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Not sure what nationality has to do with education.
Make it clear that the break you want is giving her space and not her the freedom of beeing singel, since you still want to stay comitted to each other. I would also watch out since sometimes people who are down and depressed think bad thinks like. “I am dragging him down” / “He is better without me” – things.
Make sure she has people around her and she is not left alone with her thoughts.
This statement won’t help anything but I’m just gonna point it out anyways. I’ve been the guy in this situation and he was most likely crying on the floor because he was thinking about how now he might have to break off what he thought was a good relationship because you’re not the person he thought you were.
you are a waste of your life
Are you married for 3 years? , you have been separated with your wife for a year and your wife had an affair. women continue their relationship
you still love her!
This is not an excuse to waste 1 year lying on an empty bed.
I think you have libido and mental health questions.
Your behavior is obnoxious. If you want a certain response, ask for it.
Yeah she’s being annoying but this isn’t end all be all she’s stuck doing this. She’s just scared for them. No need to blow her exaggeration out of proportion
Are you posting them on your social media? If you are, I would suggest using a block to keep her from seeing them because you're reopening that wound every time if you're doing that.
Sounds like you have done the right thing by breaking up with her tbh – she's likely to always be that paranoid even if you've done nothing to provoke it.
Let me be completely clear – you should not have a baby if you don't want them, but she should have a kid if she wants them.
Which means at this crossroad you break up.
Do not stay with someone when it crushes their life goals. And don't crush your own.
how is it your fault? does she gaslight you into believing it is?
be careful that you arent falling for gaslighting and her turning it around on you instead of taking responsibility.
While its noble to want to help, if she doesnt want it shes only going to bring you down too.
Imagine she fell overboard and you jump in with a life ring to save her. If she keeps swimming away or refusing to grab the ring, there's not much you can do to force her. eventually you will run out of energy and drown yourself and it's okay to recognise that you've done all you can and that you need to save yourself before you go under too.
not every relationship we have is compatible enough to be the forever relationship and she's failing at the very basic of being a partner.
just because the superficial surface things are good, it doesnt mean that the incompatibility with the big relationship responsibilities are rendered insignificant. if you are feeling burn out now, it wont get better until she does
Yup, me too. Dude I’m dating attempted it once. I told him i hated it. He hasn’t done it again. Even apologised once cos his hand went near it. Unnecessary, but considerate. OP’s bloke is just a douche.
I feel you. It's my view that there must be some biological wiring that causes this common feeling.
There are outcomes from promiscuity that can have long-lasting impacts: pregnancy by another partner, diseases, feelings of attachment to another man or multiple men, etc. Whether it's consciously or subconsciously, I think we can be influenced by these possible impacts. It can lead us to dwell on them (rightly or wrongly).
You're not irrational, and welcome to the world of being a relationship-oriented male.
No good advice, other than – you are not alone, and it might be worth considering that the world is full of people and you've just barely started living. Don't get too attached while you are so young.
Sorry for the huge delay here, as I'm not always able to be on. Like I already discussed, you want her to completely stop drinking and doing drugs. On its own, no one can sit here and suggest that you're not entitled to want a partner who's completely sober. That's who you've become, and that's the kind of partner you need to be with to make sure you're completely free of those things.
To back up and tell you about me, first, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. I tell you this so that you understand I'm not here being negative for the sake of being negative. I love love and I wish you nothing but the absolute best. Second, I'm a drinker. I'm a drinker in the sense that I can and do drink responsibly, but I enjoy it. The reason I tell you this piece though is so that you understand I'm not here with an inherent bias against alcohol just echoing what you want to hear.
In saying that, with you being someone who's given up those things and wants a relationship where that's the standard, I'm here telling you that that's exactly what you should fucking have and that you shouldn't feel bad about wanting it.
But once again, the reality is that she's not going to do that. That doesn't make her a bad person, and I feel like you're sort of trying to lean on that. She's just not right for you. She's starting psychotherapy? For what? And also, no she is not. Then let's come back again to the fact that it's been fucking four months!
She's not cutting off her friends also. You just said that's a reflection on her; sure, that's true, but that would be you making an argument to not be with her. Right? You're logically here trying to convince yourself to stay with her. This here is you arguing against it.
As for being the sole catalyst, to be honest, I'm not exactly convinced she needs to change in terms of drinking. I'm not here saying that it might not be a legitimate problem; it might very well be. The problem is that the context provided doesn't suggest that the source of all problems is the use of substances. The source is her and her alone. She has been and is making her own decisions. Alcohol and drugs haven't and aren't making her do anything.
Bottom line is you should end the relationship because she's not right for you romantically. Whether you choose to keep your friendships is ultimately up to you. If you think you can't control yourself around them, or that they're legitimately bad influences, then absolutely cut them off. At the end of the day, you matter, and you need to make life decisions based on what's best for you.
This isn't fuckery. She told you the deal. I think you're hoping for better than what she's offering. Don't make life decisions based on assumptions.
i hope that’s what happens but considering she’s playing the victim in a situation i lost money in idk if she’ll ever come around
Said Other girls have given him head without him asking
Haha, he should go back to those other (non-existent) girls.
So like how do I tell him that I like taking care of him and satisfying him, but head everyday…is a little much for me.
Tell him you're not going to give him blowjobs on demand, and that if he wants daily blowjobs he should go back to the girls who give him blowjobs without asking.