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He has mentioned he will not be returning to the work force, we shall see if that changes when he runs out of his fund. It may be a good time to bring the discussion up again and approach the overall topic through this lens
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You did it while you were together? Then you were cheating. So that would be a no from me.
If you weren't exclusive, then you were still putting him at risk for potential STIs without his knowledge.
If I'm sleeping with someone, I would want to know if they were engaging with multiple partners or prostitution so I can be more proactive with testing and educate myself more (whether or not condoms were used).
I am generalizing here, people who go to prostitutes aren't going to be completely honest about their sexual health, or even care, because to them, it's just a transaction and you are a product.
If you're in a relationship, they need to know. Sleeping with multiple people is a risky behaviour (I'm not knocking people who do). Condoms don't always protect you. They can break, people take them off, and nothing is 100%.
This would also be a no from me. It shows a lack of respect to the person you're in a relationship with. I get why you did it and why you didn't tell him, but in my opinion, that doesn't make it right.
It is your life and you are free to choose how you want to proceed. When you are ready, you are ready. If not then thats fine. You can decide when you want to make yourself ready to handle things or be stuck.
On the other hand, when you go through life, living in the past is quite depressing. All the negativity you carry from the past can ruin the present. In the long run, it would be better to let go of it. Keeping it really isn't good and if you have the option, then it really helps the squash it and move on. This isn't something you have to do. This is just a rec.
Yea we flirt and it’s definitely gotten to sexual texts. To the point where I’ve gone into detail about what I’d do to him. He knew I was coming into his area and he reached out (I knew it was for sex and I’m assuming it was considering how sexual the conversation had gotten.. so I lied and said I never made it)
Oh no, your gf has a personality outside of your relationship and.. gets on with other people????? Grow up, get over it, work on yourself and not being insecure.. talk to her about it! Tell her how you feel and discuss it! Don't drag her down..
Why are you embarrassed? You went to the bathroom. My nieces and nephews used to have this book when they were young called, “Everybody Poops!” We learn early on that yeah, everyone does, it's normal and natural.
Your asshole bf and his idiotic friends should be embarrassed, not you. Most people outgrow toilet humor at about 12. Your bf is almost 30. He should be mortified.
Give him an invoice. I did this with my EX husband. He had hobbies like being in a band, cheating on me, and going to bars with friends. I was also a working SAHM with a baby and 2y old.
I told him my rates for childcare, chef services, dog daycare, poop scooping, yard work, and laundry services. My rates were reasonable and on par with businesses in our area at the time. He didn’t like that very much! Lol.
YOU are a person. Just bc we are the moms does NOT mean we carry 95% of the load. If he expects you to carry more household responsibilities then he can pay for it with money.
Good on your for standing your ground about the bowling. Now, when you go back to golfing, don’t let him fuck with your time. And follow through!! Don’t let him push you around.
Good god. I just cannot believe so many of us women put up with this bullshit for so long before we finally break and put our foot down. I left my ex in 2017 and while it’s not been easy, I’m so so much happier!! I’m sure if I had had a faithful, loving partner my views on marriage would be different. But I’m now at a point I cannot fathom every living w a man again. It’s just not worth it.
Good luck OP. I hope you understand and know you are worth so much more. You’re a badass. ❤️
asked her to be my gf a week before leaving for this trip
He asked her to be his girlfriend. Did you ask 100 dudes to be your boyfriend? If not, then no, you don't have 100 boyfriends. If you asked 100 dudes to be your boyfriend, yes you have 100 boyfriends and I wish you luck with that.
He has mentioned he will not be returning to the work force, we shall see if that changes when he runs out of his fund. It may be a good time to bring the discussion up again and approach the overall topic through this lens
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You did it while you were together? Then you were cheating. So that would be a no from me.
If you weren't exclusive, then you were still putting him at risk for potential STIs without his knowledge.
If I'm sleeping with someone, I would want to know if they were engaging with multiple partners or prostitution so I can be more proactive with testing and educate myself more (whether or not condoms were used).
I am generalizing here, people who go to prostitutes aren't going to be completely honest about their sexual health, or even care, because to them, it's just a transaction and you are a product.
If you're in a relationship, they need to know. Sleeping with multiple people is a risky behaviour (I'm not knocking people who do). Condoms don't always protect you. They can break, people take them off, and nothing is 100%.
This would also be a no from me. It shows a lack of respect to the person you're in a relationship with. I get why you did it and why you didn't tell him, but in my opinion, that doesn't make it right.
It is your life and you are free to choose how you want to proceed. When you are ready, you are ready. If not then thats fine. You can decide when you want to make yourself ready to handle things or be stuck.
On the other hand, when you go through life, living in the past is quite depressing. All the negativity you carry from the past can ruin the present. In the long run, it would be better to let go of it. Keeping it really isn't good and if you have the option, then it really helps the squash it and move on. This isn't something you have to do. This is just a rec.
Yea we flirt and it’s definitely gotten to sexual texts. To the point where I’ve gone into detail about what I’d do to him. He knew I was coming into his area and he reached out (I knew it was for sex and I’m assuming it was considering how sexual the conversation had gotten.. so I lied and said I never made it)
Way too many problems at three months. Way way too many
Oh no, your gf has a personality outside of your relationship and.. gets on with other people????? Grow up, get over it, work on yourself and not being insecure.. talk to her about it! Tell her how you feel and discuss it! Don't drag her down..
Why are you embarrassed? You went to the bathroom. My nieces and nephews used to have this book when they were young called, “Everybody Poops!” We learn early on that yeah, everyone does, it's normal and natural.
Your asshole bf and his idiotic friends should be embarrassed, not you. Most people outgrow toilet humor at about 12. Your bf is almost 30. He should be mortified.
He didn't defend you, and is blaming you.
Fuck. Him.
Do not have sex with someone who doesn't respect you and your body!
Give him an invoice. I did this with my EX husband. He had hobbies like being in a band, cheating on me, and going to bars with friends. I was also a working SAHM with a baby and 2y old.
I told him my rates for childcare, chef services, dog daycare, poop scooping, yard work, and laundry services. My rates were reasonable and on par with businesses in our area at the time. He didn’t like that very much! Lol.
YOU are a person. Just bc we are the moms does NOT mean we carry 95% of the load. If he expects you to carry more household responsibilities then he can pay for it with money.
Good on your for standing your ground about the bowling. Now, when you go back to golfing, don’t let him fuck with your time. And follow through!! Don’t let him push you around.
Good god. I just cannot believe so many of us women put up with this bullshit for so long before we finally break and put our foot down. I left my ex in 2017 and while it’s not been easy, I’m so so much happier!! I’m sure if I had had a faithful, loving partner my views on marriage would be different. But I’m now at a point I cannot fathom every living w a man again. It’s just not worth it.
Good luck OP. I hope you understand and know you are worth so much more. You’re a badass. ❤️
Are you being intentionally obtuse?
asked her to be my gf a week before leaving for this trip
He asked her to be his girlfriend. Did you ask 100 dudes to be your boyfriend? If not, then no, you don't have 100 boyfriends. If you asked 100 dudes to be your boyfriend, yes you have 100 boyfriends and I wish you luck with that.