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She’s trying to manipulate you. She’s sorry you got upset about it, not sorry that she’s doing inappropriate shit? Some texts you sent years ago are not any excuse. As you said, clearly she knows she doesn’t belong in other men’s inboxes. And yet she won’t even apologize? She could apologize for what it appeared like without having to admit that her intentions were shady, but she chooses not to and instead tries to push your wedding date back as a manipulation tactic to try to force you to bow out. Don’t. Put your foot down now and leave if she doesn’t like it.
So what would be best is don’t ask just continue to make her feel wanted and take her in dates on do what she needs and wait for her to come to me with it?
Hi OP I also have a force fetish, and this is SUPER making me uncomfortable. There is something wrong here. PLEASE be safe, reach out to someone around you maybe? I hope you're okay. The thing about a force fetish is you HAVE to have a safe word, and you HAVE to be cognizant to be able to use it if things get out of hand or into a zone you're not comfortable with. I hope you are okay and safe.
He told you he wasn’t comfortable with the hypothetical scenario and you doubled down and told him you would do what you want. I see no issue with him leaving. You both stated your boundaries and yours didn’t align with his.
Bruh, she has not forgotten her ex and it is doubtful that she can ever forget him. Having close ties ex's family, it is very difficult for her to move on. Don't kid yourself.
As of right now, we still haven't been on our first date yet. I just asked her out. We were acquaintances before. She still doesn't know about it. But she's definitely going to ask, and I either play it off that I know a lot about it (which I don't), or drop the hobby entirely. Even though I now love it.
If he genuinely doesn't see this as a problem, then don't try to fix it. You are literally saying he can't comprehend that his girlfriend might be uncomfortable with the amount of bacteria in his mouth or having fur in her vagina, or he can, but thinks cinnamon tastes yucky so it's fine. This is a person it's borderline unethical to have sex with if this is how they're functioning. They're like a child.
So, what happened? In my experience, when someone starts accusing out of no where, they are trying to hide something. Was there something that justified the change in behavior? Is this abnormal?
Man the comments here are an echo chamber ffs. He discussed a subject with his wife, wife said no and he understood = he's a scumbag piece of crap, divorce immediately he's cheating? Lol
Yooo little late one this one but you are struggling because you haven't figured out that you are his mom and that is your kid. You call him and tell him that you are his mom not his sister and he is not allowed to pull away and that you expect him over every Sunday for dinner.
No, but you will be able to weed out guys who are concerned with purity culture and move along to men who are interested in you as a person. Bonus points for not giving creeps anything to neg you for.
Wow… I absolutely love how you’re putting the entire blame on this woman.
Your partner is still engaging with her…
Stop focusing on her and focus on the fact that you are with somebody that was a flaming pile of trash in their last relationship and is showing signs of treating you the same way.
Can you somehow delete the pics? You’ve pretended this long, can you pretend a bit longer to delete the shit he’s holding over you?
Why would he even want to be friends with someone who talks shit about you?
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Yeah, she lied and used you as the fall-back option.
She’s trying to manipulate you. She’s sorry you got upset about it, not sorry that she’s doing inappropriate shit? Some texts you sent years ago are not any excuse. As you said, clearly she knows she doesn’t belong in other men’s inboxes. And yet she won’t even apologize? She could apologize for what it appeared like without having to admit that her intentions were shady, but she chooses not to and instead tries to push your wedding date back as a manipulation tactic to try to force you to bow out. Don’t. Put your foot down now and leave if she doesn’t like it.
So what would be best is don’t ask just continue to make her feel wanted and take her in dates on do what she needs and wait for her to come to me with it?
You break up with the abuser!!
Hi OP I also have a force fetish, and this is SUPER making me uncomfortable. There is something wrong here. PLEASE be safe, reach out to someone around you maybe? I hope you're okay. The thing about a force fetish is you HAVE to have a safe word, and you HAVE to be cognizant to be able to use it if things get out of hand or into a zone you're not comfortable with. I hope you are okay and safe.
He told you he wasn’t comfortable with the hypothetical scenario and you doubled down and told him you would do what you want. I see no issue with him leaving. You both stated your boundaries and yours didn’t align with his.
Bruh, she has not forgotten her ex and it is doubtful that she can ever forget him. Having close ties ex's family, it is very difficult for her to move on. Don't kid yourself.
As of right now, we still haven't been on our first date yet. I just asked her out. We were acquaintances before. She still doesn't know about it. But she's definitely going to ask, and I either play it off that I know a lot about it (which I don't), or drop the hobby entirely. Even though I now love it.
This! ?? a relationship should be mutually beneficial for both partners.
If he genuinely doesn't see this as a problem, then don't try to fix it. You are literally saying he can't comprehend that his girlfriend might be uncomfortable with the amount of bacteria in his mouth or having fur in her vagina, or he can, but thinks cinnamon tastes yucky so it's fine. This is a person it's borderline unethical to have sex with if this is how they're functioning. They're like a child.
So, what happened? In my experience, when someone starts accusing out of no where, they are trying to hide something. Was there something that justified the change in behavior? Is this abnormal?
Out of pure jealousy, I fucking hate you so much.
Man the comments here are an echo chamber ffs. He discussed a subject with his wife, wife said no and he understood = he's a scumbag piece of crap, divorce immediately he's cheating? Lol
Yooo little late one this one but you are struggling because you haven't figured out that you are his mom and that is your kid. You call him and tell him that you are his mom not his sister and he is not allowed to pull away and that you expect him over every Sunday for dinner.
No, but you will be able to weed out guys who are concerned with purity culture and move along to men who are interested in you as a person. Bonus points for not giving creeps anything to neg you for.
Wow… I absolutely love how you’re putting the entire blame on this woman.
Your partner is still engaging with her…
Stop focusing on her and focus on the fact that you are with somebody that was a flaming pile of trash in their last relationship and is showing signs of treating you the same way.
She can’t get visa to US