That's not cheating at all. Leave this man as this will only become worse as time goes on. Furthermore please invest in either gold or high quality jewlery for your nipple piercings so that they don't get infected or rejected.
You cannot force someone to have sex with you. You can only express your grievances, but you cannot make them do it. He is clearly checked out of the relationship. He doesn’t seem to be attracted to you or in love with you anymore. So no point in staying in a one sided relationship. You need to end things and move on.
She implied that while she has introduced me to friends and family I'm reluctant to do likewise. That's basically implying that “I don't feel for her what she feels for me” which is nonsense.
Friend, please find a way to safely leave this person. I don’t think she is treating you with the kindness you deserve, quite the opposite in fact. I worry she’s going to hurt you, or hurt herself and pin it on you.
You’re learning a new skill to defend yourself from your partner, the person who is supposed to be your sanctuary. That is messed up! Please confide in a trusted friend or family member and work on an escape plan ASAP.
You are not responsible for their feelings. They might be sad. That's okay. You can't continue something that causes you unhappiness to keep everyone else happy.
My dad got really upset and dropped him off at home.
That seems like a pretty far stretch from the “altercation” that is mentioned in the title. Hell, he was even nice enough to drive the guy home.
Everyone here seems to be hating on cops and how the dad responded to the situation, but it seems to me that, although upset, he acted quite rationally.
I mean I'm sure most of the guys that got screwed into raising someone elses kid thought the person they were with would never do them like that.
Having that happen is a nightmare. Especially because even if you prove the kid isnt yours some places will still ruin you financially over it. So basically as a guy you can get lied to and cheated on then have to pay for the child of the man that fucked your wife lol. That's scary.
I think they should be mandatory. Take out the guess work and then no one is offended.
people get weird about men having sex toys but it's perfectly normal. I have multiple vibrators and i've never bought one and thought, “wow, this is so perfect because its absolutely nothing like my BFs (or whoever) dick”. It's not a reflection on you, or your relationship. I wouldn't bring it up, personally. Take a few days to think about it and reassess how you feel. If you still need to bring it up, do it at a neutral time and just let him know you're working through your feelings on it but you wanted to get it out in the open. Maybe you guys can start looking at some toys to use together. Might be a fun new way to explore
I'm a counselor, so I'm biased here, but he really needs some sort of help with his addiction. He can't expect to just never do it again without learning some ways to manage it. Relapse is just a part of recovery, but I wouldn't call what he's doing recovery. He's just temporarily abstaining. BTW – I would seriously question his temporary memory loss that only occurs when he's trying to screw other women.
You are correct. I took advice from a family member to message her and tell her to stop contacting me because things were getting out of control. Telling me how I looked in public. Following me home. Messaging me on any platform from multiple accounts. Calling me from an app to bypass the block.
I won’t engage again. The next time she contacts me it will be a peace bond as I’ve documented everything.
And she has hit you, so she is capable of hitting your children.
You need to tell her to leave, tell her you don’t give a shit where she goes, so long as it is not around you or your children.
Tell her that divorce will be happening, and that you will be filing and fighting for full custody, and with her physically abusing you, she will be lucky to get supervised visitation.
Well, if they are trolling, I hope they get some therapy or at least realize they’re wasting valuable time and effort on being a troll. They could put their energy and efforts towards something of value and purpose to their life or better yet, volunteering at an animal shelter or a soup kitchen.
Yeah I see what you mean, I did end up getting a different job in the end it was too much of a distraction however it depends what you value more I think love or money ?♂️
If its illegal where you’re from, drop her. No girl is worth jail time lol move on man.
That's not cheating at all. Leave this man as this will only become worse as time goes on. Furthermore please invest in either gold or high quality jewlery for your nipple piercings so that they don't get infected or rejected.
Let's look at this objectively.
Because, if you stay, there will be trouble
But on the OTHER hand, if you go there will be double.
You cannot force someone to have sex with you. You can only express your grievances, but you cannot make them do it. He is clearly checked out of the relationship. He doesn’t seem to be attracted to you or in love with you anymore. So no point in staying in a one sided relationship. You need to end things and move on.
