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I did. He says that, yes he misses me and he’ll make promises like ‘tonight it’s just gonna be you and me’. But then we just sit on the couch, watching a serie and that’s about it. I tried a couple of times to iniate a conversation but there is a 50/50 chance he is too tired. Even if we have a conversation, it is still for me so weird that i feel the need to explicitly tell him to talk to me. Doesn’t he feel the same need? Am i too needy? That’s why I’m finding it confusing
I would invite my partner if I was going to dentist
A business trip is for business unless they are involved I wouldn’t
If my friends already know my partner and I’m currently next to my partner I would invite them to lunch as well
Normally I give people the benefit of the doubt but she’s too old to pull that shit and went out of her way to lie about it. She probably hooked up a bit or she wouldn’t have made up a story for no discernible reason. Without honesty you have nothing, so I’d be wary of her.
Perfect answer… plus ask your parents why they want you to be with a partner that doesn't respect you?
I'm guessing that will hit a nerve because your mom looked the other way… your dad being so understanding and your mom quick to demand forgiveness makes me think your parents reaction has more to do with something that happened in their marriage then them loving him.
You're a year in. Time to get real about the future. Is this what you pictured for your life? Tiptoeing around an aggressive hypocrite, increasingly terrified of setting him off while also having to listen to him basically dismiss you and all the things you do for him emotionally to your face?
You're chill and supportive but it seems maybe a bit too much. I think you need to reflect on why you humour this at all, most people would have left him a long time ago. You're right, you are carrying all the weight and the thing is… why? It's clear you can't be authentic around him, and honestly it only gets worse the longer it goes on.
He needs to chill out and limit contact with the ex. He has helped, he's done enough. Sounds like the ex is trying to inject herself back into his life, and he's being a “nice guy” about it. Nope. Shut it down. They need to quit the casual conversations, because she will likely try and elevate things.
So I tried again this morning calmly asking about last night. I asked why she got upset she just said it’s fine or it doesn’t matter. She then said unprompted that I could have gone out, she never asked me to stay. To me saying it’s naked to leave when you are crying and annoyed and all she said was she said she wouldn’t talk to me if I stayed so I should have just gone out. Not quite sure how to go from here. I’m normally the one to go smooth things over but feel like I should not be doing it.
I think that they're both at fault and you've got every right to be bothered by it. That says something about someone's character and they're definitely old enough to know better. It's gross and even wanting to end things based on that one exchange would be very valid. I think that a lot of people would find that level of disrespect unforgivable at any age, no second chances there. They should have just known better. That's basic human decency. Him moving on without apologising profusely or really understanding the mistake was another red flag. You're not overreacting!
Oh yes they would lol
Well, since things may get complicated after June/July when (if) she moves, it seems to me that she doesn't want to get too attached.
You can say and think that, but when you spend time with someone, your feelings may not follow your mind, so she doesn't want to get too attached, but the way she acts shows you she is and it's confusing you.
It's almost May, I'd say enjoy it while it lasts. If you break this now, you'll suffer and if she breaks it in two months, you'll also suffer. So you may as well enjoy this couple of months.
There shouldn't be a “may” become single in this instance. I'm a guy here and could never so this to anyone.
Sack him off.