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  1. Also, if he truly did want to find a better job he would need to already have a job. Having a job makes you much more attractive to potential employers.

    If he wanted to get a really good job then his best bet would be to get whatever crappy job he can now and then in a year or two when the minor recession we're going into now is over then he can look for better, more long-term jobs with the pay/benefits he wants.

    As it stands, the longer he is unemployed the less employable he will become. You need to light a fire under him about getting whatever job he can even if it's temporary.

  2. First off, everything that you are feeling is valid. Most people consider sex to be one of several important components of a relationship, your needs aren't being met and it is probably making you feel like you aren't as connected to one another.

    I'd like to give you both some ideas, if that's alright. I have been on several antidepressants over the 10+ years I've been taking them and my partner and I have struggled with this issue in the past. Maybe some of these ideas can help you too 🙂

    Switching Meds She should talk to her doctor about potentially switching medications to help with her libido. But I want to caution you both: this might not be the solution so don't get your hopes up. Starting a new medication can mean a new set of side effects, or it could not work as well as her current meds. It takes several weeks (even a month or more) for the side effects to subside and to notice if the medication is helping her depression or not. It can be really naked on her to change meds, brains are tricky things so be patient and understand that she might need to go right back to her current meds if the new ones don't work as well.

    Initiate plenty of non-sexual touch You might not realize it, but if your cuddling usually leads to you wanting to fondle her it can be a real turn off. Hug, spoon, kiss her on the cheek and forehead, and give her physical contact without it ever getting intimate. I'm not saying that you aren't doing this already, but try to do it more so when you start to cuddle her she doesn't immediately think “I hope he doesn't want to have sex right now”.

    Talk about expectations This is just good advice for everybody, but have an open conversation about sex. Whether or not the new meds improve her libido, talk about expectations for the future. How frequently would you both like to have sex? What kind of sex do you each enjoy (oral, manual, PIV, solo, etc)? Make a list of your desires and fantasies! What do you like? What does she like? Get into all the juicy details together. What about Sex Lite™? A term I just made up to refer to everything but sex: making out, grinding, over the clothes kind of stuff. Maybe she would feel more comfortable if you both have the power to initiate this kind of intimacy but only she has the power to bump up the make out session to intercourse? Would she feel more welcome to kissing if she knew that she didn't have to turn you down if it escalated to wanting sex? Just an idea 🙂 You can have a schedule for sex and it doesn't have to kill the mood. It can be framed as something to look forward to! During the day you can flirt with each other, tease with a picture, talk about how excited you are… And of course you both have the power to say no, just because it's scheduled doesn't mean it's guaranteed but maybe having a schedule can make sex a bigger priority.

    In conclusion (sorry this is so long lol), I hope this gives you some conversation starters. Communication can make or break a relationship, you both need to be able to vocalize what you're feeling in a gentle, respectful way AND listen to what the other person is feeling without taking it as an insult. Start every nude conversation with, “I love you and I care about our relationship.” ❤️

  3. Sex with multiple “friends” that you invite to your wedding while failing to let your husband know.

  4. Why did you or her have to block people with only friendly relations? It would be healthier to meat each others friends of opposite gender.

  5. See. Reading comprehension. You're still not getting it. You said that I said “it was okay.” I didn't do that. I even preface my post by saying it wasn't.

    So, you never cited where I said “it was okay” because I never said that.

    It's amazing how some people can say “blue” and others hear “purple.

  6. Honestly it does after a while especially when repetitively. And the fact that a lot of it is common occurrences. He has a family doctor that’s the same one he’s been with since growing up, and the doctor isn’t really much help.

  7. Nah. Throw the whole boyfriend away. What he’s doing is manipulative. You are not required in any way, shape, or form to do anything sexually that you are not 100% comfortable with. He doesn’t deserve to be your boyfriend. DTMF

  8. “Break” means “break up unless I can’t find someone better during the break”

  9. Op I hope you understand that he doesn’t want to fully commit to you, he’s keeping you as a plan b in case he can’t find anyone else that’ll take him. It’s not just fucking other people but most likely he doesn’t want to be single and end up with no one.

    Also, never give your above and beyond for a bf. It’s not your responsibility to make their lives better when there’s no return for you.

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