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  1. Tiktok? You are judging your worth based on TIKTOK? Tiktok is a dumpsterfire of an app where you can swing from a user who thinks eating food is a red flag for narcissism to a user who thinks ancient rome doesn't exist. Delete it, never go on it, and for the love of all things that are holy NEVER take advice from it. (For that matter, delete instagram and twitter if you're on there too. The former just gives you unrealistic expectations about everything and the latter is more toxic than the chernobyl elephant's foot)

    Look, you want advice from an overweight socially-awkward loser who somehow does have friends and a loving husband? First, learn to cook. Sharing food with people is a language of universal love. Friends, family, romantic interests, everyone can appreciate someone who makes them a meal made with love.

    Second, find some kind of nerd club to join. I made most of my friends at a LARP group. A tabletop group, book club, fandom group would work too. If you want to make friends as someone socially awkward, you need to find an equally socially awkward group of people who can empathise and understand you.

    Third, STOP with the self depreciation around people. Keep it in your head. You don't have to “come out” as friendless, you just don't mention it! If you're ashamed, treat it like an embarassing medical condition-just don't talk about it, hand wave it, and if people press you on the matter, tell them they're being intrusive and politely ask them not to. It is very easy to handwave not having many friends. Hell, if you join a new group, just tell them you're turning over a new leaf and looking for a fresh start. That is ESPECIALLY understandable post-covid. A LOT of people lost all their friends during the pandemic. A LOT of people are looking for new friends.

    When around people, apply the “if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all” rule to yourself. Being self-hating makes people feel awkward and uncomfortable. Just be nice. Be nice to everyone, including yourself. Bake muffins and hand them out to people. Invite people over to watch movies. Listen to people and take interest in the things they like.

    I know it feels like scaling a mountain. But it gets easier with time. You just need to unchain yourself from the boulder of self hatred. And yeah, that's naked too. But you can do it.

    People aren't as mean as you think they are. There are a lot of socially awkward, friendless, sad and lonely people out there. Everyone is human. Just open yourself up enough to trust people to accept you. Find people like you.

  2. Lol “I’ll be careful”

    Use that method and you’ll be a mom pretty damn soon.. or have to deal with abortion, which is a really difficult thing to go thru :/ find one that fits him, or birth control if you’re able to. There are options

  3. Yeah, it's always awkward the first time someone says it in a relationship, 5 minutes in or 5 years in. It just is. The one that says it feels vulnerable and the one that hears it usually responds poorly unintentionally for a myriad of reasons.

  4. The age gap is a problem, your mentality cannot be hers.

    7 month is way too soon to talk marriage, you don't even know how compatible you are.

    I would advice any couple to try living together 1 or 2 years before going forward with marriage.

  5. Not really any way to know other than time unfortunately. I wouldn't force the issue too much. You can read up on the pursuer-distancer dynamic and see if that resonates. It's pretty common but there are ways to get out of it. In your case as the pursuer, you have to let go and stop pursuing.

  6. No one is the bad person from my perspective. In other words, there seems to be a tremendous amount of stress circulating in this unicorn house here: both full-time parents (one with over full time), growing child who demands a lot of attention and effort while lacking the profession skill of communication like every child, no friends, no nearby family members that can rely on. Now, these factors are normally not a problem with young couples, but they unfortunately put a toll onto the family day by day.

    This is very common. I would like to take a step back. I absolutely acknowledge that his behavior is not an Angel's behavior. With that being said, this should have been addressed at the beginning of the relationship, otherwise, if it is accepted, one either will accept it or ignore it.

    This is also not OP's fault. The communication was poorly executed due to his behavior; at the same time, OP also had things to do. Therefore, the communication is obviously not on a healthy level especially since the stress of work does not help. I personally do not want to utter a single word after a 10-hour shift.

    With that being said, there is a growing boy in the picture as well. The boy obviously could receive as more time from the parents, both of whom work full-time like an average American working class family. Besides, we are aware that the current world is rapidly changing, so children age differently, and we sometimes need time to grow accustomed to educating them in a way that matches with the current time. Long story short, a challenging task that demands time.

    Here are my propositions if you want to work it out:

    One of the parents, or luckily, both the parents need to reduce the work hour or not work at all, if possible, both parents. By that doing that, more time will be dedicated into internal affairs instead of external affairs. “It needs a village to raise a child.” Disregarding this will eventually bite you back for the rest of your life Honestly, there are a lot of information about therapies, but how do they help besides listening to the patient? I need more information about how they can help besides just listening to the patient in order to draw an insight.

    P/s: Not all Redditors are right

  7. spin spin spin, aren't you dizzy from spinning your bs around to make it all about your feelings and justifying your crap?

    Maybe she doesn't like you enough to tell you about past issues after less than 6 months of dating? hmmm, possibly?

    why are you so arrogant to think that she should tell you anything, or that you should/could/would “change the way she thinks”. Why are you so awesome that you think she should tell you stuff she can't even tell her friends?

  8. They're it's a huge red flag here and that is he waited a year to tell you. That's quite manipulative imo. Relationships are built on honest and he didn't give you that for nearly a year.

    It may well be years until he has the surgery also and a long recovery time, it's not very fair if him to not tell you such and important thing and then make you wait so long

  9. I didn't have a great reaction from one set of parents despite the fact that we are absolutely prepared (I mean, we're two college educated, high earning, people who have been married for a while now as well). I was sad. Then I was angry. Then I didn't give a shit.

    Just know that if you do tell them, and they suck, fuck it. You'll be okay. It'll suck, but at least you'll know where you stand, and then you know not to tell them further baby news. That's what we did, and I'm okay now. You will be okay, too.

    Good luck, and message if you need to chat, from one preggo in her early 30s with shitty parents to another!

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