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  1. I have no idea what you should do about this mess, just wanted to point out what a witty, magnificent writer you are. Your abilities seem to exceed the plunging area

  2. This is a LOT for 3 months. Too much. I love you a month in, constant fighting, him belittling you and calling you paranoid, him being defensive and lying about social media. “You can't force me to do something I don't want to do”. You should be in peak honeymoon phase where everything is wonderful – a fight or disagreement (not to the point of namecalling) here and there is normal but what you're describing sounds like constant highs and lows and emotional turmoil. It should be easy at 3 months, it sounds very not easy.

    You probably want to take a look at your own communication style and needs: it sounds like you may expect CONSTANT communication from him, which can be a red flag for codependency. Codependent types can be very drawn to volatile up-and-down type relationships and may be unwilling to give up on bad ones (which this is). I am not saying that is you – just that you may want to look into it and see if certain things resonate. I'd feel very smothered with that kind of mindset (if he's live! and not talking to me he's disrespecting me). That doesn't at all excuse the lying but he may not be entirely off base with the insecure.

    Between that, his lies, his “you can't MAKE ME” and refusal to compromise, how often it sounds like you guys are fighting, and how quickly things like “I love you” got thrown around this relationship sounds toxic and not good for you. You are not getting your needs met at the end of the day, and that is a perfectly good reason to not be in a relationship with someone.

  3. Another married couple decides to sleep with other people and it ends up with someone getting hurt. shocker.

  4. Age gap of 5 years, he's 29, she's 24, they've been together 9 years which makes OP 15 and husband 20, he's a pedophile and a groomer and that's all I need to know about this situation. It wasn't an accident.

  5. You either exist as you are with your laissez faire attitudes about life or you decide to take control of things by finding a new job and starting over with a clean slate. There comes a point when you're basically just allowing things to happen to you and not even being an active participant in your own life.

  6. Five different men in one week tells a lot about her morals and mental health. Do yourself a favour and release her back to the streets.

  7. OP you need to take care of yourself and kinda run away from this person. He is controlling and he is minimizing what you are feeling.

  8. And who knows if the girl is not actually more and they just say “oh we were just testing you”.

    Also i don't see the reason behind the test. What did he hoped happen? She could run back to his ex anytime, she doesn't need his silent-treatment. His excuse seems so weak. It is as if he wanted to fuck around and then give her the blame because she gives him insecurity about the ex.

  9. What did you do before you were together with him? How did you sleep? You want him to respect your feelings and needs. But you ignore and belittle your bf’s needs. He is your bf not your caregiver. Being this dependent on someone isn’t healthy. You are going to push him away.

  10. You aren’t anything with her atm so of course she’s still on there. Just meet up with her and bone her already

  11. This is about whether or not she should terminate the pregnancy because her ex will be mad if she doesn’t. Whether or not she’ll provide a good upbringing for the kid is a different conversation

  12. I might see about telling him he should have her reach out of social media or something, they’re not really outside of work type friends so inviting her to tag along to something might come off weird and tbh he’s almost as socially awkward as I am

  13. I'm not sure anyone can help you here. You completely fucked up your marriage and of course she doesn't trust you. I don't know what this “controlled environment” looks like but it is probably an attempt to stop you from using sex services and having affairs. But it probably isn't stopping you, is it?

    Might as well just get divorced and save her the time and trouble.

  14. You're right that OP should stand up for himself, but I would bet that the girlfriend's best friend is just counting on OP to blow up at him so that he can say, “See? I told you he was trash! He's yelling at me for no reason! He's such a bad guy!”

  15. The conversation with the nose job did take place as she came to me for help deciding. I told her at the time (the business wasn’t in the picture) that she already has so many loans and expensive rent to pay and that I wouldn’t suggest getting another loan or borrowing money for something you don’t need (there is absolutely no issue with her nose). She then asked her friends and her friends were all on board saying it’s something she’ll have for life so it’s a good idea. Therefore, she proceeded with booking the surgery.

  16. Honestly, I’m trying to be healthy and move forward and trust that he’s going to be trying to grow in relation to us. I want to believe he isn’t necessarily into her or has like feelings towards her. I have told him my boundaries and this time I am fully willing to walk away; not because of her specifically. but i’m fighting for my respect at this point. If he doesn’t pull it together, I am fully accepting to let us go because someone who loves you wouldn’t just disrespect you and not set boundaries for you.

  17. Not sure what a 20 year old sees in a teenager but that’s me. Plus long distance in separate countries…yea.

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