If you need the money THAT bad then ask, otherwise if it's money you can part with then ask him to big up the next date or something in return to pay it back other ways.
Yeah I agree with this. Although, I think he is kinda a prick for making her breakfast for her birthday then asking her to share it. Like make enough for the both of you.
I do not really like sharing my food utensils or cups either, not even with my kids generally. I will occasionally.
Your only option is to communicate with her your feelings, let her know it makes you uncomfortable since both of you are in a relationship, and it's a boundary you have. Best of luck.
If somebody is going to assault someone a locked door isn’t going to stop them… and the whole point is that they’re there to prevent unwanted intruders…
I can’t imagine starting a marriage like this. It sounds like the end of one to me. Please let him go and finds someone that really loves and treasures you.
If you want to “support” him, try listening to him. He doesn’t want you there and instead of being “supportive” you are adding to his stress and making it about you.
His GP is not going to diagnose a brain tumor. He’d have to go get an MRI or CT and have a consult with a radiologist. The radiologist will write up their findings. If your BF wants to share those results with you, he can.
you wont be able to move on till you move on from physically being around her..You may be able to forgive but you will never forget and that is the problem. Whatever trust you had is gone and it is bullshit to say it can be fully rebuilt. You will forever have that doubt in your head with virtually every single guy around her now…so much easier to just find another person and start fresh.
She started crying in the middle of it.
doubtful but I am sure she tells you that.
but I did confront him via chat about the piece of shit he is. (
if he is a piece of shit, what is your GF? really think about that and then move on with another person.
She is still crushed, but ready to move on with the life, while I'm the one who is still stuck in the infidelity.
thats how it goes, the one who selfishly did something and fucks up the whole party wants you to forget it and move on, like they have..well my man the only real way to move on is to literally move on from her.
Not you literally but people I've known
Agreed
If you need the money THAT bad then ask, otherwise if it's money you can part with then ask him to big up the next date or something in return to pay it back other ways.
Do you have a job?
Yeah I agree with this. Although, I think he is kinda a prick for making her breakfast for her birthday then asking her to share it. Like make enough for the both of you.
I do not really like sharing my food utensils or cups either, not even with my kids generally. I will occasionally.
Your only option is to communicate with her your feelings, let her know it makes you uncomfortable since both of you are in a relationship, and it's a boundary you have. Best of luck.
21 and 13? wtf
If somebody is going to assault someone a locked door isn’t going to stop them… and the whole point is that they’re there to prevent unwanted intruders…
How do I go about handling it from here though?
I can’t imagine starting a marriage like this. It sounds like the end of one to me. Please let him go and finds someone that really loves and treasures you.
If you want to “support” him, try listening to him. He doesn’t want you there and instead of being “supportive” you are adding to his stress and making it about you.
His GP is not going to diagnose a brain tumor. He’d have to go get an MRI or CT and have a consult with a radiologist. The radiologist will write up their findings. If your BF wants to share those results with you, he can.
Seriously, back off.
This is abusive. He’s controlling and manipulative. What happened to you is horrible and he is using it against you. This is not ok.
you wont be able to move on till you move on from physically being around her..You may be able to forgive but you will never forget and that is the problem. Whatever trust you had is gone and it is bullshit to say it can be fully rebuilt. You will forever have that doubt in your head with virtually every single guy around her now…so much easier to just find another person and start fresh.
She started crying in the middle of it.
doubtful but I am sure she tells you that.
but I did confront him via chat about the piece of shit he is. (
if he is a piece of shit, what is your GF? really think about that and then move on with another person.
She is still crushed, but ready to move on with the life, while I'm the one who is still stuck in the infidelity.
thats how it goes, the one who selfishly did something and fucks up the whole party wants you to forget it and move on, like they have..well my man the only real way to move on is to literally move on from her.