I think mandatory doesn’t account for all the cases of childbirth. Let’s say a sexual assault resulted in her being pregnant and for a given reason she decided to keep the baby. Should she be reminded of the circumstances? I don’t think so. What of the cases when say the husband goes and has an affair, which results in pregnancy. Should his wife also be notified by hospital staff of the child. Seems only fair.. if it’s mandatory for father’s sake
that makes sense but how do i know if the hesitation is not due to some other reason like being ashamed of me or not telling his girl friends he is taken?
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Please know Jacob is a total scumbag and if it had not been Ellie it would have been some other girl. Your sister is going to be very sad and hurt for a long time but it is NOT your fault. She will move on some day and find someone better and Jacob and Ellie won't have the fairytale life they currently imagine together. Newborn babies are VERY HOT work and will put any relationship to the test. Not to mention your sister will likely get child support if not marital support. Jacob is in lala land but the second family court is in session it's gonna wipe that smile right off his stupid face.
Not everyone dates for fun. Some people, I would hope most, date to find their significant other. Their life partner.
You absolutely need to tell them on your first date. I mean it’s better on both parties as well. Why would you want either person to catch feelings if one of them isn’t willing to do this.
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I think mandatory doesn’t account for all the cases of childbirth. Let’s say a sexual assault resulted in her being pregnant and for a given reason she decided to keep the baby. Should she be reminded of the circumstances? I don’t think so. What of the cases when say the husband goes and has an affair, which results in pregnancy. Should his wife also be notified by hospital staff of the child. Seems only fair.. if it’s mandatory for father’s sake
that makes sense but how do i know if the hesitation is not due to some other reason like being ashamed of me or not telling his girl friends he is taken?
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Please know Jacob is a total scumbag and if it had not been Ellie it would have been some other girl. Your sister is going to be very sad and hurt for a long time but it is NOT your fault. She will move on some day and find someone better and Jacob and Ellie won't have the fairytale life they currently imagine together. Newborn babies are VERY HOT work and will put any relationship to the test. Not to mention your sister will likely get child support if not marital support. Jacob is in lala land but the second family court is in session it's gonna wipe that smile right off his stupid face.
Since you communicate so well, you most certainly are not having a conflict about who will take whose name after nine years together, right?
Or did you think that I am dumb and insecure enough to fall for the tactics that have allowed you to get over on the poor soul who chose to date you?
Not everyone dates for fun. Some people, I would hope most, date to find their significant other. Their life partner.
You absolutely need to tell them on your first date. I mean it’s better on both parties as well. Why would you want either person to catch feelings if one of them isn’t willing to do this.
Dump them.
If it wasn’t malicious, she wouldn’t have lied about it when you confronted her.
Don’t marry this woman dude.