She implied that while she has introduced me to friends and family I'm reluctant to do likewise. That's basically implying that “I don't feel for her what she feels for me” which is nonsense.
Friend, please find a way to safely leave this person. I don’t think she is treating you with the kindness you deserve, quite the opposite in fact. I worry she’s going to hurt you, or hurt herself and pin it on you.
You’re learning a new skill to defend yourself from your partner, the person who is supposed to be your sanctuary. That is messed up! Please confide in a trusted friend or family member and work on an escape plan ASAP.
You are not responsible for their feelings. They might be sad. That's okay. You can't continue something that causes you unhappiness to keep everyone else happy.
It sounds like he banged someone in Miami and then made you move so he could hide it. Leave him and go back to the sunshine!
Leave her today if you can. She is a nasty person.
My dad got really upset and dropped him off at home.
That seems like a pretty far stretch from the “altercation” that is mentioned in the title. Hell, he was even nice enough to drive the guy home.
Everyone here seems to be hating on cops and how the dad responded to the situation, but it seems to me that, although upset, he acted quite rationally.
I mean I'm sure most of the guys that got screwed into raising someone elses kid thought the person they were with would never do them like that.
Having that happen is a nightmare. Especially because even if you prove the kid isnt yours some places will still ruin you financially over it. So basically as a guy you can get lied to and cheated on then have to pay for the child of the man that fucked your wife lol. That's scary.
I think they should be mandatory. Take out the guess work and then no one is offended.
people get weird about men having sex toys but it's perfectly normal. I have multiple vibrators and i've never bought one and thought, “wow, this is so perfect because its absolutely nothing like my BFs (or whoever) dick”. It's not a reflection on you, or your relationship. I wouldn't bring it up, personally. Take a few days to think about it and reassess how you feel. If you still need to bring it up, do it at a neutral time and just let him know you're working through your feelings on it but you wanted to get it out in the open. Maybe you guys can start looking at some toys to use together. Might be a fun new way to explore
People play with ouiju boards too, doesn't mean its something we should take seriously, or base life decisions on.
The point is, what do you want out of him? Whatever you answer should be based on that.
I'm a counselor, so I'm biased here, but he really needs some sort of help with his addiction. He can't expect to just never do it again without learning some ways to manage it. Relapse is just a part of recovery, but I wouldn't call what he's doing recovery. He's just temporarily abstaining. BTW – I would seriously question his temporary memory loss that only occurs when he's trying to screw other women.
No because he might coerce her to get an abortion
I’m not crying you are
A friend made this avatar for me over a decade ago, actually
You are correct. I took advice from a family member to message her and tell her to stop contacting me because things were getting out of control. Telling me how I looked in public. Following me home. Messaging me on any platform from multiple accounts. Calling me from an app to bypass the block.
I won’t engage again. The next time she contacts me it will be a peace bond as I’ve documented everything.
No to marriage counselling – divorce.
And she has hit you, so she is capable of hitting your children.
You need to tell her to leave, tell her you don’t give a shit where she goes, so long as it is not around you or your children.
Tell her that divorce will be happening, and that you will be filing and fighting for full custody, and with her physically abusing you, she will be lucky to get supervised visitation.
Well, if they are trolling, I hope they get some therapy or at least realize they’re wasting valuable time and effort on being a troll. They could put their energy and efforts towards something of value and purpose to their life or better yet, volunteering at an animal shelter or a soup kitchen.
I’m fairly positive she had no ill intentions behind this “prank”
Then you are an idiot.
Does that make how you felt (and still feel) better? NO
Does that make what she did in any way, OK? NO
Does that mean you should ever have sex with her again? NO
Don't be stupid, OP. This wasn't a prank. It was a test. Don't fail the test.
I feel all twisted up inside because I know how much she is sacrificing to be in Australia and I do not think I am worth it.
This is the crux of your problem. Why do you not feel worthy of someone making a sacrifice to be with you?
Yeah I see what you mean, I did end up getting a different job in the end it was too much of a distraction however it depends what you value more I think love or money ?♂️
I can think of a dozen ways to get pizza that don’t involve going to someone’s hotel room.