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How did he hurt your feelings? You knew he was in a relationship and slept with him, the only victim is his gf and the only advice I have is that you need to tell her asap
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I (31/F) met my wife (33/F, transitioned 7yo) 5 years ago. We've been married for 2 years and have a 4 month old boy. Our son is biologically ours – (using my wife's frozen sperm). He's our only kid and everything else is going great for all three of us. I have recently started working again (reduced hours) and she is planning to stay home for another 1-2 months.
Our son has been exclusively breastfed (by me) since I gave birth. Since two weeks after he was born, my wife started complaining that watching me breastfeed was making her dysphoric as she could not do the same. I tried to be understanding as this must have been difficult, but I admittedly didn't really change my behaviour – my wife didn't ask me to stop breastfeeding/pumping in front of her and I don't think that would have been a reasonable request.
She's brought it up many times since and tbh I've started feeling frustrated as I feel there's an implication that I should feel bad for being able to breastfeed. However, she's never said this outright, so I don't know if that's a fair detail to include. Every time she brings it up, I try to be sympathetic, but as she acknowledged that there's nothing we can do, we continued what we were doing.
Fast forward to yesterday, I came home and saw my wife breastfeeding our son. She has had both top+bottom surgery, but does not produce milk (I learned today from an article she sent that some trans women can produce milk, but she does not). I admit my initial reaction was of shock, which I regret. I asked what she was doing, and she said that she was breastfeeding our son. We had a long conversation and she asked me directly if I was uncomfortable with her doing this and I admitted that I was. She asked why and I said that I didn't know. She yelled at me quite a bit (after putting our son in his crib upstairs) about how she would never have expected me to say something so transphobic and that (exact quote) “it's messed up that [I] chose to wait until after we were married and have a kid to show [my] true self.” I thought that this was needlessly hurtful and I cried quite a lot after she said this. We agreed to pause the convo and we had a more relaxed discussion this morning.
The conversation was not particularly productive. She asked why I was uncomfortable and I said that I didn't know, but that it felt like it was not fair to our son to have him expect to be breastfed, but not actually receive any milk. She said that pacifiers do the same thing, but I'm not uncomfortable with those and tbh I think that's a good point. She said that there was no reason for me to be uncomfortable with this other than transphobia as it implied that I didn't think her dysphoria was sufficient justification to breastfeed. Honestly, I'm not sure where to go from here. I still am very uncomfortable with it, but as I mentioned, I don't know why. How should I handle this? Please help!
tl:dr: I am feeling uncomfortable with my wife breastfeeding our son, but I don't know why
You just being selfish like you were with his girl and you want your own closure. Leave the poor guy alone you have done enough there’s no explaining how you slid your dick in his girlfriend, no accident it was a choice. You traded a long term friendship for pussy, that’s it. He lost friendship and a girlfriend, let him heal by himself. Stop trying to contact him or going through other channels to get your piece of mind, cause no matter what is will be a constant reminder to him that you got a piece of his girlfriend.
I once had an ex I stayed friends with after a break up, leave me in a car for 30 mins so she could pick up some weed. I was patient enough and started laying on the horn because she was taking too long. Chewed her out when she got back and couldn’t figure out why I was so upset. I’m a pretty patient guy but 10-15 mins should be the limit with no update.
Hope this is fake as some have said, if not you’ve dug your grave. You still at your ex beck and call and will do anything to please her and the stranged kid, but forget you have to compromise somewhere and between birth and marriage your newborn will be mad as hell and you just caused a rift where you’ll always be thought of as dad having favourites and she’s not the one. Unless is a “Godfather III” wedding people do to die from getting married but do from giving birth
Can you introduce your parents to each other over a video call? Maybe she’s right, maybe she’s wrong. But it’s definitely not helping that she has no idea who his family is. That’s an easy thing to address.
My ex father in law did actually make some snide remarks about my parenting, and behind my back, so did my ex mil. Pretty fucking devastating, as I was already struggling with my depression. That pushed me into dark thoughts that my kids were better off without me, and I tried to kill myself.
Unless there is valid reason, the fiancé overstepped so badly. What a terrible person.
I mean I guess but he said he wasn’t attracted to her body anymore which if it’s about his values he shpuld just be honest about that. Which I don’t see how someone can say plastic surgery is bad unless they’re completely against makeup, cutting your hair, etc… everything that alters appearance for the most part is a cosmetic, material thing. Ridiculous to me lmao
I think she is possibly available though, she seems like she's on the verge of breaking up. I just don't necessarily feel as if she's stringing me on, maybe she actually wants to leave her bf
It's not even that he's committing fraud (which is bad enough in and of itself) it's the fact that he's taking out lines of credit in YOUR name. If he loved you unconditionally, he wouldn't be putting your financial well-being at risk like this.
How did he hurt your feelings? You knew he was in a relationship and slept with him, the only victim is his gf and the only advice I have is that you need to tell her asap
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I (31/F) met my wife (33/F, transitioned 7yo) 5 years ago. We've been married for 2 years and have a 4 month old boy. Our son is biologically ours – (using my wife's frozen sperm). He's our only kid and everything else is going great for all three of us. I have recently started working again (reduced hours) and she is planning to stay home for another 1-2 months.
