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Dad vibe? So you're a father to them not a partner?
Of course they are. What people are trying to say is that no amount of positive qualities can make up for the behaviors you’ve described in this post.
Yeah, the way she said he has been suspicious for a while now makes me think OPs husband stumbled upon some new information and wants to see if she’ll come out and just be honest. I can’t imagine they’ve been arguing about this for 16 years without just getting a test or a divorce by now
This is what I was thinking!
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We’re entering our 5th year together
They’re not wrong.
I didn't have a choice..
No they weren’t a minor they were about 23-24, I will add that in though.
300 odd comments that think you're a troll because of how insecure you're acting…
… but it's everyone else that's a clown or embarrassing themselves. Dude, we're all just watching this circus
Your girlfriend is 100% in the wrong here. Your ex was the most important person in your life at one time. She's part of what made you who you are. Your gf has no right to ask you to delete them, and honestly it's MASSIVELY insecure and immature to even ask you to do so.
That said, you do need to do a little work to assuage her fears here, if you want to make your relationship go smoothly:
“Honey, you are my girlfriend now, not her. She was important to me once, and I still have fond memories of her and I want to continue to remember her, but I wake up every morning and choose to be with YOU, not her. I'm not going to delete the photos of her, but that's because she was an important part of my PAST. YOU are my present and my future. You are who matters to me now.”
And honestly, if she persists in this request, I'd have some serious issues with her.
Those that tried to blame you for being alone with Mary are victim blamers and don’t deserve your time of day.
You sound like a great husband, and that you really love your wife! Continue doing just that. I’m glad you guys are going NC with them.
I told him I wanted to have a sober conversation with him today. He said “beer sober”. So I second that possible alcohol issue .
Your gf sucks!!! You’ll find someone with a much more open mind don’t worry
I have done similar things with my wife, she didn't mind but that should probably have been discussed before just doing it for sure!
So op believes her name shouldn't change. They are non traditionalist and don't follow the “it has been done this way”. Clearly they believe name's are important.
So does op's fil. He believes in tradition and follows the passing of the name as it has always been done this way.
Talk about an opposite mirror. Everyone is an adult here. Actions have consequences. Op has decided on thier actions and fil too has also. Time to on-line with it.
All i see is loss. Kids and op's husband will lose thier father and grandfather, while fil will lose son and grandkids.
So op, i doubt thier is going to be any changes forward, so you have to on-line with it
But wouldn’t you say messaging them is not a big deal? Likes and comments aren’t enough?
I would end the relationship. He’s living with you. You pay all the bills. He is pushing his child care responsibilities onto you. What do you get out of this relationship? Are there so few men where you on-line? You can do better.
Lifelong migraines sufferer here and I got news for him nothing you do is gonna make your migraines any better. Have you been checked for sleep apnea because you could be having headaches because you have sleep apnea. I used to have sleep apnea until I lost some weight and I don’t have to use a CPAP machine anymore, sadly, my migraines won’t go away
ok, I can do that. I do really love him, he's my brother. and I respect and look up to him. .
Oh look, a decade older overweight man “sweetly” coaxing you into staying skinny for him. How cute.
This dude isn’t gentle and sweet, he’s disgusting.
Hey I'm with you on women being sexually assaulted. My point is that I don't think many women would rather stay quiet about a crime against them at the penalty of losing their marriage. I don't know this woman so maybe this is more likely. She seems to be trying everything to get back together and hasn't said anything about sexual assault so it seems unlikely to me but just my opinion
Are you in school right now?
Why would your parents fund that?
So, she's milking you dry. Properly called, the symptom is called hypersexuality.
Yeah, good old boys your age wouldn't get it why is that a problem.
Cheating is to go and seek romance and/or sex with other partners without the informed consent of your current one, which you aren't giving.
It is possible for this to be a symptom to something else:
bipolar disorder persistent genital arousal disorder endorphin addiction, expressed as sexual addiction
Possible, but less likely:
dementia rabies Klüver-Bucy syndrome
Honestly, tell her that you miss having a girlfriend, not a milking machine. That she needs to calm down and that you will help her seek professional help.
Your SO has a drinking problem. Take it from an ex-alcoholic, your SO 100% has a drinking problem. If she can’t get her shit together which I’m sure she can’t, she’s only going to keep doing this / dragging your through this hell. Break up with her fam.
There is no way complete strangers here can judge you or your bf over one incident. Just know that for sure.
My first question would be if he ever lost a pet, and how did he react then? You said (i think) his family pushes him to not show emotion. But when he lost a pet did his family find that an acceptable time to show emotion? Does he have a sister? Quite often people that are generally discouraged from showing emotion, but allowed to in certain scenarios, seem to others (who are unaware of their history) to be disproportionately emotional in those restrictive settings where showing emotion us allowed.
When reading your post, my first thought is that he was “reliving” an experience he went through. Maybe he was being a creep. But honestly you are trying to judge someone else’s behavior through the lense of your OwN experience. There simply is not enough information in one post about one event to truly evaluate his behavior.
Just ask him if he has lost a pet before, and if he is comfortable opening up about it. Ask him if what you all went through together reminded him of it,
Nope not working! Neither are my chats on that account, saying I have chat requests but showing nothing, but chats work on this account!!! I
It’s just difficult trying to figure out how to go through life when I’ve had this person by my side for years. I feel like major piece of who I am was taken away. I don’t have a close relationship like that with anyone. But that’s something that comes with years. I feel like I can’t do this
That's how abusers behave.
They love bomb their victims.
But beware, if ever they dare do things they don't aprove of!
You were groomed since 15 into believing that your relationship was a normal one.
Which definitely it is not.
let
is the worrying word here
She’s in a relationship with him and she said she loves him.
If I had a dollar, or whatever currency you want to measure that in, for every single time I see somebody claim to be in love with somebody else, I'd be able to buy twitter back from Elon Musk.
This whole situation is about people meeting on-line and being in LDR and the she found out the guy fucking stinks after meeting him in real life. There's no love here, these are on-line chatting buddies who got infatuated with their ideas about themselves, because they haven't yet met a better potential partner in real life.
Just take a fucking shower it's not rocket science.
I hope she did exactly that