My concern is that if he has a history of depression and suicidal behavior… this may have been a way to push you away so he could end it. Though this is highly speculative and even if he did it for that reason doesn’t mean you are obligated to stay.
Agreed on all points. This is the stuff OP should apologise for (her lack of transparency at the time). I can’t see how this relationship is gonna work if they can’t communicate
“Everyone thinks you're nuts” is really the nail in the coffin, because any logical person would understand why their partner would come to that conclusion and would lovingly reassure them and, if I were in those shoes, vent about wanting to tell the wife but hoping the friend comes clean first and being disgusted the friend would even do something like that
Everyone thinks you're nuts….for all the proof slapped in your face and now he needs to play mind games & hope you're too docile to file for divorce
Where can you tap $300??? My card only allows either $100-$150 taps, esp on my phone. Definitely questionable behaviour
I honestly think that using your SO’s card to pay for a round of drinks is totally fine….
IF you know that the answer would be yes if you asked.
If you don’t know what the answer would be, then it’s 100% not okay.
Me personally, I’d like the points, lol. But I also wouldn’t want to swing a $300 tab, so I’d want to be paid back right away.
Just doing it and then acting like he’s in the wrong for having a reaction?
No. Nope. Not. Newp.
I don't understand how this is gross??
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!???? That chick was fucking whacked out of her head!
My concern is that if he has a history of depression and suicidal behavior… this may have been a way to push you away so he could end it. Though this is highly speculative and even if he did it for that reason doesn’t mean you are obligated to stay.
I hope that you are just excited instead of being really immature,
Agreed on all points. This is the stuff OP should apologise for (her lack of transparency at the time). I can’t see how this relationship is gonna work if they can’t communicate
a woman's dressing room, bedroom, or private sitting room. boudoir photography is women being sexy but not explicit
He's not going to change, only you can. If you want to start a family with him, don't expect anything but the same you had for 9 years.
When some one tells you who they are, believe them.
Do you suffer from any mental illness?
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But, but, but, I Loooove him. ?
Tell her now. Don't wait until she actually quits her job.
That all sucks, man. I’m really sorry you and your wife, daughter, and younger brother are all having to deal with her.
But sometimes the people we love the most are the ones we most need to cut out of our lives.
On behalf of your daughter’s future, thank you for breaking the cycle.
Nope
Nah she's in the wrong for that.
All you did was point out hypocrisy in how people potray themselves.
And then she took a shot at your mother, whoa situation isn't even remotely close to the subject.
Me personally I wouldn't let that slide, but the balls in your court on how to proceed from this disrespect
you can’t even a 5 year relationship over your partner continuously not doing something you’ve asked for? seems pretty run of the mill
“Everyone thinks you're nuts” is really the nail in the coffin, because any logical person would understand why their partner would come to that conclusion and would lovingly reassure them and, if I were in those shoes, vent about wanting to tell the wife but hoping the friend comes clean first and being disgusted the friend would even do something like that
Everyone thinks you're nuts….for all the proof slapped in your face and now he needs to play mind games & hope you're too docile to file for divorce
Sorry OP :/
No I understand that life is complicated and you can't choose who to love.
Is she traveling with friends or a new boyfriend? Maybe if she’s not traveling alone she can at least be safe.