partner and it's never been an issue.
Horrible take.
It’s a pretty universal boundary not to be chatting up exes while in a committed relationship.
Especially to then not disclose that info.
Asking strangers what your girlfriend would like is silly. How TF would we know what your gf likes? We've not met her and weirdly, different people like different things.
What does your girlfriend like? Send her that stuff.
BS about not being able to eat certain foods on your period is exactly that. BS. Just send her stuff she likes.