And not to mention she also told you she checked out your profile, so there’s absolutely no way she can call it creepy unless she’s calling herself creepy too lol.
I don't eat bacon or a lot of meat in general, so I had to look up a recipe (please forgive me for this — two recipes said 20 minutes), but this makes it even more confusing. If this story wasn't missing a massive segment and the background necessary to understand why that segment played out like it did, maybe we'd know why she wasn't able to laugh it off or feel a bit embarrassed and then spend 5 minutes making a sandwich.
I'm at a point with this one where all I can think is, both people involved in this marriage are terrible and I cannot comprehend posting personal business about my sex life or about how I cried about a sandwich and my wife cried about being topless to a group of strangers. There's like zero self-respect here.
don’t answer any calls unless you know that they are in your contacts. go completely 100% no contact with this person and their family. They are manipulating you !!! you deserve better.
Get a sex toy for her that she likes, pleasure her with it, then have sex with her while she's all sensitive from orgasming. Your dick size isn't the end all be all of your capacity to make her orgasm or feel good. Guys who swallow their pride and utilize other options to pleasure their partner are sexy because they know that pleasure together is more important than dick size or even dick being in is
I think it’s more in the middle now I look at it. OP sees her on saturdays— it sounds like ONLY saturdays. She’s probably very frustrated more reasonably so with him not spending much time with her. She is taking it out in an unhealthy way. But like OP should look at why she’s saying it. Maybe he sees her more and she’s just an AH. Maybe she’s being neglected and lashed out.
I don't think it's normal to suddenly change all your furniture and artwork after a split. That stuff is expensive, and surely if you were part of that household it's likely it's stuff you actually like. So I wouldn't expect someone to suddenly replace that all.
I also do think that for many people and probably more so men, they won't necessarily think about getting rid of all that stuff. It's in the basement, out of sight, out of mind, it's not like he is looking through it all on a daily basis. And what exactly is this stuff?
Is it his wife's stuff or is it stuff from their life together? Because I don't think you can expect the man to erase his whole past, get rid of everything that might be connected to his ex, keeping those memories doesn't mean you're not over someone, it simply means you have a past.
I posted just a “oh hey I’ve lost weight!” Before and after to a progress pics sub. Sports bra and pants, no side boob, no overtly sexual pics (something you might see in a gym). The amount of men reaching out to me for ass pics, tit pics, sending unsolicited dick pics…it’s exhausting.
Maybe she's thinking of going that way to make $$.
If you can't accept this, you shouldn't be dating her. You have every right to not feel good about it, but yeah, it's also her choice to do what she wants to do.
I can kind of see where he is coming from. You guys are together and you want to go on a trip without him. To him that says you don't want to be around him. So I'm sure that makes him feel shitty. It does sound like he doesn't trust you. Saying “I trust you but I don't trust other men” is just a long way of saying he doesn't trust your willingness to say no to these other men. In foreign countries you should be careful about your drinks. There is a hair scrunchie out there that you can take off your hair and it goes over the top of your cup. It has a little hole for the straw. That way if you are looking away no one can drop a pill in. It's actually quite genius. The woman who made it probably is making out really well. Anyways, You should be able to do what you want to do. All I'm saying is I can see why your BF would be hurt by that. But if you warned him you always wanted to solo travel that's something he should have been prepared for. From the relationships I have had and have seen people who say they want to solo travel change their mind when they start dating. It turns from solo to traveling with my partner because I love and want to be around them. Maybe your boyfriend was thinking that would happen to you. You would change your mind of travelling solo to travelling with him. All in all it's your choice your boyfriend should definitely not be acting like an asshole and ruining your excitement he is in the wrong there. If you truly want this I would just tell him that this is your dream, you are not going to cancel no matter how nude he complains so he should stop because it's ruining your excitement over this trip. There will always be another trip you two can go on and this one you are taking solo. Just be prepared he might be so upset he won't be there when you get back. But that's a risk you are taking just to be upfront. He has the right to do what he wants too when it comes to that
Spell check goes along way.
And not to mention she also told you she checked out your profile, so there’s absolutely no way she can call it creepy unless she’s calling herself creepy too lol.
Please keep your fucked up relationship and stay away from the dating world
I don't eat bacon or a lot of meat in general, so I had to look up a recipe (please forgive me for this — two recipes said 20 minutes), but this makes it even more confusing. If this story wasn't missing a massive segment and the background necessary to understand why that segment played out like it did, maybe we'd know why she wasn't able to laugh it off or feel a bit embarrassed and then spend 5 minutes making a sandwich.
