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I instantly knew I'd fucked up so I write a long message saying how sorry I was and taking full responsibility and how much she meant to me.
Well there you go. That's all you can do now, give her time. I think it's both understandable that you asked your sister for advice in this situation and that your girlfriend is a little upset at you talking to your sister about your sex life. Your motives were innocent, so don't beat yourself up too much about it, lesson learned. Hopefully she'll see that and come around.
And from now on, don't ejaculate inside any woman, especially when you know she hasn't taken birth control pills, unless you're trying to get her pregnant.
Either start to wear condoms or learn how to pull out.
No man who respects you would humiliate you like that.
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My bits responsible for producing sperm were completely removed 11 years ago and I’ve been on TRT since so I can say with 100% certainty it is not mine. I spoke with a lawyer today as well as had a discussion with her and her dad about what’s going to happen. We’re definitely going to do a test when the baby is born but that’s more so we can reduce any and all doubt that this child is mine. We’re gonna have to be separated for a year before a divorce will be granted but for now we’re not going to contact each other and only communicate through lawyers.
I feel afraid because I was already involved with him and I think he was intoxicated and didn't realize it himself and when I woke up and saw it I just tried to go with it
So how to avoid them if you already told them there want be anymore sex between you is to avoid being alone with them.since you already had sex with them casually a small part of them is gonna always thinks sex is on the table if you say no in a nice way if you wanna make it really clear you have really snap on them and let them no that’s the sex was a one time thing.now about the fwb situation It might be sending mix signals cuz of you tell him hey don’t hit on my friends that my imply to him that y’all are gonna be continuing the FWB so when your not having sex with him he thinks Ot cool to hard on your friends now since y’all night having sex.y’all were not in a committed relationship so he thinks friends are only off limits when y’all are having a sexual relationship.hope this helps
Ok thanks for the advice, will be focusing on my breathing and let myself feel my feelings.
Starting some therapy this week, so hopefully will have some ways to vent/ cope!
I feel that. Thanks again for the advice, much appreciated!
You guys promised to be together forever and youre talking about quitting after four months of turmoil. Youre within your right to pursue a divorce but you should really reflect on the fact that you made a lifelong commitment and after a very short time, you want to throw it all out. Reflect also on the fact that you didnt tell anyone you didnt want to get married. You are an adult and its time to be responsible for your decisions.
Divorce or not, you need to realize that any relationship is not going to be great 100% of the time. Especially considering everything else y’all have been going through.
I wouldn't brand an entire group over the behaviour of one person, but if you continuously find yourself dating exclusively trans people, then you probably have a fetish.
He wants exactly what he is showing you. He sounds like my first husband to the letter. He wants this…. whatever he decides to give you, or not give you and when he decides. It's got nothing to do with you. You are barely important. It's all about him and his whim of the moment. Not gonna tell you to leave cause as you said you already know, but know this. THIS BEHAVIOUR WILL NOT CHANGE. Might lean in one direction or the other at times but it will. Not. Change .
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Hypocrites are the worst to deal with outside all the other red flags. You should always follow the boundaries you have for SO yourself otherwise you become a hypocrite. Grow a spine and just end it why stay with such a toxic hypocrite that doesn't have any respect for you.
Get rid immediately. Him and his friends have zero respect for women and that’s telling by his reaction alone, let alone the second part to the story ?
If you can't trust her then leave her. You don't owe her staying together with her. Thing hard about as it is an understanable decision.
Now the following is if you decide to stay.
It seems she has chosen you, but there is problem. I can't imagine you being ok with them staying in any dort of contact even if you want to stay with her. It doesn't matter how inconvenient it might be she needs to have zero contact(including messages) with him if you were to ever trust her again. If she needs to quit her job, so be it, it's consequence of her own actions. Obviously you should access to each other messages in general, as to make occasional anxiety checking to not be spying.
The first instance I can understand you feeling the way you did. As a man , he should have wanted to gut that person for speaking to you like that. The second instance however is a 50/50. Getting offended on behalf of someone else is dicey territory. There are a lot of unknowns with the picture but the fact is , I doubt the woman took to picture expecting it to be in a group chat. I personally don’t have a friend group that does stuff like that but I also am the type of person that if I saw something like that it wouldn’t bother me unless I knew the picture was obtained against the girls will ( like going through her phone / computer and stealing it). I think any gender sending nudes falls under the “play stupid games win stupid prizes territory” but e everyone can do what they want.
Also if you have a good relationship with her father you might want to call him and discuss. His feelings could be impacted too.
When I was a kid I called my step father Dad and he wanted to steer away from it because my parents coparented well and he didn’t want to step on my dad’s ties. I understood when my mom and step dad explain that he was a parent but not my dad.
People have a busy schedule. Life happens. What if he has had a lot of stress which can build into E.D.?
If you're looking for nothing serious then why does it matter anyways?
For a 30F, you are overthinking something quite simple by a LARGE margin. IT's not like it's a relationship.
Up to you. It's a hookup.
Don't fucking do it.
I'm cynical, so this may not be it, but I read this as her wanting to explore. Either with this friend or other people in the future, and she's setting you up. After all is said and done, all of it will be blamed on you.
She's presenting it as a gift to you, but did you ever ask for it?? And you were reluctant, but she pushed for it?? Nah-aaaa, no way, never.
