You don't owe your mom anything, especially since she was an abusive parent, physically, verbally and emotionally. She demonstrated again that your well-being is not a priority for her, and you're better off going NC with her.
Your sister got you sick with COVID, and you told her to put on a mask for your brother's sake, which is not an unreasonable thing to ask. She then enlists your mom against you rather than apologizing for her carelessness.
How he feels really came out when he was angry so take that into consideration, also, there is no shame and no set time in ending a bad marriage..This guy sucks, end of story.
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This makes it sound, to me, that he definitely has gay tendencies but is keeping it repressed for whatever reason.
Is there family or someone who was/is in his life that has made him averse to being able to feel safe being openly gay/bi? Obviously it's not you, you seem very understanding and were even willing to be open so he could explore that, but maybe a parent or friend or something?
It just seems to me, the whole literally “keeping my crossdressing stuff and peen toys in the closet” thing is a bit extreme for someone who is “just into the kink and it's no big deal”. He's hiding it for some reason or other…
Anyway! I totally understand if this is a deal breaker. I mean, you're a very supportive wife and have tried all sorts of forms of compromise/support, yet he's still pretty much camming and exchanging pron behind your back, which isn't fair to you. Also, what if someday in the future he decides that he is truly, fully gay, and ends up leaving you after many years of marriage because he stopped himself from exploring his true self, yanno?
I don't know what to really say honestly, but I wish you good luck!
Stress hasn't been shown to increase the risk of miscarriage. She should tell her so DIL can make fully informed decisions about her (and her children's) life going forward.
Best of Luck….
maybe you are special. maybe it hasn’t hit you yet. maybe you’re in denial.
your personal story doesn’t refute statistics though.
the “it didn’t happen to me, therefor it doesn’t happen” line of thinking is flawed. you surely are aware of that.
and as a side note: aged milk is cheese. and cheese is good ? so try finding a new, more exciting way to denigrate women.
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You don't owe your mom anything, especially since she was an abusive parent, physically, verbally and emotionally. She demonstrated again that your well-being is not a priority for her, and you're better off going NC with her.
Your sister got you sick with COVID, and you told her to put on a mask for your brother's sake, which is not an unreasonable thing to ask. She then enlists your mom against you rather than apologizing for her carelessness.
How he feels really came out when he was angry so take that into consideration, also, there is no shame and no set time in ending a bad marriage..This guy sucks, end of story.
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This makes it sound, to me, that he definitely has gay tendencies but is keeping it repressed for whatever reason.
Is there family or someone who was/is in his life that has made him averse to being able to feel safe being openly gay/bi? Obviously it's not you, you seem very understanding and were even willing to be open so he could explore that, but maybe a parent or friend or something?
It just seems to me, the whole literally “keeping my crossdressing stuff and peen toys in the closet” thing is a bit extreme for someone who is “just into the kink and it's no big deal”. He's hiding it for some reason or other…
Anyway! I totally understand if this is a deal breaker. I mean, you're a very supportive wife and have tried all sorts of forms of compromise/support, yet he's still pretty much camming and exchanging pron behind your back, which isn't fair to you. Also, what if someday in the future he decides that he is truly, fully gay, and ends up leaving you after many years of marriage because he stopped himself from exploring his true self, yanno?
I don't know what to really say honestly, but I wish you good luck!
If you’re the ripe old age of 32 like the flex guy then gtfo.
Stress hasn't been shown to increase the risk of miscarriage. She should tell her so DIL can make fully informed decisions about her (and her children's) life going forward.