I’m so sorry. It sounds as though you really love him, but you realise his kid has to come first (which he doesn’t seem to get) and that prolonging the agony isn’t going to help. I think that he hopes that he can get you back into a relationship by “acknowledging that you both still love each other” but he isn’t prepared to address the issue of his kid’s need to come first with him.
I think that the only thing to do is to tell him that unless/ until he takes steps to resolve his kid’s issues with his dad having a new partner, you can’t be involved with him. So he needs to have a serious conversation with his kid (age appropriate) that even if he runs off every partner his dad has forever, mum and dad are not going to get back together. This may involve counselling for the kid and this need not be expensive: organisations like Gingerbread (uk) might help. But it’s not your responsibility to provide emotional to support to this man unless and until he has proved to you that he’s supported his kid to be ready for his dad to be in a new relationship.
The poor girl has clearly had some bad stuff happen to her and thinks she's not worth more than being a sex object. Her family sounds creepy and, while I think you are well out of this, I do feel bad for her and hope she can find a better path in the future than this over-sexualized form of relationship.
One of the key functions of a partner is support. Your partner should be your hypeman not your hater. When you live! with someone like that the call is literally coming from inside the house.
I would have a conversation with him and tell him you aren’t going to entertain these comments anymore. If he wants to earn more money since you’re paid at the same rate he needs to work more hours. And all of that is a him problem not a you problem.
If he persists is suggest that you drop him and look for a truly supportive partner.
What do you do, take it as a blessing that he broke up with you and tell him you're not allowing him to come back and that you are done with his tantrums and his abuse.
Bro you're acting like you're going to be joined at the hip, it's highly unlikely that you'll even see each other. Even if you do end up running into each other, nobody is forcing you two to talk to each other ???
She sound quite self centered. He chose the person who will be the biggest help to his proposal , now she crying over nothing .
No, she shouldn't have and frankly she shouldn't have given up her best friend over an insecure boyfriend. You sound controlling.
How are you getting gold digger vibes when he’s trying to get $30k from her?
Has she never seen Psycho?
And look what happened bc he DIDNT tell her Lmfao. Get a clue
Cheating or not he's a fucking asshole! The long car ride with my wife is one of my favorite parts of trips.
I’m so sorry. It sounds as though you really love him, but you realise his kid has to come first (which he doesn’t seem to get) and that prolonging the agony isn’t going to help. I think that he hopes that he can get you back into a relationship by “acknowledging that you both still love each other” but he isn’t prepared to address the issue of his kid’s need to come first with him.
I think that the only thing to do is to tell him that unless/ until he takes steps to resolve his kid’s issues with his dad having a new partner, you can’t be involved with him. So he needs to have a serious conversation with his kid (age appropriate) that even if he runs off every partner his dad has forever, mum and dad are not going to get back together. This may involve counselling for the kid and this need not be expensive: organisations like Gingerbread (uk) might help. But it’s not your responsibility to provide emotional to support to this man unless and until he has proved to you that he’s supported his kid to be ready for his dad to be in a new relationship.
Yea fuck this loser and find someone who’ll respect you
Dump the controlling abusive shit stain
Smh
You might end up with one of them I think you should abstain until you know which one that is that’s just me personally tho
The poor girl has clearly had some bad stuff happen to her and thinks she's not worth more than being a sex object. Her family sounds creepy and, while I think you are well out of this, I do feel bad for her and hope she can find a better path in the future than this over-sexualized form of relationship.
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One of the key functions of a partner is support. Your partner should be your hypeman not your hater. When you live! with someone like that the call is literally coming from inside the house.
I would have a conversation with him and tell him you aren’t going to entertain these comments anymore. If he wants to earn more money since you’re paid at the same rate he needs to work more hours. And all of that is a him problem not a you problem.
If he persists is suggest that you drop him and look for a truly supportive partner.
What do you do, take it as a blessing that he broke up with you and tell him you're not allowing him to come back and that you are done with his tantrums and his abuse.
Get her out of your life right now! She is trouble. If she is saying these things, she's not happy in her own relationship.
Bro you're acting like you're going to be joined at the hip, it's highly unlikely that you'll even see each other. Even if you do end up running into each other, nobody is forcing you two to talk to each other ???
The way it goes with polyamory, what else are you to expect? It's hard to get two people to agree on most things, let alone more.