I have seen versions this. I do find it difficult to be with someone that may choose to spend more time in general with a pet and being affectionate with a pet. Pets are easy to love and give you so much love for you offering them very little ( in comparison to human needs) Its easier to get your needs met by a pet. Human love is a much bigger requirement. It’s when they prioritize the pet that it becomes a sore spot. Ask for what you need !
back over the summer i actually told him the truth. he said he didn't feel the same way and so I distanced myself from him for a while, and we basically ended up having a huge falling out for many reasons. just a few months ago we reconnected again and the feelings which I thought were gone came back, only this time, stronger. I'm scared if I tell him again there will be another repeat of what happened over the summer. We both have learned and grown from our mistakes but I don't want to risk it because it's severely drained me.
Do you have a shared credit card or something? She needs to get a job, that should be prioritized as it will pay for her discretionary spending and cut down on the idle time she has to do it at all
If OP would be a homebody, it would definitely be reasonable. But OP is out almost all the time: job, sports, activities, bars. The Sundays afternoon is the time when she wants to rest. Just like the most of us, before starting a new week.
It is much more reasonable for a gf to plan a visit when OP is out – after all op plays basketball at least twice a week at the same time. Or, if Sundays are non negotiable, gf should to her friend's place.
It is gf desire and entertainment to meet with friends, it is what gf needs, so it is up to her to make some sacrifices.
She blocked you. /shrug
I have seen versions this. I do find it difficult to be with someone that may choose to spend more time in general with a pet and being affectionate with a pet. Pets are easy to love and give you so much love for you offering them very little ( in comparison to human needs) Its easier to get your needs met by a pet. Human love is a much bigger requirement. It’s when they prioritize the pet that it becomes a sore spot. Ask for what you need !
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back over the summer i actually told him the truth. he said he didn't feel the same way and so I distanced myself from him for a while, and we basically ended up having a huge falling out for many reasons. just a few months ago we reconnected again and the feelings which I thought were gone came back, only this time, stronger. I'm scared if I tell him again there will be another repeat of what happened over the summer. We both have learned and grown from our mistakes but I don't want to risk it because it's severely drained me.
Do you have a shared credit card or something? She needs to get a job, that should be prioritized as it will pay for her discretionary spending and cut down on the idle time she has to do it at all
I am not sure it is reasonable.
If OP would be a homebody, it would definitely be reasonable. But OP is out almost all the time: job, sports, activities, bars. The Sundays afternoon is the time when she wants to rest. Just like the most of us, before starting a new week.
It is much more reasonable for a gf to plan a visit when OP is out – after all op plays basketball at least twice a week at the same time. Or, if Sundays are non negotiable, gf should to her friend's place.
It is gf desire and entertainment to meet with friends, it is what gf needs, so it is up to her to make some sacrifices.
They don't have to meet each other.