Okay, here's my advice as a threesome professional:
Everyone take one shot. If you smoke, do so. Dim the lights. Everyone takes their shoes and socks off, pants if you're already that comfy, and lies down on the same soft surface. Pass a joint or everyone have one beer to mull over. With alcohol it's important to not exceed more than one or two drinks. Chill, play viby music, start with massages, touch, asking what they want to do. Don't wedge yourself into every situation, watching is sometimes participation. Remember to ask (“is it okay my (dant!!) Is near your (dint!!)?”) Consent carries on. Don't rush, don't try to do every damn porno move you ever saw. Just enjoy it and steer minimally.
Honestly? From the sounds of it, you're stupid for each other. That's just my observation based on the little info that you've given about your history. It's just the timing that didn't line up.
Probably. It's just that it took 6 entire years and me forgetting having feelings for her for something like this to pop up. I'm basically jumping between “why didn't this happen earlier” and “why did it have to happen now, why must the trigger have been this?”
That's not your situation. Go for it. Love is a gamble, and the risk has already been greatly reduced for you two. Regret is for chances not taken. Don't make yourself regret not taking this girl if she's genuinely one that you want to take a chance with.
I can see that to an extent tbh. Guess I should call her and not keep her waiting any longer. It's already been a few hours!!!!!
Thanks… I was thinking of staying anyways, but thought it might be risky or something but yeah you're right, love is a gamble.
This relationship has been built on lies since its very foundation. You cannot trust anything she says and will never be able to either. You don't even know if you've been the only mister she cheated with during this marriage of hers.
It sucks, but its best to not go any further deeper into this relationship. This lady does not have her act together in life and the drama in it is only going to escalate. Hell- you don't even know if she's actually fully committed to leaving her husband (it sounds like she got dumped by him rather than the other way around) and whether she's going to spend her time from here on out always thinking about the other man, not knowing who (or what) she wants and cheating the next time she goes through a bit of turmoil or needs some validation (Etc).
You're very young and have got your whole life ahead of you. This is too much drama. Slow down the pace of your dating life and get to know people a bit more calmly and better. This lady was always a bit of a mystery to you and there's been a lot of animal lust going on here, you need to think with your head a bit more. It might be hard to stop yourself from comforting her but remember she is not the victim in this and very much knew what she was doing when she got with you (she is crying more about her consequences than anything else right now).
Good lord. Your mother is manipulative as heck. I’m sorry OP, but you may never see that money and I’d strongly consider going NC with mom, at least until she realises her betrayal and mistake with you and apologises. That’ll show her.
Geez, that was fucked up. I worked retail for a while and I get being socially exhausted but that's just not right
I had cosmetic surgeries myself and i did them for myself. It gave me incredible amount of confidence that no therapy can achieve. Its her body her choice. I would rethink my relationship with a bf who wouldnt support my decisions about my body. It doesnt matter if bf loves her face she is not doing it for him. The way he is concerned not loving her afterwards is shallow af. What if OP had a fire accident and burned some of her face? Is he gonna stop loving her bcz her face is different?
I think you actually need to evaluate the what ifs against the what are's in your relationship and life.
You say you're happy with your fiance but are you happy and in love or just happy. Are you getting married to him out of comfort and ease? Are you in love with your friend or are you focusing more abiut the what could've been.
I guess it’s just a silly crush I have and I know it won’t go anywhere I just never had a crush on someone in an open relationship before
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Hello all, thanks for the few comments you did help me. As a recap I travel a lot between 3 facilities(in different states) for work on a somewhat regular basis. Over a year ago, I met G(Gina). We were basically FWB with hints of a bit more. Last time we were together, we were at a grocery store, and a former coworker called her out and asked how David was, and I had no idea who she was talking about. Gina got weird and stopped talking to me while showing multiple red flags. I couldn't look her up for some reason on social media. Then basically ghosted me.
I just traveled back there, and she was actually at our normal meeting place (bar). I was surprised to actually see her again. I noticed she was talking to a guy. When she noticed me, she gave a smile for like half a second, and she got a worried look on her face. She came over to me and apologized again and wanted to talk.
Long conversation short, she is married. To David. She did lie about her last name and blocked me on social media. She said it was because she was surprised how she felt about me and didn't want to hurt me. She came clean about everything. Turns out she and David have been married for 10 years. But Gina is what people call a “beard.” She is straight, and her husband is 110% not. Their parents are both super religious and traditional. They live! together but have separate life's and relationships. The marriage is basically a cover and only on paper.
David is actually a really cool guy and kept complimenting me and made the comment, “I see why you like him so much. I would have taken him home with me as well.” I don't know how to take that.
I'm not sure what the relationship is going to be like moving forward, but thanks for everything!
TLDR; I thought my FWB was cheating on her husband with me. She was, but not really. Their marriage is to cover her husband's sexual orientation.
ETA, the person she was talking to at the bar, was DAVID. The real David. After Gina and I talked, he came over, and we all talked for a few hours. He is a nice guy. Also, I do get tested regularly.
I disagree. OP definitely should tell her acquaintance about the husband. But if the genders were reversed, it’s best for OP to leave it alone
I see, why did you need a bolt so badly? Seemingly blackouts are commonplace and you just have to deal with it, right? You can't always have someone ready to “bolt” you out of the situation.
So unless you had an emergency this is what she saw:
“I don't have internet and I'm sad about it, can you buy me a ride?”