Our son has been exclusively breastfed (by me) since I gave birth. Since two weeks after he was born, my wife started complaining that watching me breastfeed was making her dysphoric as she could not do the same. I tried to be understanding as this must have been difficult, but I admittedly didn't really change my behaviour – my wife didn't ask me to stop breastfeeding/pumping in front of her and I don't think that would have been a reasonable request.
She's brought it up many times since and tbh I've started feeling frustrated as I feel there's an implication that I should feel bad for being able to breastfeed. However, she's never said this outright, so I don't know if that's a fair detail to include. Every time she brings it up, I try to be sympathetic, but as she acknowledged that there's nothing we can do, we continued what we were doing.
Fast forward to yesterday, I came home and saw my wife breastfeeding our son. She has had both top+bottom surgery, but does not produce milk (I learned today from an article she sent that some trans women can produce milk, but she does not). I admit my initial reaction was of shock, which I regret. I asked what she was doing, and she said that she was breastfeeding our son. We had a long conversation and she asked me directly if I was uncomfortable with her doing this and I admitted that I was. She asked why and I said that I didn't know. She yelled at me quite a bit (after putting our son in his crib upstairs) about how she would never have expected me to say something so transphobic and that (exact quote) “it's messed up that [I] chose to wait until after we were married and have a kid to show [my] true self.” I thought that this was needlessly hurtful and I cried quite a lot after she said this. We agreed to pause the convo and we had a more relaxed discussion this morning.
The conversation was not particularly productive. She asked why I was uncomfortable and I said that I didn't know, but that it felt like it was not fair to our son to have him expect to be breastfed, but not actually receive any milk. She said that pacifiers do the same thing, but I'm not uncomfortable with those and tbh I think that's a good point. She said that there was no reason for me to be uncomfortable with this other than transphobia as it implied that I didn't think her dysphoria was sufficient justification to breastfeed. Honestly, I'm not sure where to go from here. I still am very uncomfortable with it, but as I mentioned, I don't know why. How should I handle this? Please help!
tl:dr: I am feeling uncomfortable with my wife breastfeeding our son, but I don't know why
She's abusive as hell.
Leave her so she can go date this dude. Find someone that isn't shitty to you.
You just being selfish like you were with his girl and you want your own closure. Leave the poor guy alone you have done enough there’s no explaining how you slid your dick in his girlfriend, no accident it was a choice. You traded a long term friendship for pussy, that’s it. He lost friendship and a girlfriend, let him heal by himself. Stop trying to contact him or going through other channels to get your piece of mind, cause no matter what is will be a constant reminder to him that you got a piece of his girlfriend.
Dump her ass
Yes, that is correct.
Friend, a 28 meter penis is nothing to be ashamed of!
I once had an ex I stayed friends with after a break up, leave me in a car for 30 mins so she could pick up some weed. I was patient enough and started laying on the horn because she was taking too long. Chewed her out when she got back and couldn’t figure out why I was so upset. I’m a pretty patient guy but 10-15 mins should be the limit with no update.
Hope this is fake as some have said, if not you’ve dug your grave. You still at your ex beck and call and will do anything to please her and the stranged kid, but forget you have to compromise somewhere and between birth and marriage your newborn will be mad as hell and you just caused a rift where you’ll always be thought of as dad having favourites and she’s not the one. Unless is a “Godfather III” wedding people do to die from getting married but do from giving birth
This is your tipping point? Not way back when she started displaying this type of behavior and you kept putting up with it.
Does it really matter at this point given all she otherwise did?
Can you introduce your parents to each other over a video call? Maybe she’s right, maybe she’s wrong. But it’s definitely not helping that she has no idea who his family is. That’s an easy thing to address.
You dont owe him shit.
My ex father in law did actually make some snide remarks about my parenting, and behind my back, so did my ex mil. Pretty fucking devastating, as I was already struggling with my depression. That pushed me into dark thoughts that my kids were better off without me, and I tried to kill myself.
Unless there is valid reason, the fiancé overstepped so badly. What a terrible person.
I mean I guess but he said he wasn’t attracted to her body anymore which if it’s about his values he shpuld just be honest about that. Which I don’t see how someone can say plastic surgery is bad unless they’re completely against makeup, cutting your hair, etc… everything that alters appearance for the most part is a cosmetic, material thing. Ridiculous to me lmao
I doubt the diamonds used were mined. They were probably lab created.
Honestly if the ring is such an issue, you probably shouldn’t get married. Chances are what he got you was what he could afford.
Thank you for your comment.
I think she is possibly available though, she seems like she's on the verge of breaking up. I just don't necessarily feel as if she's stringing me on, maybe she actually wants to leave her bf
It's not even that he's committing fraud (which is bad enough in and of itself) it's the fact that he's taking out lines of credit in YOUR name. If he loved you unconditionally, he wouldn't be putting your financial well-being at risk like this.
Honestly i read that and jst put my phone down for a bit. Wtf is a relationship these days even..
I fucking give up.
Lol how are people putting up with this bullshit and actually believe it?!
I would unless it would upset her