I'm at a point with this one where all I can think is, both people involved in this marriage are terrible and I cannot comprehend posting personal business about my sex life or about how I cried about a sandwich and my wife cried about being topless to a group of strangers. There's like zero self-respect here.
If that's not a red flag I don't know what is
don’t answer any calls unless you know that they are in your contacts. go completely 100% no contact with this person and their family. They are manipulating you !!! you deserve better.
have you tried talking to a therapist about it, maybe your disinterest in children is something else rather than simple disinterest.
It’s not like you’re gonna listen to hundreds of very helpful advice now are you? All you did in the comments was justify his shitty behaviour.
Hobbies, exercise. Keep yourself busy otherwise.
Time will help, otherwise.
It is the End Times. Its The End of your relationship with your crazy mother. Or both your parents?
They will keep you caged just as long as you let them. Break free.
Ms. ma’am, please step back before you find yourself in another relationshit. This is very concerning.
It is a strange thing that the most pressure to lie on a day to day basis comes from being in a relationship.
Get a sex toy for her that she likes, pleasure her with it, then have sex with her while she's all sensitive from orgasming. Your dick size isn't the end all be all of your capacity to make her orgasm or feel good. Guys who swallow their pride and utilize other options to pleasure their partner are sexy because they know that pleasure together is more important than dick size or even dick being in is
I think it’s more in the middle now I look at it. OP sees her on saturdays— it sounds like ONLY saturdays. She’s probably very frustrated more reasonably so with him not spending much time with her. She is taking it out in an unhealthy way. But like OP should look at why she’s saying it. Maybe he sees her more and she’s just an AH. Maybe she’s being neglected and lashed out.
I don't think it's normal to suddenly change all your furniture and artwork after a split. That stuff is expensive, and surely if you were part of that household it's likely it's stuff you actually like. So I wouldn't expect someone to suddenly replace that all.
I also do think that for many people and probably more so men, they won't necessarily think about getting rid of all that stuff. It's in the basement, out of sight, out of mind, it's not like he is looking through it all on a daily basis. And what exactly is this stuff?
Is it his wife's stuff or is it stuff from their life together? Because I don't think you can expect the man to erase his whole past, get rid of everything that might be connected to his ex, keeping those memories doesn't mean you're not over someone, it simply means you have a past.
I posted just a “oh hey I’ve lost weight!” Before and after to a progress pics sub. Sports bra and pants, no side boob, no overtly sexual pics (something you might see in a gym). The amount of men reaching out to me for ass pics, tit pics, sending unsolicited dick pics…it’s exhausting.
Does she make $$ doing this?
Maybe she's thinking of going that way to make $$.
If you can't accept this, you shouldn't be dating her. You have every right to not feel good about it, but yeah, it's also her choice to do what she wants to do.
Literally what most children find they have to do to survive, due to their parents whose love and support are as conditional as a rabies shot.
Yeppp
Have you ever spoken to a therapist? How you're feeling is common. But it's worrying after all this time.
I can kind of see where he is coming from. You guys are together and you want to go on a trip without him. To him that says you don't want to be around him. So I'm sure that makes him feel shitty. It does sound like he doesn't trust you. Saying “I trust you but I don't trust other men” is just a long way of saying he doesn't trust your willingness to say no to these other men. In foreign countries you should be careful about your drinks. There is a hair scrunchie out there that you can take off your hair and it goes over the top of your cup. It has a little hole for the straw. That way if you are looking away no one can drop a pill in. It's actually quite genius. The woman who made it probably is making out really well. Anyways, You should be able to do what you want to do. All I'm saying is I can see why your BF would be hurt by that. But if you warned him you always wanted to solo travel that's something he should have been prepared for. From the relationships I have had and have seen people who say they want to solo travel change their mind when they start dating. It turns from solo to traveling with my partner because I love and want to be around them. Maybe your boyfriend was thinking that would happen to you. You would change your mind of travelling solo to travelling with him. All in all it's your choice your boyfriend should definitely not be acting like an asshole and ruining your excitement he is in the wrong there. If you truly want this I would just tell him that this is your dream, you are not going to cancel no matter how nude he complains so he should stop because it's ruining your excitement over this trip. There will always be another trip you two can go on and this one you are taking solo. Just be prepared he might be so upset he won't be there when you get back. But that's a risk you are taking just to be upfront. He has the right to do what he wants too when it comes to that