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What works for other or what’s healthy for other may not be for you or your relationship! Me 21F and my boyfriend 23M have an infrequent sex life as well. Sometimes it’ll be daily. Others once a week or even spaced out a month. We’re both happy an fine with our sex life and try to show intimacy other ways! Don’t worry about what others do, you guys seem to be doing great in your relationship already! (:
It was about 4 months after ending a 4.5 year relationship that I met her.
Why would you continue a relationship with someone who had shown you such blatant disrespect? He literally does not give a shit about your feelings.
It turns out your wife is an immature child. Get the puppy rehoused because it’s not learning what it needs to in order to behave.
Stay alone for a while and work on yourself. This girls don't deserve all of that.
Got it.
you didn't say he needs to get over it
When did I ever deny this? Of course he needs to get over it? I never went back on that?
I told you the advice I gave her was to leave it and give it time. Because I think with time he'll eventually get over it. Point being, he needs to get over it.
I'm not saying she should go tell him “get over it”?? Obviously he's already insecure that'll make things worse. She should leave it. He should do whatever, time or therapy, to get.over.it.
He's demented in the head, leave ASAP
So time to step up and actually report. OP isn't looking for excuses like you. OP is looking for solutions like me. Make that one woman out of three report for sexual assault.
I wouldn't want to hang out with him, either. He is transphobic, if he wasn't then he wouldn't have made that particular joke. It's perfectly normal that people don't want to hang out with bigots, especially idiot bigots who will start things in clubs. That's a good way to end up in a bad situation. Life is too short to hang out with bigots.
There's a reason 22 year olds don't generally date 18 year olds….
There’s always the option of not accepting it and telling her goodbye. Non-monogamous relationships in many many many many cases don’t work. You are right, what if she get pregnant by some other guy, what if she gets an std, what if she catch feelings for someone else, what if you catch feelings for someone else. Trust me, if you decide to leave her and find someone else that you want to built a solid stable relationship with go ahead. For her, the direction she’s going she’s going to push well past 30-40 wondering why no guy wants to settle down with her.
No hiccups other than she is either selling pictures to people, or is allowing her face to be used to catfish people into buying pictures of someone else.
She also didn’t say she was going to stop it, so whichever one it is, she values it more than you and your relationship.
Throughout your married life, you both will go through several periods of intense stress due to any number of life events. If this is how your husband acts when he is confronted with damning evidence of something creepy he has done, then it doesn't bode well for your future together.
Please think about your child's safety and welfare and your own. He may not be husband material after all.
You'll make new friends and you learned some valuable lessons. That's whats important.
I think part of 'benefit of the doubt' here is less about the people in the story applying it to each other, and more about us redditors applying it to the situation.
People are not automatically great writers that give an exact and specific description of the situation that inherently include every relevant detail. Especially people who come for advice on how to communicate.
Or to put it another way… it may not be nearly as bad as he makes it sound. It could be, sure, could even be worse, but maybe not.
If we're betting, and we add the fact that in a comment elsewhere OP confirms the 'husband' and 'wife' are 'getting a divorce', I'd bet towards the eventual solution being the removal of the husband from the picture. The only one currently getting along with him seems to be the wife, and a vibe of 'on-last-leg' exasperation exists.
Again, don't think you're wrong about the husband, but I also don't think the situation is going to go there. The way it's forking now, none of the most plausible paths I see is going in that direction.
Same. I was 36 and I actually have an emotional connection with someone who is a brilliant partner to me now.
I’m actually dying to read her memoir. It’s going to be wild. Front row seat to the train wreck OP is.
thank you a lot for the message it feels good to read it, yeah I talk about that to him and I see therapist and I have a treatment for mental issue, thank you reall., and I see a therapist to work on the relationship but idk why I didn't mention my ex relationship so I think I do progress but I do this in the wrong way !!!! I talked about that to him thank you
That’s true poetry, right there!
I ain't your bro, miss “I accept free stuff from men and all I can think of is how to get more cash thus I keep accusing other people of what I usually do”.
Your shenanigans are in your comments as well, don't think people can't read them.
Maybe because whatever she had with her ex wasn't working out and she knew you were getting suspicious
Love, Trust and honesty are the foundation of a relationship
She has difficulty telling the truth. But most likely we cant convince you to make the smart choice so I will say this. Tell her this is her one fuck up. If she ever lies about anything or hides anything ever again you are over. If she tells you about things you will try and work through them but a lie is the end period.
Did she tell you or did you find out? I don’t care if this is not a popular opinion, but her doing porn is something she should have brought up a looong time ago. It’s part of her past, and someone’s past does matter.
Everyone has different boundaries when it comes to this kind of thing. Her getting railed by dudes will forever be on the internet for everyone to see. If y’all have kids, who’s to say they won’t accidentally come across moms porn video?
Idk man, hard no for me, but it ain’t my life.
That’s terrible, sorry
Nope. He is importanr wnough fir ger to lie to you, and she will continue to do so. Her words are worthless.
Leave her. If she insists on staying with you tell her you will only do it, if she quits her job, and cuts contact with him.
Sorry man but this whole situation is sketch. In no world would I go out with a guy my boyfriend was already uncomfortable with alone. I get that you weren't home so she made plans before you got there, and it would have been fine if it was with friends! But she basically went on a date with this man because she likes the attention that she's receiving from him. This is not professional in any way.